@Yola74
10 Years
Angry aqua
He can't deal with his own emotions and insecurities at this point, it's his own problem let him deal with it, if you run to him every time he kicks up a stink then you'll be playing into his insecurities and you'll be under his thumb in no time.
Having said that if we feel someone is holding back on giving information then they are being dishonest and that's going to exacerbate the situation, what reason would he gave not to trust you, you say you have nothing to hide yet based on your ability to be honest you have this Aqua running for the hills.
My bf is an aqua male. Dating about 6 months. We've had a reoccurring problem, and he claims I'm not honest. Out last argument was over text and said, "I'm really done. I'm serious, I'm done. Don't t contact me." Anyway I have nothing to hide from him. How do I get him to calm down and listen.....
You're done. Why does he have to listen?
See. That's what he sees. You say one thing, but mean another. So, you're not honest.
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My bf is an aqua male. Dating about 6 months. We've had a reoccurring problem, and he claims I'm not honest. Out last argument was over text and said, "I'm really done. I'm serious, I'm done. Don't t contact me." Anyway I have nothing to hide from him. How do I get him to calm down and listen.....