Aquarius Aquarius in this space,why such mixed signals all over the place?

So when my aquarius guy told me this November,after oscillating between yes and no, that he can't continue with me even after growing emotionally close but physically distant,this January, when we met and I confessed I like him a lot he said he liked me a lot too and we cuddled,affectionate cuddling,nothing sexual.Then he disappeared for a long long time.

We had our holidays so he went to his hometown.I thought of stepping up and mailed him something funny,he didn't reply.A few days later he called me.He talked nicely and showed he was concerned about me.He said he was having mood swings,that he was in a negative phase and has transitioned into a little better but is still not feeling positive.He said he'll get back to being himself once he stabilises.

One day when I went alone to eat,I recalled the last time I went there with him and sent him a text saying how that place reminded me of that day.No reply.His Birth Day is on 10th Feb so I had to book a lounge(which will be his surprise) which is why I had to confirm if he was coming back.I called him twice,no answer.I texted him to call me back ASAP since it was urgent.He did.He still wasn't sure if he'll come back by then.He kept asking me why.Also,I said jokingly that oflate,everything has been going like an LDR.He said he can't do LDR.

Somewhere I mentioned that one of friends was single again.He started discussing about their relationship and said he thought the guy was serious.We talked about the guy(who is dating someone else now) and he kept defending him and also said somewhere that even if one point of time he had feelings for her,the break up would have been very painful.He had a sudden moodswing and said he was hanging up.I somehow continued the talk.We talked for another one hour.He flirted constantly.Somewhere in between the topic of our last break up cropped up.I said I thought we had a patch up in Jan but he said we've already had a breakup.He still continued flirting and I asked him.not to.He continued nevertheless.I told him I wasn't in for all that when we're not dating but he continued regardless.I did ask him here and there to.come soon.He negligently answered 'maybe'.We hung up a little after.During the conversation he asked once or twice if I was keeping fit and well.

My question is why is this guy giving me mixed signals all the way.Or is it something clear that I can't see?

Move on, he isn't ready, maybe you arn't either if after the break-up you are confessing your romantic affection.

Posted by Ilovemyaqua
So when my aquarius guy told me this November,after oscillating between yes and no, that he can't continue with me even after growing emotionally close but physically distant,this January, when we met and I confessed I like him a lot he said he liked me a lot too and we cuddled,affectionate cuddling,nothing sexual.Then he disappeared for a long long time.

We had our holidays so he went to his hometown.I thought of stepping up and mailed him something funny,he didn't reply.A few days later he called me.He talked nicely and showed he was concerned about me.He said he was having mood swings,that he was in a negative phase and has transitioned into a little better but is still not feeling positive.He said he'll get back to being himself once he stabilises.

One day when I went alone to eat,I recalled the last time I went there with him and sent him a text saying how that place reminded me of that day.No reply.His Birth Day is on 10th Feb so I had to book a lounge(which will be his surprise) which is why I had to confirm if he was coming back.I called him twice,no answer.I texted him to call me back ASAP since it was urgent.He did.He still wasn't sure if he'll come back by then.He kept asking me why.Also,I said jokingly that oflate,everything has been going like an LDR.He said he can't do LDR.

Somewhere I mentioned that one of friends was single again.He started discussing about their relationship and said he thought the guy was serious.We talked about the guy(who is dating someone else now) and he kept defending him and also said somewhere that even if one point of time he had feelings for her,the break up would have been very painful.He had a sudden moodswing and said he was hanging up.I somehow continued the talk.We talked for another one hour.He flirted constantly.Somewhere in between the topic of our last break up cropped up.I said I thought we had a patch up in Jan but he said we've already had a breakup.He still continued flirting and I asked him.not to.He continued nevertheless.I told him I wasn't in for all that when we're not dating but he continued regardless.I did ask him here and there to.come soon.He negligently answered 'maybe'.We hung up a little after.During the conversation he asked once or twice if I was keeping fit and well.

My question is why is this guy giving me mixed signals all the way.Or is it something clear that I can't see?

He's not giving you mixed signals. He told you yall are broke up. The reason you feel like you're getting mixed signals is because you're chasing him.

Chase,maybe.I thought we were in a relationship which is why I acted that way.And because he was flirting non stop.Idk.He once did it before when we broke up and we got back again.I thought it was the same.

Posted by Ilovemyaqua
Chase,maybe.I thought we were in a relationship which is why I acted that way.And because he was flirting non stop.Idk.He once did it before when we broke up and we got back again.I thought it was the same.

I understand.

It just seems that you're the only one initiating contact and he's not responding, which lead me to say you were chasing.

move on

Love the title


That is all. 🙂

Update: So my aqua called me today and said he was missing me.We had a nice convo
He started flirting and I told him not to.He tried flirting again a little later and I told him not to again.He asked me why I was mad.I said I wasn't mad,it wqs just that flirting wasn't required.He said if it was because we weren't dating? I said yes.He didn't flirt after this.we had a nice convo.I told him to tell me when he returns.Any thoughts?