@jade72980
13 YearsLeo
Treated like a friend now —?
It doesn't sound like she is all that into you. I'm an aqua & I never ignore a person I'm into. When I'm busy or don't feel like talking, I make my replies very short or make some kind of excuse to end the conversation ie. I'm not feeling well at the moment, my battery is low, I'm on the road, etc. But I never straightout ignore unless they annoy me.
Another thing, maybe the sex wasn't as great & she is having a hard time trying to let you know, so her recent change in behaviour is a way to let you go, slowly. Just leave her alone & see if she is going to get in touch with you when you don't initiate things.
Posted by soultalk
ya, i know an aqua who made me literally express my feelings and then years later while talking to a friend said we were just friends. that boiled my blood. i was happy in my life and then he had to reappear only to say we were just friends to my friend. why don't people stay away if you mean nothing to them smh. b $ @*^% d
LOL! But you do mean something, you're a pal. And that's a top position 😛 Some aquas value their friends more than they value family & their spouses.
She has texted me good morning recently. She still comes to me. It only has been a week since she turned cold. She is starting to be friendly again. I am hoping she was just busy and doing aqua things.
I am a Leo and I am warm hearted. I don't get turning cold all of the sudden after being intimate.
However, if she doesn't what me like that Id rather talk to her face to face and let her know I value us and want to be her friend.
Posted by jade72980
She has texted me good morning recently. She still comes to me. It only has been a week since she turned cold. She is starting to be friendly again. I am hoping she was just busy and doing aqua things.
I am a Leo and I am warm hearted. I don't get turning cold all of the sudden after being intimate.However, if she doesn't what me like that Id rather talk to her face to face and let her know I value us and want to be her friend.
Do you call/text her too much? Daily? I know that annoys me but I still never ignore people I care about. There's something not right with her for her to be acting this way towards you.
Posted by soultalk
ya, i know an aqua who made me literally express my feelings and then years later while talking to a friend said we were just friends. that boiled my blood. i was happy in my life and then he had to reappear only to say we were just friends to my friend. why don't people stay away if you mean nothing to them smh. b $ @*^% dLOL! But you do mean something, you're a pal. And that's a top position 😛 Some aquas value their friends more than they value family & their spouses.
pal my foot 😛. i am never talking to him. Also, he is a married man with a kid now. i have no interest in remembering no past.
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Good girl. The married types aren't worth it. Big time wasters.
Posted by soultalk
aqua men can be sadists.This is so true. Behind that friendly exterior lies a control freak and punisher//. The dark side of Aqua. Which by the way this board never talks about.
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Aquas are sometimes unaware of self until something is pointed out. Dark side you said? Hmmm
Posted by soultalk
aqua men can be sadists.This is so true. Behind that friendly exterior lies a control freak and punisher//. The dark side of Aqua. Which by the way this board never talks about.
omg! say it isnt' so
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See what I mean? Clueless.
Posted by soultalk
only good thing i have to say about aquas is that they are initiators. they can be proactive and initiate and pursue things. they like being the chasers in general. but still they are too much about themselves smh.
I'm too lazy to chase but +1 on being self-centered. Aaand arrogance & thinking everybody else is stupid. LOL!
Posted by tiziani
I could say more about all the Aqua counterfeit bills being printed around here but I stay loyal to Air Nation 😛
No, please share. It's always interesting to hear how others view us since we're so in the dark about ourselves. Remember, the spotlight is all on leo, we are in the shaddow.
Posted by tiziani
I could say more about all the Aqua counterfeit bills being printed around here but I stay loyal to Air Nation 😛No, please share. It's always interesting to hear how others view us since we're so in the dark about ourselves .
I feel the same way. I don't mind some constructive criticism even, but only if it's true. If it's not I can get wrath-y lol. But I tend to take that kind of stuff better from people I like and who I am friendly with rather than strangers to me or even people I'm guarded about.
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LOL @ wrathy. I don't think I like criticism very much, reason why I don't think I'll ever date a virgo 😛 Maybe it's not an aqua trait, but just me. Criticism makes me defensive & in turn I point out all that is wrong with the other person just to show them that they have no room to talk bad about me. Only time I allow it is at work, it stings even then...I just don't like it. My motto is leave me alone. If I'm wrong, well, that's right with me. Very unevolved lol.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Aquas well the men can be like the evil genius. There is a propensity to experiment on people just to see how they act. Like if I say this completely outrageous thing what are the variety of outcomes? Not a test. An experiment.Emotions be damned.
Come on, now. No ones perfect. There are many fine qualities about aqua but there are some peculiar ones as well. Lets be real.
When a Gemini does this (which they do) it's called trolling. And people shake their head "bloody Geminis being flakey again"
Libra disappearing act? "that Libra's just not that into you!"
Aqua disappearing act? "Oh you silly moose, that Aqua will come good in the end. Just do your time out in the cold. Summer, winter, summer, winter. What's the big deal? He'll come from home the war. Just you wait."
Aquas got game! I salute.
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It's because we bring a UNIQUE brand of arseholishness 😛 Most people still adore us even when we do our worst for some reason. We're easy to forgive & many end up blaming themselves for the things we do because we're too friendly/nice in general, so indeed the problem must be with them...oh so they tend to think.
Plus aquas are good at making you the bad guy when they are actually the ones at fault. & they'll grasp at anything to achieve that. Can't admit being wrong in most cases. Ofcourse I'm speaking from observation, I'm not guilty of any of those 😉
Posted by tiziani
I could say more about all the Aqua counterfeit bills being printed around here but I stay loyal to Air Nation 😛No, please share. It's always interesting to hear how others view us since we're so in the dark about ourselves .
I feel the same way. I don't mind some constructive criticism even, but only if it's true. If it's not I can get wrath-y lol. But I tend to take that kind of stuff better from people I like and who I am friendly with rather than strangers to me or even people I'm guarded about.
LOL @ wrathy. I don't think I like criticism very much, reason why I don't think I'll ever date a virgo 😛 Maybe it's not an aqua trait, but just me. Criticism makes me defensive & in turn I point out all that is wrong with the other person just to show them that they have no room to talk bad about me. Only time I allow it is at work, it stings even then...I just don't like it. My motto is leave me alone. If I'm wrong, well, that's right with me. Very unevolved lol.
I've been around aquas all my life and what you just wrote is very aqua dark side. Plus you know it's really fun to push aqua buttons and watch the inevitable explosion. Why can't we just have a laugh about it? Lol
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😛 😛 😛 I have no problem laughing at myself or have others laugh at me because *I* laugh at them all the time.
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Known aqua for a few months. She came onto me told me she liked me.. Became friends, then intimate. Then she told me how I amazing I was and how happy I make her. Never official dated! Then she became distant and ignoring. She won't return texts.. and even was ice cold in public with me. Now she is treating me as if a friend again. I am just trying to figure out do I give up on her? I don't want to. I really like her but I want to know that I have a chance with her. Really struggling with this. Since I am just a friend and she doesn't respond when I open up in a lovey way. I know I have had people answer from the board. I am staring to have feelings and I will not tell her this yet. I know how aquas are. But I am hoping she comes back all loving again.
I'm even thinking in my head she may be busy. I'm trying to not to take it personal. Just had it happen to me a few times where people have done a 180. I want to wait it out with her!