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Question for you?
Posted by alexscaries
Honestly it's difficult to tell. The fact she called you paranoid indicates she is trying to deflect the question with an insult (being called paranoid).
I don't know all the circumstances, but you have two options: break contact and find someone else or confront her about it and ask what happened.
What I would do is break contact for a while and see if she contacts you, a fortnight at least. If she doesn't maybe contact her asking if she is OK. Ultimately say if she slept with Danny the Fanny do you want to see her? Can you put it behind you? Don't accuse her based on what is effectively zero evidence. It could show a lack of trust on your part, but there's two other questions: how would she feel if you went away with a female friend even if she wasn't attractive lookswise? Would you go away with a female friend - just you and a young child?
One I wouldn't go away with another woman when I am still involved with a woman.
Two she would cut contact with me and probably block me on everything.
So yeah theirs your answer.
She promised me she'd call me on the evenings when she went to bed and she never did call me and I tried to call her and she ignored me it wasn't until I sent a few text messages that I had a reply from her.
I feel like their could be more to the story than meets the eye.
Why is she completely ignoring him now and why isn't she mentioning him at all.
Did he make a move on her while she was drunk she could of been half asleep and drunk and he could of made a move and then she realised he was on her it's a possibility.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by Centaur12Posted by alexscaries
Honestly it's difficult to tell. The fact she called you paranoid indicates she is trying to deflect the question with an insult (being called paranoid).
I don't know all the circumstances, but you have two options: break contact and find someone else or confront her about it and ask what happened.
What I would do is break contact for a while and see if she contacts you, a fortnight at least. If she doesn't maybe contact her asking if she is OK. Ultimately say if she slept with Danny the Fanny do you want to see her? Can you put it behind you? Don't accuse her based on what is effectively zero evidence. It could show a lack of trust on your part, but there's two other questions: how would she feel if you went away with a female friend even if she wasn't attractive lookswise? Would you go away with a female friend - just you and a young child?
One I wouldn't go away with another woman when I am still involved with a woman.
Two she would cut contact with me and probably block me on everything.
So yeah theirs your answer.
She promised me she'd call me on the evenings when she went to bed and she never did call me and I tried to call her and she ignored me it wasn't until I sent a few text messages that I had a reply from her.
I feel like their could be more to the story than meets the eye.
Why is she completely ignoring him now and why isn't she mentioning him at all.
Did he make a move on her while she was drunk she could of been half asleep and drunk and he could of made a move and then she realised he was on her it's a possibility.
It's a possibility. Another could be maybe he said something inappropriate rather than did something inappropriate. Maybe she liked him enough to go away with him and found him boring on a weekend. Lots of possibilities, pointless trying to second guess.
In my past relationship the woman I was dating spoke to a lot of people including men and had male friends. I had no issues with them hanging around with her as I trusted her implicitly and as big-headed as it sounds I knew she chose me and I considered myself to be better for her.click to expand
Yes, this was the case for me as when we first got together I never had a problem with her being around her male friends form the gym she would go to the park meet up with them and their kids.
The problem I had was when it started to become just this one guy who would text her every day non stop for 3 - 4 months joking and random shit and it randomly started and then finished.
And then when they went on a camping trip together lol I mean come on its not normal.
Posted by Gobbie
Come on, let's be honest here. It's not going anywhere.
Just call it a day.
I could call it a day but I obviously don't want to I have this Libra woman trying to contact me alot the past 3 - 4 days wanting to meet up it's a friend from years ago but I stopped messaging as I want to work this out its not the fact that I cant hang out with other girls it's just she is the one I want and the person I know deep inside her is who I love when we aren't playing games with eachother etc.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by Centaur12Posted by alexscariesPosted by Centaur12Posted by alexscaries
Honestly it's difficult to tell. The fact she called you paranoid indicates she is trying to deflect the question with an insult (being called paranoid).
I don't know all the circumstances, but you have two options: break contact and find someone else or confront her about it and ask what happened.
What I would do is break contact for a while and see if she contacts you, a fortnight at least. If she doesn't maybe contact her asking if she is OK. Ultimately say if she slept with Danny the Fanny do you want to see her? Can you put it behind you? Don't accuse her based on what is effectively zero evidence. It could show a lack of trust on your part, but there's two other questions: how would she feel if you went away with a female friend even if she wasn't attractive lookswise? Would you go away with a female friend - just you and a young child?
One I wouldn't go away with another woman when I am still involved with a woman.
Two she would cut contact with me and probably block me on everything.
So yeah theirs your answer.
She promised me she'd call me on the evenings when she went to bed and she never did call me and I tried to call her and she ignored me it wasn't until I sent a few text messages that I had a reply from her.
I feel like their could be more to the story than meets the eye.
Why is she completely ignoring him now and why isn't she mentioning him at all.
Did he make a move on her while she was drunk she could of been half asleep and drunk and he could of made a move and then she realised he was on her it's a possibility.
It's a possibility. Another could be maybe he said something inappropriate rather than did something inappropriate. Maybe she liked him enough to go away with him and found him boring on a weekend. Lots of possibilities, pointless trying to second guess.
In my past relationship the woman I was dating spoke to a lot of people including men and had male friends. I had no issues with them hanging around with her as I trusted her implicitly and as big-headed as it sounds I knew she chose me and I considered myself to be better for her.
Yes, this was the case for me as when we first got together I never had a problem with her being around her male friends form the gym she would go to the park meet up with them and their kids.
The problem I had was when it started to become just this one guy who would text her every day non stop for 3 - 4 months joking and random shit and it randomly started and then finished.
And then when they went on a camping trip together lol I mean come on its not normal.
Is he Cancer?
I would ask yourself why you feel threatened by this man. Especially if lookswise he isn't that special. Maybe your relationship isn't as stable as you thought. Maybe time to think about an exit strategy. A good start would be getting your things back.click to expand
Nope, he is a Taurus.
And I felt threatened because I know things have been difficult for us like with the whole family thing and we was up and down all the time and he was just sat in the back ground bantering and keeping things light with her.
Not just that he knew her way before me.
She could be genuinely frustrated the guy she considered as friend suddenly expressed sexual interest. Happened to me as well. Really do not think it has anything to do with your relationship, she was just upset.
What does it mattered if something more happened. You broke things off with her. She is a free bird and can do whatever she likes.
FYI this is more spam. You said last time you were done. Liar.
FYI this is more spam. You said last time you were done. Liar.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by Centaur12Posted by alexscariesPosted by Centaur12Posted by alexscaries
Honestly it's difficult to tell. The fact she called you paranoid indicates she is trying to deflect the question with an insult (being called paranoid).
I don't know all the circumstances, but you have two options: break contact and find someone else or confront her about it and ask what happened.
What I would do is break contact for a while and see if she contacts you, a fortnight at least. If she doesn't maybe contact her asking if she is OK. Ultimately say if she slept with Danny the Fanny do you want to see her? Can you put it behind you? Don't accuse her based on what is effectively zero evidence. It could show a lack of trust on your part, but there's two other questions: how would she feel if you went away with a female friend even if she wasn't attractive lookswise? Would you go away with a female friend - just you and a young child?
One I wouldn't go away with another woman when I am still involved with a woman.
Two she would cut contact with me and probably block me on everything.
So yeah theirs your answer.
She promised me she'd call me on the evenings when she went to bed and she never did call me and I tried to call her and she ignored me it wasn't until I sent a few text messages that I had a reply from her.
I feel like their could be more to the story than meets the eye.
Why is she completely ignoring him now and why isn't she mentioning him at all.
Did he make a move on her while she was drunk she could of been half asleep and drunk and he could of made a move and then she realised he was on her it's a possibility.
It's a possibility. Another could be maybe he said something inappropriate rather than did something inappropriate. Maybe she liked him enough to go away with him and found him boring on a weekend. Lots of possibilities, pointless trying to second guess.
In my past relationship the woman I was dating spoke to a lot of people including men and had male friends. I had no issues with them hanging around with her as I trusted her implicitly and as big-headed as it sounds I knew she chose me and I considered myself to be better for her.
Yes, this was the case for me as when we first got together I never had a problem with her being around her male friends form the gym she would go to the park meet up with them and their kids.
The problem I had was when it started to become just this one guy who would text her every day non stop for 3 - 4 months joking and random shit and it randomly started and then finished.
And then when they went on a camping trip together lol I mean come on its not normal.
Is he Cancer?
I would ask yourself why you feel threatened by this man. Especially if lookswise he isn't that special. Maybe your relationship isn't as stable as you thought. Maybe time to think about an exit strategy. A good start would be getting your things back.click to expand
âLookswise he isnât that specialâ??
Donât know what you mean! đĄ
It's not her, it's you! You will react the same to anyone you want to control, but can't.
Look at the amount of detail you are squeezing out of a stone, when the obsession takes over!
This is not love, it's pathology. For the sake of your children, go get some therapy! Dxpnet can't help you.
Look at the amount of detail you are squeezing out of a stone, when the obsession takes over!
This is not love, it's pathology. For the sake of your children, go get some therapy! Dxpnet can't help you.
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Hi guys! I apologize if this is long ! I have observed some things about Sag men, as a Gemini woman they are my opposite so I know we approach things way differently, but I have noticed that they can be pretty compatible in terms of learning new things, liking light and fun conversations, the life of the party, and they can learn a great deal of things from each other.
That's not why I'm posting this though, I keep hearing that Sagittarius men are very independent, love to be free and aren't very commitment type of guys but honestly in my experience I find them extremely clingy! This turns me off so much about them, as a Gemini it's not that we can't have commitment because it depends totally on so many other factors in our chart but the need for space and just generally not getting attached to people quickly is something I feel a lot. From my experience every Sag I've known comes across immature, know it alls, insecure and CLINGY! What I mean by clingy is they are literally up my ass all the time.:teeth
Now I'm always hearing that Sag is the most independent sign but honestly I think Geminis have them beat in that department, as far as I've experienced I can't seem to get rid of them and initially in the beginning of the friendships I've had with them it always starts out great but then I notice a pattern they almost want to conquer me? or just always trying to keep me in the wraps, which just seems so much the opposite of what most people describe Sag as! I'm not sure if it's because Sag are used to women fawning over them or what but the lack of attention I give them seems to make them want me more? I do have a lot of Sag energy, Sun, Moon, Mercury & Lilith all in the ninth house and my 3rd house in Sag, 9th house in Gemini, so this must be why I attract them so often but I never feel it on my side of things..
Have any of you experienced this? I also want to say this is not for all Sag people, I'm more talking from my experience with them specifically the men. I'm genuinely curious, thank you.
That's not why I'm posting this though, I keep hearing that Sagittarius men are very independent, love to be free and aren't very commitment type of guys but honestly in my experience I find them extremely clingy! This turns me off so much about them, as a Gemini it's not that we can't have commitment because it depends totally on so many other factors in our chart but the need for space and just generally not getting attached to people quickly is something I feel a lot. From my experience every Sag I've known comes across immature, know it alls, insecure and CLINGY! What I mean by clingy is they are literally up my ass all the time.:teeth
Now I'm always hearing that Sag is the most independent sign but honestly I think Geminis have them beat in that department, as far as I've experienced I can't seem to get rid of them and initially in the beginning of the friendships I've had with them it always starts out great but then I notice a pattern they almost want to conquer me? or just always trying to keep me in the wraps, which just seems so much the opposite of what most people describe Sag as! I'm not sure if it's because Sag are used to women fawning over them or what but the lack of attention I give them seems to make them want me more? I do have a lot of Sag energy, Sun, Moon, Mercury & Lilith all in the ninth house and my 3rd house in Sag, 9th house in Gemini, so this must be why I attract them so often but I never feel it on my side of things..
Have any of you experienced this? I also want to say this is not for all Sag people, I'm more talking from my experience with them specifically the men. I'm genuinely curious, thank you.
Wait... what was the question?
Posted by MaxianPosted by LadyNeptune
Wait... what was the question?
If you know if something happened on the camping trip (like you were actually there... ffs!?!?!) so he can stress more about it.
Why God? Whyyyyyyyyy this madness!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!click to expand
lmao literally god(dess) only knows at this point.
Posted by Centaur12
If you have followed my past posts well let's be honest I was spaming dxp with my crap for a while at one point lol.
Anyway if you followed my past post about Gem going away on a camping trip with the 43 year old guy from her kickboxing gym the Danny DeVito lookalike đ .
Well he was none stop texting her for around 3 months after he had a devorce and she was texting back he was laughing and joking over texts.
Anyway I got pretty annoyed with this as it was every single day that he would text her and it wasn't fair as she wouldn't like that if it was the other way around.
Well she got back from this trip on a Thursday afternoon she had kickboxing on the Saturday a few days after and I spoke to her and asked how kickboxing went on the Saturday and she said yeah Okay I stayed in the car with my youngest daughter while my older daughter done her kickboxing tho.
I said oh how come as usually theirs a group of them outside chatting to eachother while they wait for the children class to finish.
She said I need to take a step back and I said what do you mean you wouldn't just say this and she said well the guy who I went away with I couldn't believe I didn't see it before you was right his son was non stop asking me if I like his dad and saying his dad likes me he can tell and she said his dad won a Teddy bear on the machine and his son said I am going to name this Teddy bear Paul as that's the guys name and the son said do you want this Teddy he's called Paul and she said no I do not want it.
But Paul I.e (Danny DeVito) did not say a word and she said she couldn't believe it and seen what I was worried about all this time.
Well since that I have seen on her phone that she has opened his messages on WhatsApp and left them on read and not replied and same with texts she hasn't made any contact with him and has completely stopped communicating with him.
But here's the thing I was moaning about this guy for months saying he wants more with you why can't you see this and she was like stop being paranoid and keeping on he's just a friends ffs and I was saying I don't like it at all stop and she never she fought me on this like crazy to the point where we was arguing non stop.
Now all of a sudden the whole things has stopped do you think more happend on this camping trip than she is telling me as its all a bit strange.... but just want to know what you guys think.
I think you are constantly looking for something to gripe about. It's irksome.
Anyway, she screwed around (or hoped to) and it went south so she's backing off.
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