Aquarian hate thread

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Tornadoday16 on Wednesday, December 25, 2013 and has 36 replies.

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@Tornadoday16
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Okay, so like seriously, everybody is always talking about how smart and unique/cool Aquas are, but in my opinion they are some dumb motherfuckers. I mean, its almost as if they have had a lobotomy to remove the emotional side of their brain. People say that it is a good thing that Aquas tell others how it is, but the thing is, I think its a horrible thing. When people ask for advise they already know the naked truth of their situation and they want to hear a nice spin on it that makes the pill easier to swallow. So anyone who has ever had an Aqua barge in on their life and try to spew shit everywhere, here is your chance to say your piece.
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@lisabethur8
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Posted by Tornadoday16
Okay, so like seriously, everybody is always talking about how smart and unique/cool Aquas are, but in my opinion they are some dumb motherfuckers. I mean, its almost as if they have had a lobotomy to remove the emotional side of their brain. People say that it is a good thing that Aquas tell others how it is, but the thing is, I think its a horrible thing. When people ask for advise they already know the naked truth of their situation and they want to hear a nice spin on it that makes the pill easier to swallow. So anyone who has ever had an Aqua barge in on their life and try to spew shit everywhere, here is your chance to say your piece.



I'm sorry to hear you had a very bad experience w/ one who was born in these months. Try and forgive, and move on, they aren't worth your time and energy. These that have hurt and betrayed, painfully given you so much sorrow and hate, is just going to make you angrier and you're going to be feeding that demon.

You seem to have changed your mind from months before, when you were very kind and sweet about Aquarius before. Something must have triggered that. I dont know what happened, but they aren't worth it if they have hurt you.
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@truecap
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Obviously you haven't gotten close enough to an aquarian to be considered a part of their inner circle. If you had earned their trust, you would have experienced their warmth.

I love aquarians and appreciate their energy!
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@WaterCup
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LOL, what a great honour! Just don't ask an aqua what they think if you don't want to hear the undiluted truth. Do yourself & us a favour & go ask for advise from those that have time to tell you what you want to hear. I for one hate wasting my time, I'll say my piece, how I see it & leave it at that. If you don't like it then too bad.

I once told a relative of mine that I don't like her boyfriend & that I didn't think he was right for her. That was after I spent a good ten minutes with the guy. They were newly dating btw & my relative became upset with me. A few mnths later they broke up because she found out that everything he told her was a lie. And I knew the truth seconds into the conversation with him. Now if only I could have the same radar in my own dealings with guys 😛
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@aquasnoz
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I don't see a lot of people saying we're cool and unique 😄 See a lot of more of what the f is wrong with this aqua more often than not on these parts so a compliment hidden in here somewhere?

Welp, guess I can say this a million times and more, we might be cut from the same cloth but not all aquas are the same. (PS I personally loathe one particular aqua myself, not here on DXP if anyone's wondering)
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@lisabethur8
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Posted by Tornadoday16
You all know Im just trying to get your goat right?



Jesus. Lol

My husband does the same damn thing to me! in different ways. Always tricking me and stuff.

But he just Lols and says i'm so clueless and cute. I fall for it everytime. He says his mother is the only one that usually doesn't fall for it. But me and his grandma....gosh we're both his target. Lmao. i have plenty of examples, but i'll just leave it at that.

-.-

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by Tornadoday16
Yea I mean as long as the insults are really exaggerated and directed in a non personal way I think its all fair game.



i get what you mean.

plus if you know the person and understand how they joke, it's all good. I love watching comedy sit-coms, such as 2 1/2 men when Charlie Sheen was acting. Also, "big bang theory" and a few others.

"How i met your mother" is one of my faves too. It's been awhile, i should follow up on that. Been way too busy during the holidays, so only late at night when i just unwind.
also, it's kind of hard to do online if you dont know the person. But as long as it's not personal.
some of my fave kind of comedy/jokes are wit/sarcasm, ie, Charlie Sheen types, or even Eddie Murphy. I like George Carlin but wow, he's so rough w/ it. j/k Lol as if the others aren't 'rough' enough. lmao.
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@lisabethur8
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oh, example: if someone is making jokes online here at dxp it's kind of hard. Is what i'm meaning. you dont see their expressions and the twinkle of their eyes. My husband does it dead-pan. so damned serious. Then the joke is on.
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But I mean, on a more serious note, I do think that emotions are an important thing for people to understand, and way too often Aquarians don't really seem to appreciate emotions at all. I think that really sets Aquas back, that is, their in ability to be sappy.
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@lisabethur8
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Posted by Tornadoday16
But I mean, on a more serious note, I do think that emotions are an important thing for people to understand, and way too often Aquarians don't really seem to appreciate emotions at all. I think that really sets Aquas back, that is, their in ability to be sappy.



i agree. *nods*

they need to learn how to feel, to cry and re-attach.



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@lisabethur8
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i really have no problem about telling my problems to my s/o, my family. they're the first ones who know.it just feels so much better sharing it w/ them and i feel loads lighter. like sharing exchange energy and they share stuff w/ me too. if i'm crying, they'll know right away, infact i cry right in front of them cause i can't help myself.
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@The_eleventh_sign_11
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For some people like me being around emotional people wear me out and its not a nice feeling being vulnerable??_??_its energy draining and it makes my hair turn white.

I find it offensive when people can't take care of their emotions properly??_??_especially the water signs its like dropping a cup and water going everywhere??_..If I have problems I sort it out myself like go for a jog or go to the beach.

Personally I hate people putting me on a pedestal as if being unique is "cool" it makes me feel less unique ..

and for fucks sake what does living on emotions mean? your gonna cry yourself to the top?..
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(in a bland and flat voice)
Yeah, Aquas... they are total mother fuckers... I hate them too...

*text message tone*

'Scuse me, it's probably my Aqua BFF saying something hilarious and awesome.

*brief silence*
*laughter*

Aaaaaand it is! Oh those Aquas.....

I
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Posted by Tornadoday16
But I mean, on a more serious note, I do think that emotions are an important thing for people to understand, and way too often Aquarians don't really seem to appreciate emotions at all. I think that really sets Aquas back, that is, their in ability to be sappy.



Perhaps, the Aquas in your life can sense that you are passing judgment on them so they don't show you their emotions.

I am sappy as the next person and show my emotions to those that I Trust or that I feel won't pass judgment on me for expressing feelings when I need to. That trust/ no judgment is huge for me. This sort of goes back to one of my first posts on here.. about how people label us certain ways and it upsets me, because we AREN'T robots, stop labeling us as such. kthxbye 😛
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@Undine
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Posted by mindofaquarius
imo it's very very energy taking to only live on emotions. I notice that with cancers, slightest thing that goes wrong -> mad for days, moody for days, hella annoying for days. I have a hard time understandong how you can ruin ur mood with the slightest things....



So what do you live on? What drives you?
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@lisabethur8
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Posted by Undine
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

and for fucks sake what does living on emotions mean? your gonna cry yourself to the top?..



LOL!

You guys don't realise that things like aspiration and ambition are emotions too!

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-modern-mind/201304/modern-emotions-aspiration-and-ambition

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I agree. If you dont have the PASSION, it won't get you anywhere while you're (general you) not caring about anything. You don't have the passion for love, the passion to strive, the passion for anything in your life that requires any ambition.
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Posted by Tornadoday16
Okay, so like seriously, everybody is always talking about how smart and unique/cool Aquas are, but in my opinion they are some dumb motherfuckers. I mean, its almost as if they have had a lobotomy to remove the emotional side of their brain. People say that it is a good thing that Aquas tell others how it is, but the thing is, I think its a horrible thing. When people ask for advise they already know the naked truth of their situation and they want to hear a nice spin on it that makes the pill easier to swallow. So anyone who has ever had an Aqua barge in on their life and try to spew shit everywhere, here is your chance to say your piece.



Look at the pot trying to call the kettle black. You're this emotionless person who is extremely bitter & who is trying to barge on in the Aquarius forum hoping that others will believe your "spewing bullsh***t" but yet you're entire argument for hating us Aquas is b/c we supposedly do the same thing!! Again, the pot trying to call the kettle black.

My advice to you would be to remember that only an ignorant person groups all people into 1 category. If we're all the same, then that suggests that you've tried them all! And if that's true, then perhaps you might need to slow it down some lol

Go forgive the person or people who have hurt you b/c all this spewing anger is not a good look.
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People that claim their rude, snide, insecure, jealous remarks and comments are truths are pathetic. They hide behind the guise of statments such as "well...you asked" "if you cant handle the truth"....LOL F-em. Robots of the future is what they are dead inside and out. Truth is singular. There are no versions.
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Posted by NinaBee2002
People that claim their rude, snide, insecure, jealous remarks and comments are truths are pathetic. They hide behind the guise of statments such as "well...you asked" "if you cant handle the truth"....LOL F-em. Robots of the future is what they are dead inside and out. Truth is singular. There are no versions.



Borrowing this from Truecap because it sums it up nicely:

"If aquarius is anything, it's honest. They are not a sign that will tell you what you want to hear. They will be brutally honest, even if it hurts you, because they aren't going to lie to you."

However you may perceive that as rude, snide and jealous, if that's the case then that's on you not the Aqua...sides if we are robots as you stated; we would have no feelings which means we wouldn't be snide nor jealous, cause we just wouldn't care. Truth is not singular- every person has their own views thoughts and opinions which will be based off their own life experiences.

Thanks for your thoughts on us however 🙂