I need help with Gemini guy?

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Bee93
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6 Years

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Hi there! ... I met him 6 weeks ago he’s intelligent well traveled witty, speaks different languages very passionate and outgoing, we talked and hung out couple times and he came over once to help me with furniture, he asked me to join his friends drive by birthday picnic and his brother birthday hike but I turned him down both times because he’s always surrounded by friends and family and I feel awkward around them especially when we’re not official, he gets me flowers and coffee and act as if it’s nothing special he’s “ just helping a friend out “

Do you think he’s gonna lose interest if I showed him my introverted side? I’m nerdy and goofy around him but deep down I’m emotional and soft, I don’t know if Geminis are into that and I don’t know how to attract him to be something more and keep his interest?

Also this is his chart... do you think he’s more reliable and grounded than average Gemini?

Sun Gemini 21°26

Moon Leo 18°20

Mercury Cancer 12°26

Venus Cancer 26°23

Mars Capricorn 23°00

Jupiter Pisces 21°27

N Node Aries 28°39
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He’s gonna loose interest because he’s trying to involve you in his life and you keep turning him down.

He’s not gonna make things ‘official’ until he gets a sense of how you fit into his social circle. Also it’s been 6 weeks, it’s early days. He’s still feeling you out. But the fact he wants to introduce you to friends and family is a huge indicator he’s wanting to include you further in his life. You turning him down gives the impression your not as interested in him as he is in you.

You have anxiety around the idea of meeting people. No worries. But tell him that so he doesn’t get the wrong impression.

And I find gemini suns on the whole to be very reliable and grounded. So get rid of your pre-conceived notions of cat lady astrology. It’s not going to serve you well here.
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Bee93
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He’s gonna loose interest because he’s trying to involve you in his life and you keep turning him down.

He’s not gonna make things ‘official’ until he gets a sense of how you fit into his social circle. Also it’s been 6 weeks, it’s early days. He’s still feeling you out. But the fact he wants to introduce you to friends and family is a huge indicator he’s wanting to include you further in his life. You turning him down gives the impression your not as interested in him as he is in you.

You have anxiety around the idea of meeting people. No worries. But tell him that so he doesn’t get the wrong impression.

And I find gemini suns on the whole to be very reliable and grounded. So get rid of your pre-conceived notions of cat lady astrology. It’s not going to serve you well here.


You’re totally right, he told me once that he likes a girl that can get along with his friends and family because he’s constantly around them that’s why I’m scared to show him how shy I am, also I turn him down but I agree to go out with him alone after that to make up for it.