Alright, I've met an Aquarius during my Spring semester of Freshman year. Just like any ol' Freshman, we was FWB (Don't berate me with the FWB rules because ya'll know you mofos been in that state of 'feelings'.) It was intriguing, yet fun plus I just got out of an relationship, so did he. He would open up to me about his childhood, family problems, his future career, little stuff like his favorites and stuff, and also...dun dun dun..his ex (also a Capricorn and apparently 'used' him for popularity while cheating on him with another guy. Tried to eff' him while being in a relationship with another guy but the Aquarius declined because he knew he would catch feelings. He also tried to compare me to her because since Capricorns are 'possessive') Anyway, he would be so damn subtle with the 'I like you', and even mentioned that he talked to his friend about me about pursuing me, he said that he would be but I'm too 'wild'. He also mentions that he would get jealous when he sees me saying hi to other guys (they're just my friends or acquaintances) and also spewed in his two cents 'If I see my girl dancing with a guy, I'll get jealous'. Moving forward, although the whole effing' and talking would go smooth, his honesty is very questionable. 1st offense, my friend asked him about me and he said he doesn't like me in a tone as if I'm nothing, I confronted him about it and he said that my friend was being dramatic 'I said I like you but not in a way that I'm falling in love with you.' After that, my third eye was open. 2nd offense, he texted a girl who has a major crush on him offering her oral sex, confronted him and he said he was 'playing around' because he knew she likes him. I told him you're only effing me because I do not like my shit being shared plus that'll hurt me if you're being dishonest and betray me. 3rd offense, the same girl he texted her, I found out that they fucked each other right after I left college to go home. I confronted him via FT and his face reeks guilt. I told him that I do not like people lying to me and you even said that you don't like liars since your ex did that you. He butted in and said how I can't say that when he sees me talking to other people. The jealousy confuses me...anyway, basically he wants me to himself but in my mind, 'we're not even together'...After that, I get the disappearing acts, yes, he apologizes to me about that because he's been working (has two jobs). Soon after, we hung out at his hometown in NY.. (cont)
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cruised around, of course had sex, watch movies. I recalled a moment in the car that he told me that he sometimes feel like an outcast (typical Aquarius shit) which I find funny because it's like an AHA! moment. Anyway, I had to leave because of work and he promised me about going to the State Fair with me, I told him I'll text him the ticket cost and blah. So he parked nearby the train station, in my head I didn't give myself high hopes on how the departure would end until he said 'come here and give me a kiss.' Did so, and left and went back home. I texted him the website and ticket costing but he never read it. I shrugged it off because of course it's typical Aquarius behavior. I have him on Tumblr so I would catch him reblogging and stuff, until one day...I was reblogging as usual and I saw him reblogged a post saying 'I love you inside and out' and he tagged his ex which made me do a double take like what? Then another post about love and tagged his ex again. My feelings was hurt...of course because it's like again, if you're still in love with your ex, you could've told me.
He kept reblogging love shit and tagging his ex and I decided that enough is enough because emotionally it's not doing me well and I was beginning to like this kid. So I texted him a long paragraph on how I felt and cut ties with the FWB stuff and told him I was disappointed in him. He never read...yet I still catch him on Tumblr when I'm on Tumblr. So I blocked him, unfollowed him on Tumblr and Twitter (He still follows me), question is...did I do the right thing? and what do you guys think about the whole situation on this. My role, his role, conclusion...

he told his friend and then told u that he thinks youre too wild to pursue.... THATS IT. you guys are just FWB to him
his whole jealousy thing about you saying 'hellos' and whatnot to friends is him just trying to claim you as his
and just being jelly not sharing you. Only he does that.
he gets to do whatever he wants: talk to ex's, have sex with random girl, sex related msgs with other girls etc...
IMO u are just his FWB and wants to control you but you cant control him
his whole jealousy thing about you saying 'hellos' and whatnot to friends is him just trying to claim you as his
and just being jelly not sharing you. Only he does that.
he gets to do whatever he wants: talk to ex's, have sex with random girl, sex related msgs with other girls etc...
IMO u are just his FWB and wants to control you but you cant control him

Imo and experience he's just using you for sex anything else, such as the apparent jealousy, I like you's etc is to keep you on the hook!
He clearly has no respect or regard for you or your feelings, sleeping with another chick under your nose is a clear sign.
So to answer your question, yes you did the right thing! Cut him off completely and move on with your life.
In my experience fwb with an aqua only works if your are as detached emotionally from the sex as they are. This means no after sex cuddlea
He clearly has no respect or regard for you or your feelings, sleeping with another chick under your nose is a clear sign.
So to answer your question, yes you did the right thing! Cut him off completely and move on with your life.
In my experience fwb with an aqua only works if your are as detached emotionally from the sex as they are. This means no after sex cuddlea

Posted by MadMarchRam*cuddles and no pillow talk!
Imo and experience he's just using you for sex anything else, such as the apparent jealousy, I like you's etc is to keep you on the hook!
He clearly has no respect or regard for you or your feelings, sleeping with another chick under your nose is a clear sign.
So to answer your question, yes you did the right thing! Cut him off completely and move on with your life.
In my experience fwb with an aqua only works if your are as detached emotionally from the sex as they are. This means no after sex cuddlea
You are not really friends and never will be, not in his eyes anyway.
Cut him off and don't look back

He's FWB. He's free to do what he wants. And so are you.
I am Aqua guy and this looks like a case when he is not genuine. I suggest not having much hope on him.
Update: The ex that he was going after for is in love with someone else; he's all like "I'm done trying"
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