Aquarius Man (my friend) and his games/tests

So, I am new to the forum. I have read many stories about aquas and I am very well informed about thier characteristics thought these forums. THANK YOU!

Anyway, I have been talking to an aqua man for 3 months now. He is pretty cool. I am 29 and he is about 46. He never told me his real age, but have have hinted around. He isa very busy man, owns his own business. Works extremely hard, like 6 days a week.

When we first met, it was an instant attraction. I have never felt the attraction that happened b/w us. I was about to go in the opposite direction when I felt an extreme "tug" on my spirit. Like someone was heavily looking at me. When I turned around, it was him. Starring hard! There were many other ppl around. But he was the one that my spirit knew was looking at me. I turned around to say my goodbyes and I gave him a hug. He had to go back to his state. He was just here on business. But when him and I let go, it was like magic or something out of the movies. He asked me, Are you leaving already? I said, Yea I have to its late. Blah blah blah. I saw him looking all over me, like he was really trying to search or take a visual picture in his head of me. Our eyes finally locked. When I tell you guys that our eyes locked, it locked! It was like he was looking into my soul and I was looking into his! It was like the earth stopped! It was like our souls we're speaking to each other so clearly! It made me feel like I really met my soulmate! So when he realized we were looking at each other too long, he looked elsewhere like towards my hair. That's when he asked me, take my number down. I had my phone in my hand so it was easy for me to do. I gave him another hug goodbye and then I let go, he tried to reach for me again but on a cool type of way. But I really had to go.

I txt him. And he responded back. We talked ever since. Like 3 or 4 times a day. Getting to know each other. But in a weird type of way. Weird I mean, he wants me to talk and stir convo while he listen and collect data on me. Lol! When I ask questions about him, he will answer majority but the others he won't. He have mentioned before to just allow the conversations to flow. Like he doesn't want the Convo. to feellike I am interrogating him with a bunch a questions about him. So I started easing off of the questions lately. And just started talking about world events, politics and spiritual things oh and about our busy day.

He would text me that he missed me
Continued bel

I'm having the EXACT problem as we speak!!!
He wants me to start the convo, hold the convo,
and damn near answer my own questions its
weird ! Ill txt him a paragraph, hell txt back with
one word answers and wen I say "well ttyl" cause
I'm done babysitting him hell say some Random
sh*t like "babe I'm sick where are yu?" I respond
with my location & he never answers back. Then
I txt him again- still no response! Ima tell yu exactly
what it is: he's probing you. He wants to learn your
reactions to different situations [hell push your buttons]
He wants to learn everything about yu [but dont let him
hell get bored then its a wrap!] but he wants to remain
a mystery. Your rite he does want to collect data on
you so play the game; be interesting and mysterious
just like he is. I get those "imu" txt too but that's the
only piece of emotion I get from him and then he wants
me to do the rest. Very tiring, but I get bored fast so f*ck
it ill play the game with you 😉

Btw I'm a virgo

Thanks for responding jazsexyazz! I am a Capricorn. And everything u say is on point. But how do you kind of push past this situation so that the aqua guy can trust you?

Typical aqua behaviour! Just go with the flow. Mine has said that before! lol! Isn't it amazing when they look at you like that and then your eyes lock? Makes my heart melt. *sigh*

I have no advice, except enjoy the roller coaster and don't chase them!

Just prove yourself trustworthy. It will take time. They operate very slowly. Don't rush it, you can't and they will run.

Thanks TrueCap

You are certain hes not married? Have you checked him out?

What business is he in that causes him to travel?

Cold water: no he is not married.

Catfish 36: he is a business manager for numerous of ppl.

MeToo!!!! Heyyyy! Thanks for your advice. It is much needed. It is going to be hard not calling too. I mean I AMA female and I just want to learn more about him. He is very mysterious which makes me want him more. And I think he knows that too. He is very untuned into the spiritual as well. Like for example, when I am getting ready to do something, go out, etc. He will txt me, "What are you doing?" Lolol! It is scary at times. He will do it right before I do what I am getting ready to do. Or as I am doing it. It's weird! Then with me, at times I can "feel" when he is going to call or text. And 5 min later he does. I think he feels the connection and the connection is entirely tooooo strong for him. And because he is not emotional, he don't know how to handle it.