Aquarius and their friends

Well, I like to know more about the ways that you see friends and the importance you give to them... I mean air signs in general are social butterflyes and I see with my eyes that they tend to know everyone, but not everyone is a "friend" in the meaning that other signs give to this word... Me for example (aries with cancer rising) i like just certain people that I am confortable with and I am very selective, often avoiding all social contact excepting my friends (and this situation maked me to dont know how to act in certain situation)... How you chose your friends, and especially how you chose your lover... I mean if you have a best friend this isn't automatically makes him your lover. You think that this is a thing of attraction that comes from the beggining or it can be tottaly without it at the start and come along the way?

The thing is that I like this aqua girl... But we cant be togheter because of the distance. I managed to show her a part of my personality and haved awsome times just for a few days (this summer I managed to kiss her, and when we were togheter we do a lot of things, like holding hands or stuff). But you see, it was a little bit to fast for her, and even if she liked me, she needed that friendship first... And she ended up telling me that we gonna be just friends for a while. The thing is that it was the only option avalabile to her because I was far away and we couldn't have a relationship even if she wanted it. I was so sad, because i thought in this way she is rejecting me, by telling me that "she doesn't want a relationship with anyone for some time"... But now I realised that she had no option left to make me feel a little bit safe to wait for her and dont think that she will fall in the arms of someone else while I'm away.
I dont care that much, and I can get over it if is the case but I dont want o relationship that bad, and i like her, so I can focus on learning now and just wait.
The thing is that we kept a constant communication level and her dissapearings and the apparent lack of intrest dont bother me that mutch because I get disstracted to and I dont feel the need to message her for long periods of time... So I think that I give her the same impression that she gives to me. The thing is that she developed kind of a crush for me, because the days we spent togheter were really amazing and she thinked about them over and over again... She makes subtile refrences on her tumblr account about that... And liking me in her head + the detachment the distance give to both of us make the conversations very intense but very rare too. I notice her starting to like the things that I like (gym and cooking) and she allways tries to show this on the social media, where is kind of absent in the periods when we haved a fight or a bad time. I mean, when things are good she become active to show me what she is doing.

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But she have a lot of friends, and one in particular is making me jealous, but she told me in the beggining
lound and clear that she doesn't like him and is just a good friend. The thing is that he can hang out more with her than me, but I dont think he is that intrested in her and is a bit of a superfivial tipe... Or idk... Is a libra and he have more girls like her in his friend group. You see, I'm a little bit jealous but she told me from the start that is just a friend, like the other boys she puts photos on facebook, because is that kind of girl that have almost no gril friends and she is allways hang out with boys.

From your aquarian point of view, shoud I worry that she will get in a relationship with someone else (especially that guy) or just be chill, still be kind of a friend to her, and when I have the occasion to see her just play my game and win her again witch it will be very easy because I know her weaknesses and I can play my card very well. I managed to keep a deep aura of mistery around me so for her I am that "hot guy that maked me feel amazing last summer and I really felt I have a connection with, but about I dont know too much and he doesn't talk to that often, but i planned to met him in the future".
In her situation what would you think? What it will be your decision, and the most important, would you prefer to give up on all of this and just start to pursue one of your friends? I mean, I really want to hear your point of view because I cant understand aquarius in general... They are damn strange compared to my aries mindset, so please take it as an "put in role" exercice and tell me yor opinion about this story and the way you see your friends in general. Ty 😄

Srry for bad grammar tho... English is not my native language an Im on phone -.-

If you start to think that you can win her by just exploiting her weaknesses and appearing mysterious, I don't think she deserves you.