Aqua friend distant as usual. Figures.

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by dbqp on Sunday, December 6, 2015 and has 4 replies.

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10 Years

It's hard to have a close aquarius friend. Everything's going well and then suddenly they avoid you like a plague. 😆 WTF

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Posted by dbqp
It's hard to have a close aquarius friend. Everything's going well and then suddenly they avoid you like a plague. 😆 WTF

Haha I actually feel a little bad for the people I've done this to. I can't really explain why we do this. I was close to a girl a year ago for about a year until I figured she was a massive downer and she needed me way more than I needed her and than I was ready to devote myself to her. So I did THAT aqua thing, just walked away from her and never talked to her again.

It's horrible, when I think about it, but I really can't regret it. It's a quite brutal way of distancing yourself from people that you don't want in your life anymore. I would assume young aquas do this more often, since they are still in the self-discovery phase in which they also make decisions on what kind of people they want in their inner circle and what kind of people they're just better off without 😄

I can assure you though, once we do let someone in our small circle of close friends, we are really loyal and devoted. It took me a while too, to find that one or two friends which I actually care about.

so if you're friend isn't avoiding you for other reasons (any personal issues, idk), you probably should just get over it and move on, because they have most probably moved on in their life the second they turned their back on you.

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Posted by aquamila

Posted by dbqp
It's hard to have a close aquarius friend. Everything's going well and then suddenly they avoid you like a plague. 😆 WTF

Haha I actually feel a little bad for the people I've done this to. I can't really explain why we do this. I was close to a girl a year ago for about a year until I figured she was a massive downer and she needed me way more than I needed her and than I was ready to devote myself to her. So I did THAT aqua thing, just walked away from her and never talked to her again.

It's horrible, when I think about it, but I really can't regret it. It's a quite brutal way of distancing yourself from people that you don't want in your life anymore. I would assume young aquas do this more often, since they are still in the self-discovery phase in which they also make decisions on what kind of people they want in their inner circle and what kind of people they're just better off without 😄

I can assure you though, once we do let someone in our small circle of close friends, we are really loyal and devoted. It took me a while too, to find that one or two friends which I actually care about.

so if you're friend isn't avoiding you for other reasons (any personal issues, idk), you probably should just get over it and move on, because they have most probably moved on in their life the second they turned their back on you.

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I am going through this right now.. -_- I can't tell if he's just tired of me, or he wants me out of his life.. I've learned to accept it though. I always tried to push him to go after his dreams or passions, then I realized what Aqua is all about, and that I've made a terrible mistake. 😛