@jerseycapricorn
11 Years
Aqua Curiousity?
What was he dishonest with you about?
I suggest checking on him from time to time, if you see he needs something, offer to help with it.
Posted by SunMoonStars
What was he dishonest with you about?
About the reason why he dissapeared out of nowhere when we planned hang at the fair to be with his ex, being dishonest not admitting he's in love with her still, being dishonest that has to do something personal with him (how he acts, why he does it when he knows it's not right)
Perhaps part of him thinks that you still harbor feelings for him, so his dishonesty was an attempt to spare your feelings? Or maybe he knows you won't approve of his decisions, so he chooses to keep them from you.
Just my speculation.
Posted by Fleshpot
Perhaps part of him thinks that you still harbor feelings for him, so his dishonesty was an attempt to spare your feelings? Or maybe he knows you won't approve of his decisions, so he chooses to keep them from you.Just my speculation.
As odd, it's explainable.
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I am currently in a situation where my 'friend' who is a Cap/Aqua cusp that I used to like kept being dishonest with me and I was honest to him the whole entire time. I get this closed-off vibe from him and although he would tell me a few things about himself that I kind of fill in the blanks of the puzzle of this Aquarius man. It's like I'm not liking how he's treating me unfairly by being dishonest with me, I somewhat feel bad and relate to what he's going through. And he opens up to me sometimes here and there about issues he's dealing back home. He admit (randomly) that he feels often like an outcast, or feel misunderstood, and as a Cap I like to be there for someone who is misunderstood because I also feel that way 80% of the time. Sometimes, I feel he's doing these things unintentionally and I know he doesn't want to hurt anyone. What's your take on it? What should I do, keep having a healthy distance from him to let him deal with it himself? (I sometimes feel guilty because it's my nature that I don't want anyone to think that I don't care about someone when I actually do). What are ways of caring an Aquarius (friends wise)?