Gemini girl ignoring me.

I'm an Aquarius guy. I met this Gemini girl 2017, at a 3 weeks symposium. We got along well the whole time. After the close of the symposium, we all traveled back to our different bases, about 10hour drive from each other.

We kept in touch frequently on whatsapp and phone calls. I officially asked her out may 2018, she told me she wasn't interested in anything serious at that moment that we should continue being friends. We kept talking at intervals on phone, and she keeps sounding very nice and friendly everytime.

It gave me the push to officially ask her out again just yesterday, this time, told her I wanted a situation where we can get married in the next one year or whenever she feels she's ready, at her own discretion. She asks I gave her time to think about it.

I've called her 5 times on phone today, and she isn't picking my calls nor returning them, but she's online on whatsapp and viewing my status updates.

I would've traveled to where she stays, but she works Monday's through saturdays and attends lectures of some sort on Sundays.

I'm 30, she's 24.

What do you guys make of this, do I stand a chance? Or how else can I win her over?

Thanks.

You’re not dating and you’re asking her to marry you in a year. I’d feel uncomfortable about that. And now you’re calling a bunch. Time to give her space.

Seems I've jumped the gun too fast by talking about marriage and calling her all those times in just under 24hours.

Hope I haven't ruined every thing already as it is, because I really want to be with her.

Posted by Antiphates

Geminis (and people in general) usually have to suffer a bit before they move into a relationship.

Consider it to be form of foreplay.

You mean like a "playing hard to get"? And wants to test my seriousness?

I'm just trying to be careful not to press a wrong button and ruin every thing.

Posted by Princely

I'm an Aquarius guy. I met this Gemini girl 2017, at a 3 weeks symposium. We got along well the whole time. After the close of the symposium, we all traveled back to our different bases, about 10hour drive from each other.

We kept in touch frequently on whatsapp and phone calls. I officially asked her out may 2018, she told me she wasn't interested in anything serious at that moment that we should continue being friends. We kept talking at intervals on phone, and she keeps sounding very nice and friendly everytime.

It gave me the push to officially ask her out again just yesterday, this time, told her I wanted a situation where we can get married in the next one year or whenever she feels she's ready, at her own discretion. She asks I gave her time to think about it.

I've called her 5 times on phone today, and she isn't picking my calls nor returning them, but she's online on whatsapp and viewing my status updates.

I would've traveled to where she stays, but she works Monday's through saturdays and attends lectures of some sort on Sundays.

I'm 30, she's 24.

What do you guys make of this, do I stand a chance? Or how else can I win her over?

Thanks.

I think you went too fast lol. I mean you're supposed to be having coffee first and yet you're talking about marriage. And she's 24, Gemini still wants to party and play around at that age. If she is a girlfriend material, you need to take it slow even if she's a Gemini your move was just too fast and too serious.

Posted by Princely

Posted by Antiphates

Geminis (and people in general) usually have to suffer a bit before they move into a relationship.

Consider it to be form of foreplay.

You mean like a "playing hard to get"? And wants to test my seriousness?

I'm just trying to be careful not to press a wrong button and ruin every thing.

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Depends on your gemini but don't play mind games. Despite our reputation, Gemini wants to be taken seriously and wants serious relationship. But think of her as somewhat like an aquarius, marriage is such a big commitment and it's just too early to talk about commitment for someone you're not even in a proper relationship with. And talking about marriage is not always a good expression of your seriousness. Try to be yourself and let your action speak for itself. Don't be too aggressive and treat her as your equal.

Are you indian?

Posted by besarlalluvia

Are you indian?

No I'm not Indian...

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Posted by Princely

Posted by Antiphates

Geminis (and people in general) usually have to suffer a bit before they move into a relationship.

Consider it to be form of foreplay.

You mean like a "playing hard to get"? And wants to test my seriousness?

I'm just trying to be careful not to press a wrong button and ruin every thing.

Depends on your gemini but don't play mind games. Despite our reputation, Gemini wants to be taken seriously and wants serious relationship. But think of her as somewhat like an aquarius, marriage is such a big commitment and it's just too early to talk about commitment for someone you're not even in a proper relationship with. And talking about marriage is not always a good expression of your seriousness. Try to be yourself and let your action speak for itself. Don't be too aggressive and treat her as your equal.

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My problem Is, I never got any clue that she'll reject my advances or something like that as she's always nice when we talk on phone. Thought she'd be receptive. I don't know how to read her

Posted by besarlalluvia

Are you indian?

He would have asked for bobs and vagine. Not marriage 😆

A woman's politeness does not equate to "I want to be with you." 😒

If you want to "read" her, ASK the RIGHT QUESTIONS. Don't assume.

That's a good starting point.

Is this to say I shouldn't try to reach her again on my own till she comes to me herself, or try again in a few days?

Posted by Aquaman2

Posted by besarlalluvia

Are you indian?

@besarlalluvia are you Indian ??

There was this girl from vietnam or japan i guess .....she married an Indian...she used to post everyday here about her relationship...do u remember her ?

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No and no

Posted by Princely

I'm an Aquarius guy. I met this Gemini girl 2017, at a 3 weeks symposium. We got along well the whole time. After the close of the symposium, we all traveled back to our different bases, about 10hour drive from each other.

We kept in touch frequently on whatsapp and phone calls. I officially asked her out may 2018, she told me she wasn't interested in anything serious at that moment that we should continue being friends. We kept talking at intervals on phone, and she keeps sounding very nice and friendly everytime.

It gave me the push to officially ask her out again just yesterday, this time, told her I wanted a situation where we can get married in the next one year or whenever she feels she's ready, at her own discretion. She asks I gave her time to think about it.

I've called her 5 times on phone today, and she isn't picking my calls nor returning them, but she's online on whatsapp and viewing my status updates.

I would've traveled to where she stays, but she works Monday's through saturdays and attends lectures of some sort on Sundays.

I'm 30, she's 24.

What do you guys make of this, do I stand a chance? Or how else can I win her over?

Thanks.

Man, just text her ... Hey, the marriage thing was a Bad Joke...... I didnt think you was going to take it seriously.. ! And after that, LEAVE HER ALONE! .... Gemini, dont like commitment, specially someone who told you she does not wants anything serious ahead of time. If you want something to work between you and Gemini... you gotta take it like a game, that's their moto. Im aquarius too. but If someone tells me about marriage when we are not even dating... I will run away thinking he is a Creep.

Posted by besarlalluvia

Are you indian?

lol

some people are into crazy people.

don't feel bad about dropping the m word.

Ok. Let me just say it...SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU!

Leave her alone! Respect her rights NOT to be into you. At all!