@Californiansunshine
15 Years
A bit of hope...
hahahaha me too. sometimes is just a DAY i start to not "feel" anything then POOF im in love and im invincible. It takes a lot of adapting and liberal open minded live and let live individuals that help me stay longer. Afterall aquarius are the MOST unstable and unpredictable emotionally.
awww! This is so freaking adorable. I'm so happy for you. 🙂
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Hey everyone,
I just thought I would share my experience with my aqua as it is positive and when it's positive, it's nice to talk about it! It could help some of you who are struggling with an aqua.
I've been reading this thread for months as I was looking for some perspective sometimes. At first, I totally could feel the detached, aloof behavior from him. But I don't know what happened, things have changed completely recently. He went from "I don't really do feelings. Love stories always end badly. I don't want to suffer anymore" to "I love you more than I can say, let's build something together". I don't really know what happened, but a switch just turned on and we've been surfing on that vibe for a while now, and I can't tell you how relieved and happy I am he finally got there. I truly love him too and I've finally found someone with whom things just click. Though I'm a cancer, the rest of our charts go pretty well together. We have kick-ass conversations (and sex!) and a very deep connection on all levels.
Anyway, I'm not writing this to brag about anything, it's just to say that if you give it some time and patience, things can get where you want. I had to go through a bunch of tests to get there as he was deeply suspicious and lacking in self-confidence and trust. But slowly but surely, he felt he could open up and he did. And to see him get to that place is really amazing. Aquas are the richest people on earth, they know so much and are so concerned about things around them, it's amazing. If you take it slow, you discover a treasure everyday and it can keep you busy for a very long time. I'm truly blessed to have met someone with so much light, knowledge, humor, and love to give. So, if you fell low sometimes, just remember that they don't open up like that to everyone on this planet, they will, eventually, when they feel ready.
Cheers from Bordeaux,
S.