A big mistake

There is a male Aquarius that I have been talking to for a while now. To be honest, he constantly told me that he wanted me physically. Whatever else he said I always thought that it was because he wanted to have sex with me (that I'm beautiful, smart, etc). And I am genuinly attracted to him, but I didn't get emotionally attached because who would with someone who you thought wanted you only for your body. Anyway I've been flirting with him. One day, a few days ago, I was kinda not sober and he askedme if I love him. I was shocked and said no. That really seemed to hurt him and he lashed out at me. I don't understand why but he comforted me moments later. I think it has been bothering him for the last few days but he seems better now. I feel bad, and I do care for him and like him, but I dont know what to do. Now that I know there was emotion behind what he said, everything looks different. I don't know what to do, please help.

Well, firstly, be honest.

Tell him that you never thought of him that way in the first place and clearly state your reasons as you did here.

I am going out on limb here but I would still not invest into this... yoy know, guys cab be bastards. I mean the mere fact he pitched the question while you where intoxicated proves this.

I get this deep sense that he took a chance. "Love" is not sex...

No sensible man would do what he did.

If you want to persue this route, make him work for it, then you'll know if you??have a keeper.

People tend to tell the truth when they are intoxicated. I guess he was relying on that.