Aquarius: Friends or more?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by xo_leo on Tuesday, February 21, 2017 and has 3 replies.

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@xo_leo
9 Years

My story is that I've known my aquarius friend for almost two years now. We met through a non-profit. At the beginning I didn't pay attention to him because I wasn't looking for anything at the time, and then I eventually realized that he was kind, genuine, and caring. Also, he was kind of quirky and I like that. So, I began to fall for him. I fell so hard, that I told him how I felt. He told me that he liked me too. We were both excited and caught up in our feelings. We didn't kiss for the longest time. It even took a longer time to even hug each other. But when we kissed, man oh man, it was so passionate, thrilling, and magical.

However, being me and wanting to make sure that this wasn't a fling-side-thing. I asked him what his intentions were in the long run (I know...not the best move, but I needed to know if it was something I could take seriously). He said that he wasn't looking for anything serious. So I decided to call it quits, and said that we should remain as friends only. We agreed that we both should be friends.

A year has past since that time, and we've kept in touch here and there with our friend group. However, I've noticed that he has been even more present in my life. For instance, we would schedule one-on-one hangouts for events that we both like, talk more consistently throughout the week via text or with online chats, he is persistent to support me on my personal goals, and lately he asked to hangout with me (just me) all day. He also has been suggesting spontaneous events that we should do outdoors with friends. I'm not pushing anything this time and have no need to because I enjoy our friendship and conversations with each other. I love where we are now. He is one of the few people that I can trust in my life, other than my current best friend.

I suppose I am seeking some validation through the signs to see if this could mean something more or if he likes me. Thoughts?

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@kmoshie
9 Years

He likes you! Otherwise, he wouldn't go out of his way to hang out with you. We tend to be kind of lazy with social events unless we really have our hearts in it. He wants to be around you. Just be yourself and he will eat it up. You enchant him with your Leo-ness, just keep being you for him.

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@xo_leo
9 Years

Oh wow, thank you for your responses! I have not seen these and wish I did sooner (my mind could have rest more easily haha).

Well this will be interesting how we both move forward with this haha. Right now it's fun and exciting, and l like that 🙂