AQUARIAN ADVICE NEEDED

ok, so first of all id like to thank you for taking time to ready this topic and please spare with me your patience as this may sound too mushy for aquarius women.

im in deep insanity right now as to how to figure out whats going on with my aquarius girl. its been 2 months since we first met, the first few weeks was almost "perfect." we hanged out a lot, talked random stuff about ourselves, we both fell in love with each other...yes, we both confessed we love each other but agreed that we take things slowly. She was not just prepared to be in a relationship but assured me that we'll get to that point of officially being together. But all of a sudden she became so cold, we'll that was after i complained on why she no longer text/call me..i have to admit ive been too pushy, i became so dramatic and controlling. became so paranoid on why she duddenly became so cold. it was making me so crazy that i demanded for an answer.she just told me she hates all the drama and that i was too resltess with all the "taking it slowly" thing that weve agreed upon. that was my fault, i know. i should have been more patient but her giving me the cold shoulder just made me go insane. we havent talked for days and when i asked for her to give me another chance all she said was that shes not bailing on me...yet shes still cold as ice. i try to text her every now and then just to let her know that im still here, sometimes i would ignore her just to see if she does think of me. she would text me once in a while but when i start having a conversation through text/email she wont reply anymore.

What's up with her? what is she thinking? telling me shes not bailing on me but why does she ignores me?...im playing it cool this time but the ignoring thing just makes me so crazy...what does she want?

any advice please? thank you.

thank you for your advice. really appreciate it. I tried venting out to her about her coldness which makes me go crazy and paranoid. I did explained that im not used to this kind of treatment, us being sweet and all then suddenly she just shuts me off. its hurting me but i like her so much and im thinking maybe being consistent might somehow convince her on how serious i am with her. the last time that i became so dramatic, she freaked out. telling me that im so restless, she doesnt want to be controlled, she wants freedom and im being so demanding, too early for me to act like i own her. i apologized and ask for another chance,promised her that ill take it slow this time. sometimes if i wont text her for a day or two, she would voluntarily check on my by asking how im doing. it makes me feel so damn happy knowing that i still cross her mind, but then she would no longer reply when i start to conversation.. all this "im not bailing on you, just dont go spastic again" has been haunting me..shes not bailing on me but she's ignoring me?

aquarian ladies,,what do you think? does she needs times? ive read articles saying that aquarians tend to become so detached and cold, do a lot of thinking...etc. her ways of ignoring me, im not quite sure if shes indirectly telling me to back off or does she really mean what she said that shes not bailing and needs time?...

what do you?

***oops sorry for the typo errors, makes it grammatically wrong***

so..are you suggesting that i just keep it this way for the meantime? respect her silence and all the ignoring thing?do you believe in what she said that shes really not bailing on me despite giving me the cold shoulder?

id like to know, whats the difference: difference between feeling ignored and actually being actively ignored. :-)

thank you so much for your time in answering all my questions. looking forward to your response. i need a direct advice on what to do.. im a sagi and i tend to overanalyze things. i need some direction. thank you so much.

yes i did promise her that ill take it slowly this time. I know im overanalyzing things, interpreting her every action. she cant blame me, i have high hopes of getting things back to normal. i will do whatever it takes to win her back again IF i know that she's still opening her door for me. sounds crazy but im sort of asking for an assurance. time is an investment for me. im willing to wait if tha ts what she needs, her "alone time." AS LONG AS im certain that this is leading to something good. sounds selfish but thats the reality. thats why im confused if she still wants me around despite her being cold OR is it her indirect way of telling me to back off.

im sensing youre an aquarian too, right? how would you interpret her actions? does she still wants me around or just too kind not to tell me directly to stay away from her?

my apology for being so inquisitive, and thank you for your patience in lightening up my twisted mind.
i really appreciate it, and youre such a big help. aquarians are genius creatures!

wow! and youre just another proof of how genius aquarians are. THANK YOU. i really had a great time talking to you about this. and again i apologize for the unending questions. i just miss her so much, i miss the good times that we used to have. she used to text me everyday, hang out with me no matter how busy she was..it was the "lover" side of her that ive experienced and it was my fault that i lost her as a lover.now im back to scratch. nevertheless, i take your advice. maybe she really does need time to figure things out. not bailing on me is a gift.. i should be thankful for that instead of doubting her. this is all my fault anyway. i should just stick to what i promised her, to take things slowly. i used to text her everyday, just a simple "hello,how are you?' im not expecting for a reply, its just my way to tell her that im still here..

last question, as an aquarian... what do you think will be the best way to keep her? aside from taking things slowly and giving her the time that she needs.. i mean, sometimes i would like to ask her out for date or call her but i decide not to because that might ruin her personal time.. i dont know if texting her is ok or should i just wait for her to make the first move?

thank you.

thank you so much for your advice. this is just so hard, i like her so much that i really dont know what to do. i hope TIME is really what she needs and not for me to back off. aqua girls, whats with you that makes us go crazy in love?haha ive been trying, really to trying to get her off my mind but i just cant. oh my. the more that she ignores me, the more that i go crazy..