Aquas and parents

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by aquaglass on Thursday, November 26, 2015 and has 9 replies.

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@aquaglass
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Do you live with your parents or on your own, away from them?
What's their signs?
How's your relationship with them?
And, if you live away, do you miss them a lot?

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

I've been living with my mum for the last year, both my folks are Gemini and they are very much a like in some ways but very different.

My relationship with my mum is a lot better now that I'm older, she was a career woman and raised us kids by herself so she gets a lot of my respect but I developed a lot of anxiety from her because she's a pressure cooker, I'm constantly telling her to relax as she always pushes her physical and mental limits....

When I'm away from my folks I miss them heaps but when I live with them I want to see them as little as possible, a lot of times my mum knows when I'm boiling over internally and she likes to take advantage of it and relishes in seeing me squirm, I constantly tortured because of that witch, she even used to make me call her mommy darling

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I'm not on good terms with either. They alienated me as a child so I never got to see them. Kicked me out of home when I was young, which was good because I probably would've left anyway. My dad is a bit unstable or at least was, almost killed the whole family in the car (quite an adrenaline rush), still have a scar from when my step mum stabbed me so that's fun. The only real good thing out of all this is my biological mum, left me with some belongings, she's passed so there's really not much left to salvage.

Yes I do miss them, more of the fantasy side of a functional family. I guess that would be delusional or incorrect as I actually have no idea what it feels like to have a family.

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

No, i live 1200+ miles from my family.

Mom- libra
Dad- Sag/Cap cusp

I do not speak with either of them.

I miss my family, my sisters, brothers, etc, then i go visit and i remember why i moved away. It's very dysfunctional.

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@justagirl
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Posted by aquasnoz
Yes I do miss them, more of the fantasy side of a functional family. I guess that would be delusional or incorrect as I actually have no idea what it feels like to have a family.

this.

I always wondered what it would be like to have parents that cared and not abusive.

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@AquaNextDoor
11 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

I moved out when I was 17 so I could move to switzerland. My parents & my siblings still live in germany (550km away) and its aaaaallways a blast when I visit them on christmas or whenever I feel like.we miss eachother a lot and we are on the phone 1-2x a week.

Mum: pisces
Dad: cancer
Brothers: libra & aries

Til this day I'm very thankful that my mum let me go back then. She knew that I thought everything through and that my decisions are right.

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@AquaNextDoor
11 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Mum : pisces, aqua moon/merc, cap venus, leo mars

Dad: cancer, pisces moon, cancer merc, gem venus/mars

Youngest brother: libra, gem moon, leo venus, libra merc, sag mars

Other brother: aries, cancer moon, aqua venus, aries merc/mars

We have 4 fire mars (mine is in sag) in our family hahaha but it works!
Its funny though that my mothers placements are simular to mine. I'm an aqua with leo AC and 6 cap placements.