Advice

Ok, I'm looking for anyone who has any advice on dealing with an Aqua Sun, Scorpio Moon, Aqua Venus. I'm trying to better myself and I would like to know what others have experienced with this combo or any part of this combo. I find it hard to see what I'm doing from the outside. I can see the consequences of my actions however I find it hard to see what others see.

Background: I was with a cheating wife for 14 years, she cheated off and on for 12 of those. I stayed because of a misguided attempt to keep a stable household for my daughter. However since the divorce I've had a completely different experience from my single life from before my marriage and I'm trying to better myself.

Any insight is appreciated.

Do you plan on staying single or entering a new relationship?

@bumboklatt I knew what was going on and it killed me inside. However my daughter was my main concern, still is really and she's 16. Thank you for the insight/advice.

@Amethysst Really, it was my doing for letting myself be in that situation for so long. If I had to do it over with what I know now it would be very different. Really I'm over it and moving on. Thank you though.

@TheGreatSearcher I'm not sure totally yet. I haven't had anyone totally capture my affection yet. Met plenty of women but no one has been the one yet. I think I'd like a new relationship however I'm being way more picky this time around. Maybe too picky? If only I could meet a special woman my age then I could consider it, only seem to attract younger than I'm really comfortable with lately. 😢