Watery Gem Love-Bomb (Page 2)

Posted by KimboSlice

Posted by LuckyLibra7
Her looking me up is not a sign of interest, it's her ego. She's curious as to why I'm not chasing her but John in her DMs won't leave her alone probably. My Gem ex used to do this after an argument. Some time passes and she would attempt to show face by waiting until I post, and she pops up. I would ignore that and eventually she reached out, like adults should do.
A sign of interest is actually reaching out to chat. She doesn't need to "ask me out" or anything ridiculous. This is just seeking a reaction.

How old are you man lol. Why are you worried about John in her DMs when you were never exclusive. Either you got a case of cuck brain or you are unreasonably entitled. It’s always a numbers game with dating. She was clearly rocking with you since she returned the kiss and kept an eye on you.

“At least I didn’t block her” you might as well just lose her number at this point too, even if you’re operating on bad faith. It would be wishful thinking on your part if you think she’ll reach out. Probably dries up when she thinks about you now. Women (especially older) can tell the difference between a man staying busy living his life and a hurt little boy. Remember that or you’ll be a passport bro your whole life.

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It’s just seems like a lot is beneath you OP and you don’t have alot of patience.

I get it, I don’t suffer fools as well but you’ve got to have patience

I do believe this courtship is over tho. Not enough interest on your end

Posted by DMV
It’s just seems like a lot is beneath you OP and you don’t have alot of patience.

I get it, I don’t suffer fools as well but you’ve got to have patience

I do believe this courtship is over tho. Not enough interest on your end

I agree! I walked away with certain understanding of OPs placements and him:

1. OP is way too uppity which is just to mask insecurities that drive him to take rash actions (block or deleting people). Thinks people are orbiting him (way too full of himself). Sometimes people just view other people’s stories out of sheer curiosity or to learn more about them. I’d say she was curious to learn more about you or curious to see if you’re into her despite your cool facade.

2. You’d think that he wrote here to understand where he possibly went wrong but given how defensive he’s becoming and coming up with pretexts to justify his rashness goes to show he wasn’t looking for constructive criticism but rather validation. Typical Libra self-victimhood behaviour mixed with massive ego of Aqua moon.

3. He self-sabotages out of insecurities and fear of rejection. He was seeing an 8.5 looker, who he knows has many Johns hitting on yet he expects her to dedicate her undivided attention to him after like 2 dates yet he also denies that he was ever seriously considering marriage or long term. Oh, the defense mechanism is high! His behaviour and his rating of her shows that he was really digging her but like a typical amateur with no game, he played the cool/non-chalant card because he didn’t wanna show how much he was digging her. When she pulled back after seeing his “aloof” attitude and taking that as disinterest, he’s butthurt and pinning it on her. She went from lovebombing to pulling back because he was playing too cool for showing feelings.

If he can’t learn to control his insecurities, then his future is without a woman.

Posted by DMV
It’s just seems like a lot is beneath you OP and you don’t have alot of patience.

I get it, I don’t suffer fools as well but you’ve got to have patience

I do believe this courtship is over tho. Not enough interest on your end

I agree! I walked away with certain understanding of OPs placements and him:

1. OP is way too uppity which is just to mask insecurities that drive him to take rash actions (block or deleting people). Thinks people are orbiting him (way too full of himself). Sometimes people just view other people’s stories out of sheer curiosity or to learn more about them. I’d say she was curious to learn more about you or curious to see if you’re into her despite your cool facade.

2. You’d think that he wrote here to understand where he possibly went wrong but given how defensive he’s becoming and coming up with pretexts to justify his rashness goes to show he wasn’t looking for constructive criticism but rather validation. Typical Libra self-victimhood behaviour mixed with massive ego of Aqua moon.

3. He self-sabotages out of insecurities and fear of rejection. He was seeing an 8.5 looker, who he knows has many Johns hitting on yet he expects her to dedicate her undivided attention to him after like 2 dates yet he also denies that he was ever seriously considering marriage or long term. Oh, the defense mechanism is high! His behaviour and his rating of her shows that he was really digging her but like a typical amateur with no game, he played the cool/non-chalant card because he didn’t wanna show how much he was digging her. When she pulled back after seeing his “aloof” attitude and taking that as disinterest, he’s butthurt and pinning it on her. She went from lovebombing to pulling back because he was playing too cool for showing feelings.

If he can’t learn to control his insecurities, then his future is without a woman.

Posted by DMV
It’s just seems like a lot is beneath you OP and you don’t have alot of patience.

I get it, I don’t suffer fools as well but you’ve got to have patience

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This! I know a Libra/Aqua moon man who is just like OP who has no patience and immediately cuts out women at the slightest inconvenience to him or what he perceives as a slight, which usually stems from his assumptions and paranoia. He doesn’t bother to communicate or even wait to ask the woman why she did what she did. He automatically becomes defensive and assumes that a woman did whatever because either she’s entertaining other men or she’s not that interested (so I’ll reject her before she rejects me). This man has self-sabotaged himself with most of the few decent catches on dating app and still he’s no where! It’s been 4 yrs since he’s been on dating apps and he’s becoming bitter day by day and uses his dating app as a dear diary writing all his frustration against women when the crux of the issue is his insecurities leading to paranoia and leading to behaving a strange way where the girl either feels he’s not interested and rejects him or he rejects when he sees the passive women slowly fading. Incapable of self-introspection. Egomaniac