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Aquarius man cancelling dates (Page 2)
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Posted by ex2mommy
The only thing I know to do is walk...no contact at all. He is going to go crazy.Please do so. He's not going crazy, he's making you crazy.
You two never had a good, proper relationship. Why is so difficult for you to move on? What is he offering you that you can't live without? From what you've written here, NOTHING!
You can do it. You are an Aqua, aren't you? Six months of no contact, while pursuing other interests, and you won't even remember why you clung on him for so long!
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Posted by Undine
Why is so difficult for you to move on? What is he offering you that you can't live without? From what you've written here, NOTHING!Wrong. He's unattainable to her and Aquas love that sort of thing.
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NO they don't!
Go fix your makeup 😱
I feel for you lady
Thanks.. You guys crack me up.
He definitely is unattainable. Everything I have read...they are distant..aloof. My question though is how distant?!?!
We have been no contact for a week now. Don't know what he is thinking...don't really care except he owes me some money.
But...seriously...don't get upset when I deny you of hanging out...and then get pissed because who knows when or if I will see you.
Its as if he got upset when he assumed I had a date. But he doesn't want to do anything to keep me interested in him...especially after a year. He doesn't want to ever go out..boring.
I'm an aqua, and well, this doesn't sound to me like a sign specific behavior. If you believe it is, it still shouldn't be used as an excuse for him. If a guy is into you, regardless of what sign, he will make time for you... it really is that simple. To me, actions speak louder than words, and his actions suggest that he may not be on the same page as you, but rather, is trying to appease you for the meantime, so as not to lose you, by making plans... then cancelling. Then hooking you back in by making plans... it's like a stationary bike, it's not going anywhere.
No your right...its passive aggressive behavior. When I was advised to look up the meaning..his name was right next to it. EVERY sign is him to a T.
We have been no contact for 2.5 weeks now. Not a peep..it actually is not even bothering me.
There is just too much wrong and not enough right for this chick 😉
...and through all of this...and the last time we spoke and got into an argument. After further thinking...I just laugh because he got upset because he assumed I " had a hot date". Well buddy if you were that worried about it...should've thought about making things official and exclusive..your loss.
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Please do so. He's not going crazy, he's making you crazy.
You two never had a good, proper relationship. Why is so difficult for you to move on? What is he offering you that you can't live without? From what you've written here, NOTHING!
You can do it. You are an Aqua, aren't you? Six months of no contact, while pursuing other interests, and you won't even remember why you clung on him for so long!