Aqua man...user—

My Sag friend recently met a younger Aqua man at work. There were a few things that she did not like initially like his 2 baby mother's and not having a car. Every time he gets paid he starts complaining about child support. So he doesn't have money to do anything and of course she ends up paying. He's driving her car and ended up busting a tire that ended up costing over $ 100 but he only gave her something on it because of baby mother #2. They've only been "talking" for a month and a half and now he told her he was evicted and has basically moved in with her. She just told me that on a daily basis she says something that makes him mad but he gets over it after a while. There was no talk of paying bills in her home because technically he says he doesn't live there yet he's always there. Because there is no established relationship she cant say anything about his morning texts from other females. She says she not in love but he has told her he loves her. She asked why....he said her generosity. The crazy thing is I asked her if she thought that he gets over things quickly is because he has nowhere to go. She responded " it never entered my mind". I don't want to be critical but it seems like he's using her...either way I'll be supportive and keep my negative thoughts to myself. Or share on dxpnet

I've known her since elementary school and she was talked about back then. She admits to still having that "ugly girl" syndrome but she is far from ugly. She's actually quite beautiful. Im not sure what she sees in him. She's says that he's affectionate and he carries groceries even when he's mad at her (I am not making this up). That's pretty much it besides his " wanting" to do more financially but can't. So I guess it's the thought that counts. It makes me feel sad for her but if she's happy, that's all that matters. I suspect she's not truly happy because she wouldn't be calling me complaining. She likes having someone around everyday. I hope she wakes up sooner than later.

Does he work ? How old are they ?

Posted by miimii
My Sag friend recently met a younger Aqua man at work. There were a few things that she did not like initially like his 2 baby mother's and not having a car. Every time he gets paid he starts complaining about child support. So he doesn't have money to do anything and of course she ends up paying. He's driving her car and ended up busting a tire that ended up costing over $ 100 but he only gave her something on it because of baby mother #2. They've only been "talking" for a month and a half and now he told her he was evicted and has basically moved in with her. She just told me that on a daily basis she says something that makes him mad but he gets over it after a while. There was no talk of paying bills in her home because technically he says he doesn't live there yet he's always there. Because there is no established relationship she cant say anything about his morning texts from other females. She says she not in love but he has told her he loves her. She asked why....he said her generosity. The crazy thing is I asked her if she thought that he gets over things quickly is because he has nowhere to go. She responded " it never entered my mind". I don't want to be critical but it seems like he's using her...either way I'll be supportive and keep my negative thoughts to myself. Or share on dxpnet

I have an aqua doing the same, but i'm in love with him but he's not with me.

she needs to get out for her own good, this can only end badly

Posted by happyface1
Does he work ? How old are they ?

He works at her place of employment. He is contingent so his hours are not guaranteed. He owes back child support which is another reason he doesn't have money. She makes pretty good money but she also has kids to take care of.

He is 30 and she is 40

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Posted by miimii
My Sag friend recently met a younger Aqua man at work. There were a few things that she did not like initially like his 2 baby mother's and not having a car. Every time he gets paid he starts complaining about child support. So he doesn't have money to do anything and of course she ends up paying. He's driving her car and ended up busting a tire that ended up costing over $ 100 but he only gave her something on it because of baby mother #2. They've only been "talking" for a month and a half and now he told her he was evicted and has basically moved in with her. She just told me that on a daily basis she says something that makes him mad but he gets over it after a while. There was no talk of paying bills in her home because technically he says he doesn't live there yet he's always there. Because there is no established relationship she cant say anything about his morning texts from other females. She says she not in love but he has told her he loves her. She asked why....he said her generosity. The crazy thing is I asked her if she thought that he gets over things quickly is because he has nowhere to go. She responded " it never entered my mind". I don't want to be critical but it seems like he's using her...either way I'll be supportive and keep my negative thoughts to myself. Or share on dxpnet

I have an aqua doing the same, but i'm in love with him but he's not with me.

she needs to get out for her own good, this can only end badly

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She is really an intelligent woman. But seems to be in some kind of la la land over him. She says she's not in love but I think she is. That would explain her behavior.

I honestly think that he's not over his second childs mother but she doesn't have much to offer. I hope she doesn't get too hurt by him. Thanks for your input!