Aquarius and Aquarius Relationships

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by chemengin on Friday, August 1, 2014 and has 30 replies.

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@chemengin
14 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm just wondering how a romantic relationship like this can last. I know there are other placements to consider, not just the sun sign. I think my judgement is jaded because my brother is an Aquarius and when I dated an Aquarius it was like I was dating him. It was to weird.

I mean, I get along with aqua males fine, but to date one or be married to one. I dont think I could do it.

What do you guys think?

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@Aquadeer
12 Years

I dated an aqua male once. He was great, caring, romantic and always there for me. I found out later he had another girlfriend haha. Honestly, there wasn't a connection. I was at a difference place in my life and obviously, he was too.

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@IAmMystified
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From what I know it requires ALOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT of patience and tolerance for ambiguity and truly understanding they aren't romantic in the traditional sense. They show they care through ways we probably aren't used to.

From what I know, they need space, your respect.

And they hate emotional drama and expect their partner to be upfront ASAP about anything they are concerned or upset about and value direct communication.

I think aquas are the ones in the zodiac that teaches us to be a logical adult in the relationship.

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@chemengin
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Posted by Aquadeer
. Honestly, there wasn't a connection. I was at a difference place in my life and obviously, he was too.

See, we didnt have an automatic connection either. We used to argue just to get to make up sex. And when we would sit and talk it was like I was talking to one of the guys not my bf.

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@truecap
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My ex in-laws are both aquarius.

They each do their own thing, don't do too much together, but they seem to get along really great. And whatever they have works. They are loyal to each other. Disrepect her and you'll get a knife in your gut kind of loyalty. He treats her like a queen, whatever she wants, she gets. She stays on him to be a better person, but he is definitely the king of the castle, what he says goes.

They bicker a lot in the funniest ways. They mean what they say, but neither takes offense. It's funny to the rest of us.

He will say something stupid, out of line or inappropriate (hilariously funny, though).
She: How many beers have you had?
He: Not as many as I'm going to.
She: Well, come in the house before you pass out.
He: I might just spend all night on the porch. How do you like that?
She: Good, then I won't have to hear you snore and smell your beer breath.
He: Good, then.
She goes inside.
One more beer and he gets up and goes inside.

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@Aquadeer
12 Years

Posted by AquaMermaid
My first love was an Aquarius man. He was 8 years older to me. He was gorgeous. He chased me and expressed his love for me. I was very young. We were together for two years. He brought me flowers,my favourite cup cakes,wrote love letters and poems.He was a charmer.Passion was off the charts. Sex was amazing. We couldn't stay together because of unavoidable circumstances but he'll always be special to me. Some Aquarian men are extremely good looking!! I am
glad I dated my fellow sign. I have no complaints.

So far the best looking me (I've notice) are aquas, cancer, Aries, Leo's, and gemini's

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@justagirl
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never dated one, they have always felt more brotherly to me..

i'm laughing & scratching my head at the non Aquas answering this πŸ˜„ Isn't this about Aqua/Aqua dating?

Truecap is the exception, because I swear she's part Aqua πŸ˜› plus she knows us better than some of us know our own sign.

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@truecap
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Posted by justagirl
never dated one, they have always felt more brotherly to me..

i'm laughing & scratching my head at the non Aquas answering this πŸ˜„ Isn't this about Aqua/Aqua dating?

Truecap is the exception, because I swear she's part Aqua πŸ˜› plus she knows us better than some of us know our own sign.

Thanks for saying that. I wanted to just throw in my observation on an aqua/aqua couple I have known for over 20 years. And I admit, I don't know how it feels for them. Just an outsider looking in. πŸ™‚

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@sassafras
12 Years

3 of them-- none lasted more than a couple outings. One of them looked just like Ryan Gosling I kid you NOT. But sadly, there just isn't any connection or desire like I have had with other signs. I would rather sit under the stars on a mountain top listening to music or talking about life with an aqua than be intimate with one. It just feels right that way.

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@justagirl
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Posted by truecap
Posted by justagirl
never dated one, they have always felt more brotherly to me..

i'm laughing & scratching my head at the non Aquas answering this πŸ˜„ Isn't this about Aqua/Aqua dating?

Truecap is the exception, because I swear she's part Aqua πŸ˜› plus she knows us better than some of us know our own sign.

Thanks for saying that. I wanted to just throw in my observation on an aqua/aqua couple I have known for over 20 years. And I admit, I don't know how it feels for them. Just an outsider looking in. πŸ™‚

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Girl, you ARE an Aqua, you just don't know it yet πŸ˜„

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@chemengin
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Posted by truecap
My ex in-laws are both aquarius.

They each do their own thing, don't do too much together, but they seem to get along really great. And whatever they have works. They are loyal to each other. Disrepect her and you'll get a knife in your gut kind of loyalty. He treats her like a queen, whatever she wants, she gets. She stays on him to be a better person, but he is definitely the king of the castle, what he says goes.

They bicker a lot in the funniest ways. They mean what they say, but neither takes offense. It's funny to the rest of us.

He will say something stupid, out of line or inappropriate (hilariously funny, though).
She: How many beers have you had?
He: Not as many as I'm going to.
She: Well, come in the house before you pass out.
He: I might just spend all night on the porch. How do you like that?
She: Good, then I won't have to hear you snore and smell your beer breath.
He: Good, then.
She goes inside.
One more beer and he gets up and goes inside.

LOL that is so cute πŸ™‚

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@chemengin
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Posted by justagirl
Posted by truecap
Posted by justagirl
never dated one, they have always felt more brotherly to me..

i'm laughing & scratching my head at the non Aquas answering this πŸ˜„ Isn't this about Aqua/Aqua dating?

Truecap is the exception, because I swear she's part Aqua πŸ˜› plus she knows us better than some of us know our own sign.

Thanks for saying that. I wanted to just throw in my observation on an aqua/aqua couple I have known for over 20 years. And I admit, I don't know how it feels for them. Just an outsider looking in. πŸ™‚


Girl, you ARE an Aqua, you just don't know it yet πŸ˜„
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LOL πŸ˜„

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@Aquadeer
12 Years

Posted by sassafras
3 of them-- none lasted more than a couple outings. One of them looked just like Ryan Gosling I kid you NOT. But sadly, there just isn't any connection or desire like I have had with other signs. I would rather sit under the stars on a mountain top listening to music or talking about life with an aqua than be intimate with one. It just feels right that way.

+100000

Absolutely, more of an analytical friendship based. One of my male aqua friends would sit and talk about anything and everything. I felt 100% comfortable with him and had no desire to make it a relationship, only friendship for us.

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@aquarius09
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Posted by truecap
My ex in-laws are both aquarius.

They each do their own thing, don't do too much together, but they seem to get along really great. And whatever they have works. They are loyal to each other. Disrepect her and you'll get a knife in your gut kind of loyalty. He treats her like a queen, whatever she wants, she gets. She stays on him to be a better person, but he is definitely the king of the castle, what he says goes.

They bicker a lot in the funniest ways. They mean what they say, but neither takes offense. It's funny to the rest of us.

He will say something stupid, out of line or inappropriate (hilariously funny, though).
She: How many beers have you had?
He: Not as many as I'm going to.
She: Well, come in the house before you pass out.
He: I might just spend all night on the porch. How do you like that?
She: Good, then I won't have to hear you snore and smell your beer breath.
He: Good, then.
She goes inside.
One more beer and he gets up and goes inside.

Aww! That's super cute and my kind of relationship. I wouldn't wanna date another me, but you just made me like this aqua-aqua relationship.

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@NotYourAverageAquarius
13 Years5,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by sassafras
3 of them-- none lasted more than a couple outings. One of them looked just like Ryan Gosling I kid you NOT. But sadly, there just isn't any connection or desire like I have had with other signs. I would rather sit under the stars on a mountain top listening to music or talking about life with an aqua than be intimate with one. It just feels right that way.

I dunno sitting under stars on a mountain top talking about life seems pretty romantic if you ask me and could easily get personal and intimate!
πŸ™‚

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@frostey91
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Aqua females are so tricky to me. I find them interesting but I don't know if their my romantic mate. Even though I have Venus at the very beginning of Aqua. If there is another Shakira out there my age sign me up.