@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts
I just went through this with a libra last week and it took 3 different nights of conversation, so patience is my best advice.
It appears they would rather be approached directly and non-confontationally. Is this correct?
Lord knows, they don't take hints and you can't beat around the bush with them! lol
Posted by truecap
What is the best way to approach Aquas on sensitive subjects such as expressing and communicating what you want and expect in a relationship without appearing needy, pushy or demanding? I understand being rational, nonemotional and non-accusing to prevent defensiveness, but would like more input.
Check their charts. Communication and emotional indicators should direct you to how and why.
But, in "general", while in the early stages, it is better to not be pushy and demanding (but isn't that with everyone too?) as in common sense?
p.s. generally, try something creative and sweet. And most aqua men like practicality. Something that is practical, creative and holds their attention. If you notice the things he loves, likes, enjoys, use those signals to aid your way to his inner sanctum. 🙂
I like for people to be direct with me, it works best. Don't sugar coat it unless it's really something which may hurt my feelings, but truthfully straight to the point is the best. I find when people beat around the bush I read more into to it. Don't leave room for dought to seep in, it only makes things worse.
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What is the best way to approach Aquas on sensitive subjects such as expressing and communicating what you want and expect in a relationship without appearing needy, pushy or demanding? I understand being rational, nonemotional and non-accusing to prevent defensiveness, but would like more input.