If an Aqua misses and wants you. Would they chase you?

Even if they are not looking for a relationship for the time being? .. ( long story short, I cut things off, I walked away, was brutally honest and open..., he replied says how much he likes me n loves the connection though he can't give me what I want.. , so I decided to cut loose, and going turkey on him...I'm black and white ( Taurus sun wining over Aqua moon) .. ) a part of me is wishing he would turn around and chase me when he misses me.. another part is wondering if an Aqua would even do that.... though if he truly did like me that much, he wouldnt just let me go right— I'm going to give it a month of no contact rule... we been seeing each other for 2 'moths..

Same here with me 🙂)) Im the Taurus, she is Aqua, seeing eachother for 3 months, she likes me, she loves me, she can't imagine not speaking to me. Then realises that she doesnt want a relationship and started ghosting me. Chased her a bit, but then got a text "we will never be together". After this, I backed away, we still talk casually (we work together goddamn it), but no personal stuff. And she always approaches me with work stuff that she didnt had to! Or we could just exchange emails, but she wants to text me in a friendly way...

Posted by BAV
Same here with me 🙂)) Im the Taurus, she is Aqua, seeing eachother for 3 months, she likes me, she loves me, she can't imagine not speaking to me. Then realises that she doesnt want a relationship and started ghosting me. Chased her a bit, but then got a text "we will never be together". After this, I backed away, we still talk casually (we work together goddamn it), but no personal stuff. And she always approaches me with work stuff that she didnt had to! Or we could just exchange emails, but she wants to text me in a friendly way...

Oh im glad I'm not the only one. In my csss he doesn't want a relationship( personal and real reasons before he met me ) so I ended things with him....😢

Bav atleast she still talks to you. I don't even get that.

OP - the best thing to do is go no contact for a month. Get some space, it will give you some perspective and breathing space. You will be in a different head space in a month and if you feel the need to reach out then do so. If you get nothing or negativity back then atleast you know and im hoping your wont be hurt by it.

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Same here with me 🙂)) Im the Taurus, she is Aqua, seeing eachother for 3 months, she likes me, she loves me, she can't imagine not speaking to me. Then realises that she doesnt want a relationship and started ghosting me. Chased her a bit, but then got a text "we will never be together". After this, I backed away, we still talk casually (we work together goddamn it), but no personal stuff. And she always approaches me with work stuff that she didnt had to! Or we could just exchange emails, but she wants to text me in a friendly way...

Oh im glad I'm not the only one. In my csss he doesn't want a relationship( personal and real reasons before he met me ) so I ended things with him....😢

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yeah, its the same, she doesnt want one... she is divorced with a kid, issues with her ex, some fwb... I dont think they will chase us, an Aqua doesnt do that normally, especially after saying they dont want anything more. At least "I was the first one in 5 years with whom she was really thinking about a relationship". Or she is telling this to every guy 🙂)))

Honestly it is easier for us to have fwb than a relationship.

I've been divorced for a couple years now and I've always had fwb, 99% of the time it was it guys who 1. I couldn't see myself in a relationship with them. 2. there's some conflict if we get in a relationship (age difference etc)

3. they don't interest me enough for a relationship so I don't care about getting to know them.

Most of us are honest to tell you if we know for sure it's just a fwb.

If we don't tell you that and show interest about you.

If we want you, we low key chase you, we won't be on your ass literally but we want to spend time with you.

Yes they will chase you, however the key words are; "If" they miss you and want you.

We were not friends with benefits... we weee more than that, getting to know each other deeper and deeper... he says he likes me alot though from march he will be doing his full time MBA and working full time at the same time. He won't have time for a relationship at all.. which is totally understandable... though for a Taurus, it's very tricky to be with someone half way....😢 I miss him... day two without me responding... pfff

He says we r not fwb at all.....oh well

Posted by aquarius_beauty
With Aqua men it's tricky. This is where the conflict lies. If you've had sex with him before he's fallen in love with you, then he will not commit. Aquas are pretty picky when it comes to commitment. From my experience they always commit easily to other Aquas, because we have that connection and understanding that no one else has, and with women they haven't bedded yet.

If you gave it up too soon chances are he's not that emotionally invested in you. He might miss you but that doesn't mean he'll commit to you. I know various Aquarius males who will reach out but only to see how you are doing or to sleep with you.

As modern as Aquas tend to be we are actually quite traditional, especially the men. With them, the longer you wait to put out the better. Otherwise you'd just be labeled as a a girl he just had fun with. Which many have had plenty of.

As far as the chasing. No, we don't usually do the chasing. Even if we love you. We might pop up into your life and see what's up? But other than that we will not beg you. But our version of chasing after someone we love is being in constant communication with that person. Most other people see chasing as us asking for you to forgive us and ask you to be in a relationship with you. It's not gonna happen.

When my Leo broke things off, even though it killed me on the inside, I never begged him. I just reassured him if that's what he wanted to do. He said yes. I said ok and walked away. I don't do begging. I've never had to beg a man to be with me and I'm not about to start now. Aqua males have too many options to beg or a chase a woman.

Yeah oh well.. then perhaps he didn't feel for me as how we actually met was literally very different lol... I won't go into that ... I can't go back now, if I don't hear from him for a month then I know it was just the sex for him then hey!?

Though he really really cared about me.. action than words.. he was very sweet and his questions were very caring... he was also getting protective which caused me confusion... anyhow, thank you !!! I know they don't chase so, I will just need to move on.

Well I am a Gemini sun with Libra moon and I am in a relationship with a Aqua sun/Capricorn moon man and he has "chased" me more than a few times. We broke up a few times over our 2yr relationship and I've been ready to leave him for good but he has asked me to come back and try it again. So, it is possible...

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We were not friends with benefits... we weee more than that, getting to know each other deeper and deeper... he says he likes me alot though from march he will be doing his full time MBA and working full time at the same time. He won't have time for a relationship at all.. which is totally understandable... though for a Taurus, it's very tricky to be with someone half way....😢 I miss him... day two without me responding... pfff

If you want to be with an Aqua then you need to give him space. Lots of it. Especially because he has a lot of things he has to do. Sounds like you may be too clingy wanting all the attention to yourself. I think it's best that you move on regardless. I'd hate you breaking the Aquas heart by cheating. I had an Aqua friend who was working and going to school full time and he warned his girl that he was going to be busy and not have time for anything else. Told her it was best they parted ways...she was reluctant and agreed to stick around saying she could handle the distance. Turns out she cheated on him multiple times because she couldn't handle the 'neglect'. He was devastated.

Before you hurt him and yourself...walk away now on good terms. When he has more time for you, he can come back.

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Yes you r so right... Its his semester for his school... I wanna b there n support him though i rrwally dont know how much i could handle.. I do give him lots of spaces and when hes out on weekends i do get a little bit sad though i will never let that show.. I do want bim to be happy n i nevee cause a scene ever... I know he loves meeting new people so i just let him be.. I have moon in aqua so our craziness do match in a wired way hahaha.... Now im tempted to reply to him... I think my all or nothing approach may have hurt him... I just domt know how to move in while being in touch with him... ,my taurus brain doesnt get it lol.... 😢

These Aquas sure know how to pull you in! Paradoxical.

Similar situation but as said before just give room. As far as I've found they're as honest as they say. And I believe if they want nothing to do with you they'd tell you or you'd know.

This Aqua and I aren't in a rship but she's said she needs to focus on her and family now and doesn't want one for now or foreseeable. So just take it for what it is. Back off give room, turn it back into a friendship and keep it light!

Posted by aquarius_beauty
With Aqua men it's tricky. This is where the conflict lies. If you've had sex with him before he's fallen in love with you, then he will not commit. Aquas are pretty picky when it comes to commitment. From my experience they always commit easily to other Aquas, because we have that connection and understanding that no one else has, and with women they haven't bedded yet.

If you gave it up too soon chances are he's not that emotionally invested in you. He might miss you but that doesn't mean he'll commit to you. I know various Aquarius males who will reach out but only to see how you are doing or to sleep with you.

As modern as Aquas tend to be we are actually quite traditional, especially the men. With them, the longer you wait to put out the better. Otherwise you'd just be labeled as a a girl he just had fun with. Which many have had plenty of.

As far as the chasing. No, we don't usually do the chasing. Even if we love you. We might pop up into your life and see what's up? But other than that we will not beg you. But our version of chasing after someone we love is being in constant communication with that person. Most other people see chasing as us asking for you to forgive us and ask you to be in a relationship with you. It's not gonna happen.

When my Leo broke things off, even though it killed me on the inside, I never begged him. I just reassured him if that's what he wanted to do. He said yes. I said ok and walked away. I don't do begging. I've never had to beg a man to be with me and I'm not about to start now. Aqua males have too many options to beg or a chase a woman.

hunny I am sorry to break this to you, but newsflash he is no longer your leo. hahahaha

No

Yes

Then no

Tbh it depends on if they are worth the energy. Some are , some aren't.

As a female it's tough cause we "aren't" supposed to chase. It's a fine line to express interest and not have it been seen as aggressive.

Tbh I've grown weary of all that. I'll just stay to myself mostly and do me.

*shrug*