Posted by peaceandtranquility_96Posted by FeelsyCancerW
Thanks everyone! It makes me feel so much better.
It's confusing for me, cause space for me means alone time. Space from everyone. Apparently it's different for him.
Oh yes ā„ļø! The difference between us cancers and other air signs! Hahaha! Aquarius energy is expansive. They like to talk to people and learn new things (i.e. the Humanitarians of the zodiac). We cancers feel deeply and we like our space small. At times, we need to retreat away from the world and by ourselves to recharge.click to expand
Posted by La_MariposaPosted by FeelsyCancerW
Is it usual for an aquarius man to require space(several days of no contact) only with the woman they are(used to be?) interested in? It's clear he wants "space" from only me but he is talking to and hanging out with everyone else. Didn't use to be like this. We used to talk every day. He's no longer interested? When I asked him about it he says I'm over thinking. But this is how it feels.
Iām sorry cancer but this is normal, I even had an aqua man do the same to me only to come back months later apologizing. š
As being an aqua on the cusp and with Pisces Venus, I require too much love/affection to go without. The distance made me feel like he wasnāt interested.click to expand
Posted by La_MariposaPosted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by La_MariposaPosted by FeelsyCancerW
Is it usual for an aquarius man to require space(several days of no contact) only with the woman they are(used to be?) interested in? It's clear he wants "space" from only me but he is talking to and hanging out with everyone else. Didn't use to be like this. We used to talk every day. He's no longer interested? When I asked him about it he says I'm over thinking. But this is how it feels.
Iām sorry cancer but this is normal, I even had an aqua man do the same to me only to come back months later apologizing. š
As being an aqua on the cusp and with Pisces Venus, I require too much love/affection to go without. The distance made me feel like he wasnāt interested.
I'm sorry your Aqua treated you like this. š¢
I wouldn't wait months, not even several weeks. š¢
Itās okay, I didnāt wait around for him. Iām married now to a Pisces man and Iām so happy. He truly knows how to love on me. I adore him! āŗļøclick to expand
Posted by Aquaman2Posted by pisceswoman123
Yes totally normal. I am kind of the same so it doesnāt bother me as long as thereās some kind of communication.
I know this woman, you can trust her blindlyšclick to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123
Yes totally normal. I am kind of the same so it doesnāt bother me as long as thereās some kind of communication.
Posted by AerialView
Well you better get used to it. Lol.
Or stop over thinking š
Posted by pinkbird03
Are you being clingy or acting too extraā That might be his reason for space. Thatās my problem.
Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03
Are you being clingy or acting too extraā That might be his reason for space. Thatās my problem.
No, I don't think so.
Are you still with the Aqua man who was very busy with work but watched your snapchat stories?click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03
Are you being clingy or acting too extraā That might be his reason for space. Thatās my problem.
No, I don't think so.
Are you still with the Aqua man who was very busy with work but watched your snapchat stories?
Oh itās been the most interesting year with him. We got closer. More communication and I even hung out with him, but then he pulled away. He got mad at me and stopped talking July 15. I deleted everything about him on Tuesday. Including my location. Then saw him randomly at a bar/restaurant on Friday.... chances of that happening?? Slim. Iāve never seen him there. I think he went there on purpose knowing Iād probably be there because thatās my spot for dinner. Of course I was with a guy. All of his friends and him were looking at me. Awkward lol Iāll probably see him Saturday because itās a special event day on the lake. He knows Iāll be there. Itās very far for him. Will be interesting to see if he goes.click to expand
Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pisceswoman123
Yes totally normal. I am kind of the same so it doesnāt bother me as long as thereās some kind of communication.
Well there isn't any communication. Day 4.click to expand
Posted by FeelsyCancerW
I like my space too but without ANY communication I get sad.
Posted by FeelsyCancerW
So it's over. I said I'm giving him space but that I ask him to be honest with me if there's no interest, so that I won't keep waiting and hoping. He answered there's no reason to push it, that we're too different. š
Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03
Are you being clingy or acting too extraā That might be his reason for space. Thatās my problem.
No, I don't think so.
Are you still with the Aqua man who was very busy with work but watched your snapchat stories?
Oh itās been the most interesting year with him. We got closer. More communication and I even hung out with him, but then he pulled away. He got mad at me and stopped talking July 15. I deleted everything about him on Tuesday. Including my location. Then saw him randomly at a bar/restaurant on Friday.... chances of that happening?? Slim. Iāve never seen him there. I think he went there on purpose knowing Iād probably be there because thatās my spot for dinner. Of course I was with a guy. All of his friends and him were looking at me. Awkward lol Iāll probably see him Saturday because itās a special event day on the lake. He knows Iāll be there. Itās very far for him. Will be interesting to see if he goes.
Why did he get mad at you?click to expand
Posted by AerialViewPosted by FeelsyCancerW
So it's over. I said I'm giving him space but that I ask him to be honest with me if there's no interest, so that I won't keep waiting and hoping. He answered there's no reason to push it, that we're too different. š
Did you really say that?click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03
Are you being clingy or acting too extraā That might be his reason for space. Thatās my problem.
No, I don't think so.
Are you still with the Aqua man who was very busy with work but watched your snapchat stories?
Oh itās been the most interesting year with him. We got closer. More communication and I even hung out with him, but then he pulled away. He got mad at me and stopped talking July 15. I deleted everything about him on Tuesday. Including my location. Then saw him randomly at a bar/restaurant on Friday.... chances of that happening?? Slim. Iāve never seen him there. I think he went there on purpose knowing Iād probably be there because thatās my spot for dinner. Of course I was with a guy. All of his friends and him were looking at me. Awkward lol Iāll probably see him Saturday because itās a special event day on the lake. He knows Iāll be there. Itās very far for him. Will be interesting to see if he goes.
Why did he get mad at you?
Iāve been posting sexy pictures on snap for over a year. I posted some very sexy club dresses that I just bought for my trip in July. I think he got jealous. He blew up randomly one day about all my postings of sexy pictures. Claiming I look foolish and need to take my clothes off for attention. I replied, ā no, I get attention with my clothes on tooā he never wrote me back after that... oops. But he never said one thing about it. I even asked him in the past if he cared and he said no. Sooooo I donāt get that. If he had just talked to me I would have stopped. And I did stop but he deleted my snap that day. But I delete him from seeing my location and he shows up at my dinner spot..... he did this before he used to drive past me all the time when I went to work and left work.... I just donāt get him.click to expand
Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03
Are you being clingy or acting too extraā That might be his reason for space. Thatās my problem.
No, I don't think so.
Are you still with the Aqua man who was very busy with work but watched your snapchat stories?
Oh itās been the most interesting year with him. We got closer. More communication and I even hung out with him, but then he pulled away. He got mad at me and stopped talking July 15. I deleted everything about him on Tuesday. Including my location. Then saw him randomly at a bar/restaurant on Friday.... chances of that happening?? Slim. Iāve never seen him there. I think he went there on purpose knowing Iād probably be there because thatās my spot for dinner. Of course I was with a guy. All of his friends and him were looking at me. Awkward lol Iāll probably see him Saturday because itās a special event day on the lake. He knows Iāll be there. Itās very far for him. Will be interesting to see if he goes.
Why did he get mad at you?
Iāve been posting sexy pictures on snap for over a year. I posted some very sexy club dresses that I just bought for my trip in July. I think he got jealous. He blew up randomly one day about all my postings of sexy pictures. Claiming I look foolish and need to take my clothes off for attention. I replied, ā no, I get attention with my clothes on tooā he never wrote me back after that... oops. But he never said one thing about it. I even asked him in the past if he cared and he said no. Sooooo I donāt get that. If he had just talked to me I would have stopped. And I did stop but he deleted my snap that day. But I delete him from seeing my location and he shows up at my dinner spot..... he did this before he used to drive past me all the time when I went to work and left work.... I just donāt get him.
It's the jealousy thing, you should know better than to make an Aqua man jealous. They're not they type to come running after you, ever.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03
Are you being clingy or acting too extraā That might be his reason for space. Thatās my problem.
No, I don't think so.
Are you still with the Aqua man who was very busy with work but watched your snapchat stories?
Oh itās been the most interesting year with him. We got closer. More communication and I even hung out with him, but then he pulled away. He got mad at me and stopped talking July 15. I deleted everything about him on Tuesday. Including my location. Then saw him randomly at a bar/restaurant on Friday.... chances of that happening?? Slim. Iāve never seen him there. I think he went there on purpose knowing Iād probably be there because thatās my spot for dinner. Of course I was with a guy. All of his friends and him were looking at me. Awkward lol Iāll probably see him Saturday because itās a special event day on the lake. He knows Iāll be there. Itās very far for him. Will be interesting to see if he goes.
Why did he get mad at you?
Iāve been posting sexy pictures on snap for over a year. I posted some very sexy club dresses that I just bought for my trip in July. I think he got jealous. He blew up randomly one day about all my postings of sexy pictures. Claiming I look foolish and need to take my clothes off for attention. I replied, ā no, I get attention with my clothes on tooā he never wrote me back after that... oops. But he never said one thing about it. I even asked him in the past if he cared and he said no. Sooooo I donāt get that. If he had just talked to me I would have stopped. And I did stop but he deleted my snap that day. But I delete him from seeing my location and he shows up at my dinner spot..... he did this before he used to drive past me all the time when I went to work and left work.... I just donāt get him.
It's the jealousy thing, you should know better than to make an Aqua man jealous. They're not they type to come running after you, ever.
I didnāt know it was making him jealous. I thought he liked it. Iām sure seeing me with another guy was difficult. Thatās what I feel most sad about.click to expand
Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03
Are you being clingy or acting too extraā That might be his reason for space. Thatās my problem.
No, I don't think so.
Are you still with the Aqua man who was very busy with work but watched your snapchat stories?
Oh itās been the most interesting year with him. We got closer. More communication and I even hung out with him, but then he pulled away. He got mad at me and stopped talking July 15. I deleted everything about him on Tuesday. Including my location. Then saw him randomly at a bar/restaurant on Friday.... chances of that happening?? Slim. Iāve never seen him there. I think he went there on purpose knowing Iād probably be there because thatās my spot for dinner. Of course I was with a guy. All of his friends and him were looking at me. Awkward lol Iāll probably see him Saturday because itās a special event day on the lake. He knows Iāll be there. Itās very far for him. Will be interesting to see if he goes.
Why did he get mad at you?
Iāve been posting sexy pictures on snap for over a year. I posted some very sexy club dresses that I just bought for my trip in July. I think he got jealous. He blew up randomly one day about all my postings of sexy pictures. Claiming I look foolish and need to take my clothes off for attention. I replied, ā no, I get attention with my clothes on tooā he never wrote me back after that... oops. But he never said one thing about it. I even asked him in the past if he cared and he said no. Sooooo I donāt get that. If he had just talked to me I would have stopped. And I did stop but he deleted my snap that day. But I delete him from seeing my location and he shows up at my dinner spot..... he did this before he used to drive past me all the time when I went to work and left work.... I just donāt get him.
It's the jealousy thing, you should know better than to make an Aqua man jealous. They're not they type to come running after you, ever.
I didnāt know it was making him jealous. I thought he liked it. Iām sure seeing me with another guy was difficult. Thatās what I feel most sad about.
No, no. No self-respecting man would like their woman uploading sexy pictures on social media.
As for my aqua. I did the mistake of trying to fix things. But he's very sure he's no longer interested in me as girlfriend material, all he can offer me is sex. My heart is completely broken.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03
Are you being clingy or acting too extraā That might be his reason for space. Thatās my problem.
No, I don't think so.
Are you still with the Aqua man who was very busy with work but watched your snapchat stories?
Oh itās been the most interesting year with him. We got closer. More communication and I even hung out with him, but then he pulled away. He got mad at me and stopped talking July 15. I deleted everything about him on Tuesday. Including my location. Then saw him randomly at a bar/restaurant on Friday.... chances of that happening?? Slim. Iāve never seen him there. I think he went there on purpose knowing Iād probably be there because thatās my spot for dinner. Of course I was with a guy. All of his friends and him were looking at me. Awkward lol Iāll probably see him Saturday because itās a special event day on the lake. He knows Iāll be there. Itās very far for him. Will be interesting to see if he goes.
Why did he get mad at you?
Iāve been posting sexy pictures on snap for over a year. I posted some very sexy club dresses that I just bought for my trip in July. I think he got jealous. He blew up randomly one day about all my postings of sexy pictures. Claiming I look foolish and need to take my clothes off for attention. I replied, ā no, I get attention with my clothes on tooā he never wrote me back after that... oops. But he never said one thing about it. I even asked him in the past if he cared and he said no. Sooooo I donāt get that. If he had just talked to me I would have stopped. And I did stop but he deleted my snap that day. But I delete him from seeing my location and he shows up at my dinner spot..... he did this before he used to drive past me all the time when I went to work and left work.... I just donāt get him.
It's the jealousy thing, you should know better than to make an Aqua man jealous. They're not they type to come running after you, ever.
I didnāt know it was making him jealous. I thought he liked it. Iām sure seeing me with another guy was difficult. Thatās what I feel most sad about.
No, no. No self-respecting man would like their woman uploading sexy pictures on social media.
As for my aqua. I did the mistake of trying to fix things. But he's very sure he's no longer interested in me as girlfriend material, all he can offer me is sex. My heart is completely broken.
What kinds of mistakes? I know last time the aqua stopped talking to me it took two months of no contact and then things were a lot better. Maybe he needs a little space.click to expand
Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03
Are you being clingy or acting too extraā That might be his reason for space. Thatās my problem.
No, I don't think so.
Are you still with the Aqua man who was very busy with work but watched your snapchat stories?
Oh itās been the most interesting year with him. We got closer. More communication and I even hung out with him, but then he pulled away. He got mad at me and stopped talking July 15. I deleted everything about him on Tuesday. Including my location. Then saw him randomly at a bar/restaurant on Friday.... chances of that happening?? Slim. Iāve never seen him there. I think he went there on purpose knowing Iād probably be there because thatās my spot for dinner. Of course I was with a guy. All of his friends and him were looking at me. Awkward lol Iāll probably see him Saturday because itās a special event day on the lake. He knows Iāll be there. Itās very far for him. Will be interesting to see if he goes.
Why did he get mad at you?
Iāve been posting sexy pictures on snap for over a year. I posted some very sexy club dresses that I just bought for my trip in July. I think he got jealous. He blew up randomly one day about all my postings of sexy pictures. Claiming I look foolish and need to take my clothes off for attention. I replied, ā no, I get attention with my clothes on tooā he never wrote me back after that... oops. But he never said one thing about it. I even asked him in the past if he cared and he said no. Sooooo I donāt get that. If he had just talked to me I would have stopped. And I did stop but he deleted my snap that day. But I delete him from seeing my location and he shows up at my dinner spot..... he did this before he used to drive past me all the time when I went to work and left work.... I just donāt get him.
It's the jealousy thing, you should know better than to make an Aqua man jealous. They're not they type to come running after you, ever.
I didnāt know it was making him jealous. I thought he liked it. Iām sure seeing me with another guy was difficult. Thatās what I feel most sad about.
No, no. No self-respecting man would like their woman uploading sexy pictures on social media.
As for my aqua. I did the mistake of trying to fix things. But he's very sure he's no longer interested in me as girlfriend material, all he can offer me is sex. My heart is completely broken.
What kinds of mistakes? I know last time the aqua stopped talking to me it took two months of no contact and then things were a lot better. Maybe he needs a little space.
Trying to beg and plead. Had no dignity. Tried to find out why exactly he suddenly started thinking he will never be interested in me more than just sex. Thought if he'd tell me maybe it's something I could change about me, like me being insecure etc.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by pinkbird03
Are you being clingy or acting too extraā That might be his reason for space. Thatās my problem.
No, I don't think so.
Are you still with the Aqua man who was very busy with work but watched your snapchat stories?
Oh itās been the most interesting year with him. We got closer. More communication and I even hung out with him, but then he pulled away. He got mad at me and stopped talking July 15. I deleted everything about him on Tuesday. Including my location. Then saw him randomly at a bar/restaurant on Friday.... chances of that happening?? Slim. Iāve never seen him there. I think he went there on purpose knowing Iād probably be there because thatās my spot for dinner. Of course I was with a guy. All of his friends and him were looking at me. Awkward lol Iāll probably see him Saturday because itās a special event day on the lake. He knows Iāll be there. Itās very far for him. Will be interesting to see if he goes.
Why did he get mad at you?
Iāve been posting sexy pictures on snap for over a year. I posted some very sexy club dresses that I just bought for my trip in July. I think he got jealous. He blew up randomly one day about all my postings of sexy pictures. Claiming I look foolish and need to take my clothes off for attention. I replied, ā no, I get attention with my clothes on tooā he never wrote me back after that... oops. But he never said one thing about it. I even asked him in the past if he cared and he said no. Sooooo I donāt get that. If he had just talked to me I would have stopped. And I did stop but he deleted my snap that day. But I delete him from seeing my location and he shows up at my dinner spot..... he did this before he used to drive past me all the time when I went to work and left work.... I just donāt get him.
It's the jealousy thing, you should know better than to make an Aqua man jealous. They're not they type to come running after you, ever.
I didnāt know it was making him jealous. I thought he liked it. Iām sure seeing me with another guy was difficult. Thatās what I feel most sad about.
No, no. No self-respecting man would like their woman uploading sexy pictures on social media.
As for my aqua. I did the mistake of trying to fix things. But he's very sure he's no longer interested in me as girlfriend material, all he can offer me is sex. My heart is completely broken.
What kinds of mistakes? I know last time the aqua stopped talking to me it took two months of no contact and then things were a lot better. Maybe he needs a little space.
Trying to beg and plead. Had no dignity. Tried to find out why exactly he suddenly started thinking he will never be interested in me more than just sex. Thought if he'd tell me maybe it's something I could change about me, like me being insecure etc.
Oh I had a similar experience. He wouldnāt tell me either. I donāt think I asked tho. I wonder why they wonāt say. So are you still going to sleep with him?click to expand
Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by AerialViewPosted by FeelsyCancerW
So it's over. I said I'm giving him space but that I ask him to be honest with me if there's no interest, so that I won't keep waiting and hoping. He answered there's no reason to push it, that we're too different. š
Did you really say that?
Yes.click to expand
Posted by FeelsyCancerW
@pinkbird03 Do you still want him back?
Posted by AerialViewPosted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by AerialViewPosted by FeelsyCancerW
So it's over. I said I'm giving him space but that I ask him to be honest with me if there's no interest, so that I won't keep waiting and hoping. He answered there's no reason to push it, that we're too different. š
Did you really say that?
Yes.
A bad move imo. But hey you'll be alright.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by FeelsyCancerW
@pinkbird03 Do you still want him back?
I havenāt met someone I like more. Even tho Iām looking. So yes lolclick to expand
Posted by FeelsyCancerW
The reason I was dumped is because there is someone else he is obsessed with and she's in his heart.
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by FeelsyCancerW
The reason I was dumped is because there is someone else he is obsessed with and she's in his heart.
Just forget him.click to expand
Posted by Aquarelle
Aww that must hurt. He should have known better than to play with your Cancerian heart....and he should have been honest from the start. Just do you for a while...have fun with friends that support you....the pain will fade eventually.....big hug !
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