I Need Help from a Gemini please

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Hi

I am a Sagittarius male i am 28 years of age i have recently for the past two months been together with a 27 year old Gemini woman.

Here's my problem she has a Ex partner who is also a Sagittarius man and he was very mean to her in there relationship he is an alcoholic and there was a time he even had her in a headlock show shes told me they have been split up now for nearly 2 years however he kept on saying he wanted her back but recently stopped and just texts about the children.

Her ex partner is still around as they have two children together.

We got together in December 2019 the 31st.

Now my partner the Gemini had recently told me last week that before me and her was together she had slept with him in September 2019 and it was a big mistake and she stopped it half way through because she realized what she was doing.

Me and her have a huge understanding and we are soulmates now i know it sounds crazy to say that but we basically are and its hard to describe anyway she tells me that she has never felt this way about anyone in her whole life and never seen her self being able to marry anyone until now not even with her ex I also feel the same way about her.



she has told me she wants nothing to do with him and that she is going to get a new phone just for there children to ring there dad on because he texts her on her phone calling her terrible names and saying shes a bad mother etc now what i cannot understand is why would she of even gone back there in the first place i understand it was before me and her but hes such a nasty peace of work i just cannot understand it .

She has since ordered the phone and then she picked it up but it never came with a charger in the box someone had taken it out so she had to return it and get a replacement phone. I have asked her the other day has she got that phone yet and she told me it is in store ready to collect and that its been a few days and she still hasn't collected it i haven't said a word since and she has not told me if shes collected it. Now i know it took her a lot tell me about her having sex with her ex before we was together because i could tell she was upset about it and when i asked why she didn't tell me sooner she said because she didn't want it to destroy us and she didn't want to loose me because she loves me.

Even this early on we are both very much in love with each other my problem is i am scared to death of loosing her as well but i am also thinking is she avoiding getting the phone because she still interested in her ex partner as well now she has a brilliant bond with my kids and i also have a lovely bond with hers and i love them like they was my own.

My partner seems pretty loyal and she seems like she has her head screwed on i just need help from a Gemini woman please.

Please can someone help me out.
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Nanorobot ) The reason behind the extra phone is so she do not have to put up with him sending her texts like yours a slag / your a terrible mother your this and that and ringing her phone early hours or like early morning this is why she thought it would be good to bar his number on her personal phone and give the two girls the other phone so they could talk at set times to there dad it’s only a keep £10 phone now I think of it I am unsure if that would really cure the problem anyway it’s probably pointless.
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Posted by Winters12

Thank you for your honesty 😁 I’m going to get my arse off here and continue being happy with her 😁because she really is amazing !!


Yeah, because she was honest and you being understanding and supportive was a smart move. The gem females I know get bogged down by clingy, worrisome, and distrustful males. Pay her back the same respect of being open. Let her mistake go and have fun, get her out of the house.
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@WateryGem I am unsure how would I find out what our moon and Venus is please my birthday is the 12/12/1991 hers is 07/06/1992


Your Gemini has some of the same placements as my ex. Except he has a Virgo moon. But same Mercury, Mars and Venus.

He was truthful and very loyal.

But you should just take it day by day and trust her for now.

The guy is her kids dad and will be around for a while until the kids are older.

If she says she has no interest in him, then you should trust her until she proves that she can’t be trusted.

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@WateryGem I am unsure how would I find out what our moon and Venus is please my birthday is the 12/12/1991 hers is 07/06/1992

Your Gemini has some of the same placements as my ex. Except he has a Virgo moon. But same Mercury, Mars and Venus.

He was truthful and very loyal.

But you should just take it day by day and trust her for now.

The guy is her kids dad and will be around for a while until the kids are older.

If she says she has no interest in him, then you should trust her until she proves that she can’t be trusted.
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I'm confused, did you pull.her chart and show a different moon sign than Virgo for her?
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@WateryGem I am unsure how would I find out what our moon and Venus is please my birthday is the 12/12/1991 hers is 07/06/1992

Your Gemini has some of the same placements as my ex. Except he has a Virgo moon. But same Mercury, Mars and Venus.

He was truthful and very loyal.

But you should just take it day by day and trust her for now.

The guy is her kids dad and will be around for a while until the kids are older.

If she says she has no interest in him, then you should trust her until she proves that she can’t be trusted.

I'm confused, did you pull.her chart and show a different moon sign than Virgo for her?
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I looked at her chart based off the birthday provided. The only difference would be moon and ascendant.
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@saggurl88 Thank you for your comment / That is what I am doing being completely honest and trusting her 100% until she proves me wrong however aren’t Gemini males / females different from each other the same as male/female Sagittarius? This is also another factor to consider. Thanks again.


I don't think there is much of a difference between males and females, with our signs.

and you're welcome 🙂
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@saggurl88 I know it may sound rude of me to ask but can I ask why he’s your Ex partner now if he was so truthful and loyal to you I don’t mind you private messaging me either thanks.

I tried to send you a message about what happened but it didn't go through. We had a long relationship though, over 20 years, we met as teenagers in highschool 🙂
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@saggurl88 sounds like you really was happy for a long time 😁 I hope it didn’t end on bad terms for you . I.e cheating etc


Nope, I said he was loyal lol

Neither of us cheated, he was just irresponsible and I took care of too much as a women. I needed there to be a better balance on him as a man, and there wasn't. I kept thinking he would grow up and out of that behavior, but he got used to me being the responsible one. So I didn't want that for the rest of my life.
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@saggurl88 Thank you for your comment / That is what I am doing being completely honest and trusting her 100% until she proves me wrong however aren’t Gemini males / females different from each other the same as male/female Sagittarius? This is also another factor to consider. Thanks again.

yes super different!!!! Like night and day!!!
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What do you think is so different between males and females?
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@saggurl88 Thank you for your comment / That is what I am doing being completely honest and trusting her 100% until she proves me wrong however aren’t Gemini males / females different from each other the same as male/female Sagittarius? This is also another factor to consider. Thanks again.

yes super different!!!! Like night and day!!!

What do you think is so different between males and females?

I mean I was watching national geographic one time and the narrator said "the female gender of any species is always more lethal." I don't know how that translates into astrology since I don't deal with a lot of Gemini women. I'm going off what I see here.
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LMAO! You would be correct in this assumption. Luckily you Geminis are sweethearts so that's not needed in a Sag/Gem relationship.
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@saggurl88 Thank you for your comment / That is what I am doing being completely honest and trusting her 100% until she proves me wrong however aren’t Gemini males / females different from each other the same as male/female Sagittarius? This is also another factor to consider. Thanks again.

yes super different!!!! Like night and day!!!

What do you think is so different between males and females?

I mean I was watching national geographic one time and the narrator said "the female gender of any species is always more lethal." I don't know how that translates into astrology since I don't deal with a lot of Gemini women. I'm going off what I see here.

LMAO! You would be correct in this assumption. Luckily you Geminis are sweethearts so that's not needed in a Sag/Gem relationship.

I've heard crazy stories about Gemini women. I dated one in hs. I got this Gemini chicks number one time and stopped texting when I realized she gave me a TextNow number. I didn't want to be another body count. I've had chances but I've never been with a sag.
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You should try a Sag, It really is a great experience. What made you not try, if you've had chances?
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@saggurl88 Thank you for your comment / That is what I am doing being completely honest and trusting her 100% until she proves me wrong however aren’t Gemini males / females different from each other the same as male/female Sagittarius? This is also another factor to consider. Thanks again.

yes super different!!!! Like night and day!!!

What do you think is so different between males and females?

I mean I was watching national geographic one time and the narrator said "the female gender of any species is always more lethal." I don't know how that translates into astrology since I don't deal with a lot of Gemini women. I'm going off what I see here.

LMAO! You would be correct in this assumption. Luckily you Geminis are sweethearts so that's not needed in a Sag/Gem relationship.

I've heard crazy stories about Gemini women. I dated one in hs. I got this Gemini chicks number one time and stopped texting when I realized she gave me a TextNow number. I didn't want to be another body count. I've had chances but I've never been with a sag.

You should try a Sag, It really is a great experience. What made you not try, if you've had chances?

sag women are not for me! I know my limits lol.
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Lol. What’s wrong with us? We are similar to you guys. Fun and wild! 😜
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@saggurl88 Thank you for your comment / That is what I am doing being completely honest and trusting her 100% until she proves me wrong however aren’t Gemini males / females different from each other the same as male/female Sagittarius? This is also another factor to consider. Thanks again.

yes super different!!!! Like night and day!!!

What do you think is so different between males and females?

I mean I was watching national geographic one time and the narrator said "the female gender of any species is always more lethal." I don't know how that translates into astrology since I don't deal with a lot of Gemini women. I'm going off what I see here.

LMAO! You would be correct in this assumption. Luckily you Geminis are sweethearts so that's not needed in a Sag/Gem relationship.

I've heard crazy stories about Gemini women. I dated one in hs. I got this Gemini chicks number one time and stopped texting when I realized she gave me a TextNow number. I didn't want to be another body count. I've had chances but I've never been with a sag.

Was that back when you were an Aries?
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Lmao 😂🤣😅
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@saggurl88 Thank you for your comment / That is what I am doing being completely honest and trusting her 100% until she proves me wrong however aren’t Gemini males / females different from each other the same as male/female Sagittarius? This is also another factor to consider. Thanks again.

yes super different!!!! Like night and day!!!

What do you think is so different between males and females?

I mean I was watching national geographic one time and the narrator said "the female gender of any species is always more lethal." I don't know how that translates into astrology since I don't deal with a lot of Gemini women. I'm going off what I see here.

LMAO! You would be correct in this assumption. Luckily you Geminis are sweethearts so that's not needed in a Sag/Gem relationship.

I've heard crazy stories about Gemini women. I dated one in hs. I got this Gemini chicks number one time and stopped texting when I realized she gave me a TextNow number. I didn't want to be another body count. I've had chances but I've never been with a sag.

You should try a Sag, It really is a great experience. What made you not try, if you've had chances?

sag women are not for me! I know my limits lol.

Lol. What’s wrong with us? We are similar to you guys. Fun and wild! 😜

you guys are cool. You're cool. But my Gemini sun is sandwiched between 2 fixed signs.

I really don't like don't like speaking negatively about others even tho I've been doing a lot of that here but I will say I grew up with 3 sag sister's and they've all been married multiple times, different set of children with different dude's. Everytime I don't see them for months and come back I'm meeting a new set of guys.

You guys are fun. Awesome conversations. Outside the box thinker's which is always refreshing. I've just never seen the sign as relationship material.
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I think charts have to do with it, I'm cardinal and fixed heavy, so I don't do a lot of flighty stuff or been married multiple times and have tons of kids with different dudes. Although it does lessen the burden of one man paying child support, if you have more then 1 babies daddy. 😛

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I guess just be open to meeting someone and seeing where it goes.

You as a Gemini, know what they say about you, but each one is different, just like you said. You have fixed signs stacked in there, so you would be a little different then a typical Gemini.

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@saggurl88 Thank you for your comment / That is what I am doing being completely honest and trusting her 100% until she proves me wrong however aren’t Gemini males / females different from each other the same as male/female Sagittarius? This is also another factor to consider. Thanks again.

yes super different!!!! Like night and day!!!

What do you think is so different between males and females?

I mean I was watching national geographic one time and the narrator said "the female gender of any species is always more lethal." I don't know how that translates into astrology since I don't deal with a lot of Gemini women. I'm going off what I see here.

LMAO! You would be correct in this assumption. Luckily you Geminis are sweethearts so that's not needed in a Sag/Gem relationship.

I've heard crazy stories about Gemini women. I dated one in hs. I got this Gemini chicks number one time and stopped texting when I realized she gave me a TextNow number. I didn't want to be another body count. I've had chances but I've never been with a sag.

You should try a Sag, It really is a great experience. What made you not try, if you've had chances?

sag women are not for me! I know my limits lol.

Lol. What’s wrong with us? We are similar to you guys. Fun and wild! 😜

you guys are cool. You're cool. But my Gemini sun is sandwiched between 2 fixed signs.

I really don't like don't like speaking negatively about others even tho I've been doing a lot of that here but I will say I grew up with 3 sag sister's and they've all been married multiple times, different set of children with different dude's. Everytime I don't see them for months and come back I'm meeting a new set of guys.

You guys are fun. Awesome conversations. Outside the box thinker's which is always refreshing. I've just never seen the sign as relationship material.

I think charts have to do with it, I'm cardinal and fixed heavy, so I don't do a lot of flighty stuff or been married multiple times and have tons of kids with different dudes. Although it does lessen the burden of one man paying child support, if you have more then 1 babies daddy. 😛

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I guess just be open to meeting someone and seeing where it goes.

You as a Gemini, know what they say about you, but each one is different, just like you said. You have fixed signs stacked in there, so you would be a little different then a typical Gemini.

you're cool people's! I think you might be cool to chill with in real life.
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Thanks. I like to think I am! 😄 You seem cool too