@Gemgyal
7 Years
Aquarius guy ignoring me after fight
Why an Aquarius Man Ignores You After a Fight
Many people notice an Aquarius man tends to go quiet after arguments rather than talk things through right away. In real situations, some come back once they cool off, while others stay distant if they feel disconnected. The response often depends on how invested he was before the fight and how the situation was handled.
Is this your first fight? If it’s fwb, there might be another girl he already replaced you with. But if he cares about you enough, he’ll pop back into your life. But who knows when?
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
We Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
Is this your first fight? If it’s fwb, there might be another girl he already replaced you with. But if he cares about you enough, he’ll pop back into your life. But who knows when?
It's our first big fight ever in 10 months. We usually never fight. So I shouldn't contact him? I kinda feel bad about it.
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
We Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
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Yes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
Is this your first fight? If it’s fwb, there might be another girl he already replaced you with. But if he cares about you enough, he’ll pop back into your life. But who knows when?
It's our first big fight ever in 10 months. We usually never fight. So I shouldn't contact him? I kinda feel bad about it.
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Do you feel bad you got upset about it or feel bad because he’s not talking to you? I say stand up for what you believe in and wait for him to come back on his own. Besides it’s hard to encourage an aqua ghoster to come back before he’s ready.
People need time to cool down and get normal again.
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
We Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
Yes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
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It’s fwb tho. He’s not committed to you. Sorry. That’s the way it works nowadays.
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
We Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
Yes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
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He breached a contract!
He has to go. If you are a Gemini in full force you wouldn’t take this shit from anybody.
If he didn’t mean it he shouldn’t had said he is ok being exclusive. POS! 👿
Is this your first fight? If it’s fwb, there might be another girl he already replaced you with. But if he cares about you enough, he’ll pop back into your life. But who knows when?
It's our first big fight ever in 10 months. We usually never fight. So I shouldn't contact him? I kinda feel bad about it.
Do you feel bad you got upset about it or feel bad because he’s not talking to you? I say stand up for what you believe in and wait for him to come back on his own. Besides it’s hard to encourage an aqua ghoster to come back before he’s ready.
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I don't feel bad I got upset, i Just think I could've reacted a little bettter, I just feel bad because we have a great connection and it's sad to see this happen. This is our first fight and the first time also that he has ignored me like this.. that's why I'm contemplating on talking to him..
Waiting is the only thing you really can do.
Thanks. But its so hard 😢
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
We Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
Yes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
It’s fwb tho. He’s not committed to you. Sorry. That’s the way it works nowadays.
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I know. It's not about the commitment. It's about honesty. We agreed to be honest about everything and he lied that really dissapointed me. He is also very possessive over me he doesn't like me talking or dating other guys. I still do lol... but still I really don't like fights and just want everything to be great. But I guess I will just have to wait..
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
We Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
Yes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
He breached a contract!
He has to go. If you are a Gemini in full force you wouldn’t take this shit from anybody.
If he didn’t mean it he shouldn’t had said he is ok being exclusive. POS! 👿
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I really get what u are saying.. This is how I always am. But with him I just dont know we have such great connection and it hurts me to see it end.
Is this your first fight? If it’s fwb, there might be another girl he already replaced you with. But if he cares about you enough, he’ll pop back into your life. But who knows when?
It's our first big fight ever in 10 months. We usually never fight. So I shouldn't contact him? I kinda feel bad about it.
Do you feel bad you got upset about it or feel bad because he’s not talking to you? I say stand up for what you believe in and wait for him to come back on his own. Besides it’s hard to encourage an aqua ghoster to come back before he’s ready.
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Co-signing this especially because you don’t want him to get into the habit of you apologizing for fights he started because once he gets used to that he’ll never ever be sorry for anything.
Is this your first fight? If it’s fwb, there might be another girl he already replaced you with. But if he cares about you enough, he’ll pop back into your life. But who knows when?
It's our first big fight ever in 10 months. We usually never fight. So I shouldn't contact him? I kinda feel bad about it.
Do you feel bad you got upset about it or feel bad because he’s not talking to you? I say stand up for what you believe in and wait for him to come back on his own. Besides it’s hard to encourage an aqua ghoster to come back before he’s ready.
Co-signing this especially because you don’t want him to get into the habit of you apologizing for fights he started because once he gets used to that he’ll never ever be sorry for anything.
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I get what you're saying.. I just feel I could've reacted a bit different. I really was mean and that's the only thing I really want to apologize for. It doesnt sit well with me.
Lmfao if you want to troll him, put a baby bottle full of milk on his door step with a bow on it and a note with his name on it
"Call me when you stop sulking baby"
😆
......followed by "btw I'm pregnant, the baby is yours and is due in November, so could be a devil child" 😈
FWB, who the hell invented that? No strings sex without paying for it....
🙄
I mean technically he did send you a pic and try to reach out and was ignored, that probably intensified his anger/hurt feelings and thus hes withdrawn. i suggest you message him, an adult message, and express how you see things from your POV and acknowledge that your POV isnt the only POV there. Be mature about it, and hopefully he can too.
I mean technically he did send you a pic and try to reach out and was ignored, that probably intensified his anger/hurt feelings and thus hes withdrawn. i suggest you message him, an adult message, and express how you see things from your POV and acknowledge that your POV isnt the only POV there. Be mature about it, and hopefully he can too.
Yes, I was thinking about doing this. But I just don’t really know how to say it and I’m actually scared he will ignore me even more. What do you suggest me saying?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
Does it matter? Hes only a penis at this point?
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
We Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
Yes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
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You lied to yourself. From the very beginning.
I think you're confused, hes not in a relationship with you.
"First Fight"—?
As a fwb, the only counting you should be doing is orgasms and the time it takes for him to get dressed and leave.
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
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What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Aqua sun and moon
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Haha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?
I mean technically he did send you a pic and try to reach out and was ignored, that probably intensified his anger/hurt feelings and thus hes withdrawn. i suggest you message him, an adult message, and express how you see things from your POV and acknowledge that your POV isnt the only POV there. Be mature about it, and hopefully he can too.
Yes, I was thinking about doing this. But I just don’t really know how to say it and I’m actually scared he will ignore me even more. What do you suggest me saying?
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Just be upfront, and IF he ignores you after that then he'd be immature af and petty and thats a poor reflection on him completely. Just say what you said here but reword it for him obviously, lol. Like that you may have overreacted BUT it came from a place of you feeling hurt because xyz, and that you acknowledge he may see it differently but you want to resolve it because you care. Be the bigger person, especially if you do care about him. If hes immature after that then thats his own personal problem.
I mean technically he did send you a pic and try to reach out and was ignored, that probably intensified his anger/hurt feelings and thus hes withdrawn. i suggest you message him, an adult message, and express how you see things from your POV and acknowledge that your POV isnt the only POV there. Be mature about it, and hopefully he can too.
Yes, I was thinking about doing this. But I just don’t really know how to say it and I’m actually scared he will ignore me even more. What do you suggest me saying?
Just be upfront, and IF he ignores you after that then he'd be immature af and petty and thats a poor reflection on him completely. Just say what you said here but reword it for him obviously, lol. Like that you may have overreacted BUT it came from a place of you feeling hurt because xyz, and that you acknowledge he may see it differently but you want to resolve it because you care. Be the bigger person, especially if you do care about him. If hes immature after that then thats his own personal problem.
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Thank you!! I will do this and I agree with that. If he still acts like that after I apologize that’s his own problem
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Aqua sun and moon
Haha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?
You should go and see him if you can
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That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that.
What was the fight about?
He is not happy about you ignoring him and he is probably disappointed about the whole thing, but just contact him and be open and he will forget everything.
I mean technically he did send you a pic and try to reach out and was ignored, that probably intensified his anger/hurt feelings and thus hes withdrawn. i suggest you message him, an adult message, and express how you see things from your POV and acknowledge that your POV isnt the only POV there. Be mature about it, and hopefully he can too.
Yes, I was thinking about doing this. But I just don’t really know how to say it and I’m actually scared he will ignore me even more. What do you suggest me saying?
Just be upfront, and IF he ignores you after that then he'd be immature af and petty and thats a poor reflection on him completely. Just say what you said here but reword it for him obviously, lol. Like that you may have overreacted BUT it came from a place of you feeling hurt because xyz, and that you acknowledge he may see it differently but you want to resolve it because you care. Be the bigger person, especially if you do care about him. If hes immature after that then thats his own personal problem.
Thank you!! I will do this and I agree with that. If he still acts like that after I apologize that’s his own problem
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Here’s an update.
So I apologized. Just said it straight from my heart. I guess he read it but didn’t reply. He hasn’t deleted me or blocked me and he still checks my socials? If you’re done just be completely done. So at this moment I’m just going to let it be. The ball is in his court
He is not happy about you ignoring him and he is probably disappointed about the whole thing, but just contact him and be open and he will forget everything.
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Yeah I know so I apologized. Just said it straight from my heart. I guess he read it but didn’t reply. He hasn’t deleted me or blocked me and he still checks my socials. I’m a bit confused atm why he is still so mad, but perhaps he’s just done with me idk..
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Aqua sun and moon
Haha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
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@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Aqua sun and moon
Haha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?
Yes
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Can you pls send me a message? Because it seems like it’s not working
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Aqua sun and moon
Haha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?
Yes . Try now
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I did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sent
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Aqua sun and moon
Haha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?
Yes . Try now
I did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sent
I am having the same problem 😏
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I don’t know what is going on then 🤯
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Aqua sun and moon
Haha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
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I did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sent
I am having the same problem 😏
I don’t know what is going on then 🤯
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Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
We Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
Yes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
We Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
Yes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
It’s fwb tho. He’s not committed to you. Sorry. That’s the way it works nowadays.
I know. It's not about the commitment. It's about honesty. We agreed to be honest about everything and he lied that really dissapointed me. He is also very possessive over me he doesn't like me talking or dating other guys. I still do lol... but still I really don't like fights and just want everything to be great. But I guess I will just have to wait..
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Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
We Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
Yes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
It’s fwb tho. He’s not committed to you. Sorry. That’s the way it works nowadays.
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In agreement. Additionally, you ignored him first. Why is it different now that he's doing it. An arrangement like this w all this emotional drama 🙄 SMH Don't call him. Relax and let the chips fall where they may 🤷
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Aqua sun and moon
Haha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?
Yes . Try now
I did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sent
I am having the same problem 😏
I don’t know what is going on then 🤯
Are your pm open for everyone?
Yes, my settings are set to : Direct Messages Settings
Private Messages:
Receive From All
Same. It’s not working 🤬😏
Oh well. I will post what I was going to say to you here then. ☺️
So I apologized. Just said it straight from my heart. I guess he read it but didn’t reply. He hasn’t deleted me or blocked me and he still checks my socials?
This is the first time he’s ignored me while being “together” for 10 months. We usually never fight, so I didnt expect him to not reply to my apology. I kinda feel hurt by it tbh.
I did end my apology with I’d hate for us not to speak again but if that’s what you want I will leave you alone completely. So him not replying would indicate that he is done with me right? I really don’t know what to do rn. I don’t want to keep on pushing him if he isn’t replying. I guess he is done with me... it’s been a week
Just wait for now. Just do your thing for a week and don’t worry about him for few days. Don’t assume that he doesn’t want anything else with you. He is just upset and need time for himself to reconsider things. Sorry to say that we are like that sometimes. When he is ready he will come to you, you cannot push us. I get that you are hurt by him behaving like this, but getting upset won’t help.
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Yes. I will just let it be and focus on myself for now. Thanks for all your replies! 🤗
Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn
We Gems fulfilling our promises no matter what right? 👍
However...if he doesn’t own up to his shit - he is an ass! Though are you sure he agree that his fault is his? He might be genuinely stubborn or believes it’s not his fault. I can compromise. Depends what fight was all about. Hard to tell. Give some details.
Yes, haha! That is how Gemini's are. If i promise to do something, I always will...
He is very stubborn and has a lot of pride as well. Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
It’s fwb tho. He’s not committed to you. Sorry. That’s the way it works nowadays.
In agreement. Additionally, you ignored him first. Why is it different now that he's doing it. An arrangement like this w all this emotional drama 🙄 SMH Don't call him. Relax and let the chips fall where they may 🤷
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Yeah, I really think its too much drama too. I will not call him, just focused on myself. If he decides to come back, we will need to have a serious talk if this is something we want to continue or call it quits.
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Aqua sun and moon
Haha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?
Yes . Try now
I did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sent
I am having the same problem 😏
I don’t know what is going on then 🤯
Are your pm open for everyone?
Yes, my settings are set to : Direct Messages Settings
Private Messages:
Receive From All
Same. It’s not working 🤬😏
Oh well. I will post what I was going to say to you here then. ☺️
So I apologized. Just said it straight from my heart. I guess he read it but didn’t reply. He hasn’t deleted me or blocked me and he still checks my socials?
This is the first time he’s ignored me while being “together” for 10 months. We usually never fight, so I didnt expect him to not reply to my apology. I kinda feel hurt by it tbh.
I did end my apology with I’d hate for us not to speak again but if that’s what you want I will leave you alone completely. So him not replying would indicate that he is done with me right? I really don’t know what to do rn. I don’t want to keep on pushing him if he isn’t replying. I guess he is done with me... it’s been a week
Just wait for now. Just do your thing for a week and don’t worry about him for few days. Don’t assume that he doesn’t want anything else with you. He is just upset and need time for himself to reconsider things. Sorry to say that we are like that sometimes. When he is ready he will come to you, you cannot push us. I get that you are hurt by him behaving like this, but getting upset won’t help.
Yes. I will just let it be and focus on myself for now. Thanks for all your replies! 🤗
You are welcome 😘
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Guess what.. he just replied and said He was not ignoring me, he was just busy. ( I know that is a lie) He didnt reply on my apology whatsoever. So i just said okay
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Aqua sun and moon
Haha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?
Yes . Try now
I did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sent
I am having the same problem 😏
I don’t know what is going on then 🤯
Are your pm open for everyone?
Yes, my settings are set to : Direct Messages Settings
Private Messages:
Receive From All
Same. It’s not working 🤬😏
Oh well. I will post what I was going to say to you here then. ☺️
So I apologized. Just said it straight from my heart. I guess he read it but didn’t reply. He hasn’t deleted me or blocked me and he still checks my socials?
This is the first time he’s ignored me while being “together” for 10 months. We usually never fight, so I didnt expect him to not reply to my apology. I kinda feel hurt by it tbh.
I did end my apology with I’d hate for us not to speak again but if that’s what you want I will leave you alone completely. So him not replying would indicate that he is done with me right? I really don’t know what to do rn. I don’t want to keep on pushing him if he isn’t replying. I guess he is done with me... it’s been a week
Just wait for now. Just do your thing for a week and don’t worry about him for few days. Don’t assume that he doesn’t want anything else with you. He is just upset and need time for himself to reconsider things. Sorry to say that we are like that sometimes. When he is ready he will come to you, you cannot push us. I get that you are hurt by him behaving like this, but getting upset won’t help.
Yes. I will just let it be and focus on myself for now. Thanks for all your replies! 🤗
You are welcome 😘
Guess what.. he just replied and said He was not ignoring me, he was just busy. ( I know that is a lie) He didnt reply on my apology whatsoever. So i just said okay
Just forget about the fight, the apology and everything and pretend that never happened. Next time you are physically together and in a good place there is the time to talk about it.
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I agree. Eventho i’m kinda getting fed up. So we’ll see if we will see eachother physically. I’m still going to focus on myself in the meanwhile. I apologized he said he wasnt ignoring me he was just busy then so be it, I will act like nothing happened. We’re still not on speaking terms either. But it is what it is!
Why did you accept fwb from him? Why are you pressed over someone who just wants to screw you? He disappeared because of your expectations. He wants easy sex not drama. The minute you exploded shit got too real. Expecting honesty from someone who sees you as a warm hole is expecting too much dear. Don’t subject yourself to such.
Contact him and apologize for your part. Don’t make a big deal out of it
Thanks for replying. Yeah I think I might do that. Just wondering what I should do if he doesnt reply. Should I just let it be?
You ignored him so he may do the same.
If he doesn’t reply don’t give up.
What’s your sun sign if I may ask? Are you an aqua?
Aqua sun and moon
Haha, that explains a lot. It’s been a week since our fight. Yesterday just sent him the thing I promised i would do for him, no response. I guess he is still angry at me? Should I wait with apologizing or?
You should go and see him if you can
That would be a bit hard cuz I don’t know where he is atm. I will just try and apologize for my part and be the bigger person. If he still doesnt come around, that’s on him!
@Jammerwheels is it possible to message you private on here?
Yes . Try now
I did. It says message succesfully sent but when i look in my outbox it says no messages sent
I am having the same problem 😏
I don’t know what is going on then 🤯
Are your pm open for everyone?
Yes, my settings are set to : Direct Messages Settings
Private Messages:
Receive From All
Same. It’s not working 🤬😏
Oh well. I will post what I was going to say to you here then. ☺️
So I apologized. Just said it straight from my heart. I guess he read it but didn’t reply. He hasn’t deleted me or blocked me and he still checks my socials?
This is the first time he’s ignored me while being “together” for 10 months. We usually never fight, so I didnt expect him to not reply to my apology. I kinda feel hurt by it tbh.
I did end my apology with I’d hate for us not to speak again but if that’s what you want I will leave you alone completely. So him not replying would indicate that he is done with me right? I really don’t know what to do rn. I don’t want to keep on pushing him if he isn’t replying. I guess he is done with me... it’s been a week
Just wait for now. Just do your thing for a week and don’t worry about him for few days. Don’t assume that he doesn’t want anything else with you. He is just upset and need time for himself to reconsider things. Sorry to say that we are like that sometimes. When he is ready he will come to you, you cannot push us. I get that you are hurt by him behaving like this, but getting upset won’t help.
Yes. I will just let it be and focus on myself for now. Thanks for all your replies! 🤗
You are welcome 😘
Guess what.. he just replied and said He was not ignoring me, he was just busy. ( I know that is a lie) He didnt reply on my apology whatsoever. So i just said okay
Just forget about the fight, the apology and everything and pretend that never happened. Next time you are physically together and in a good place there is the time to talk about it.
I agree. Eventho i’m kinda getting fed up. So we’ll see if we will see eachother physically. I’m still going to focus on myself in the meanwhile. I apologized he said he wasnt ignoring me he was just busy then so be it, I will act like nothing happened. We’re still not on speaking terms either. But it is what it is!
You sound angry to me. He will notice that too
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Haha, honestly I’m not. When he said he was busy and he didnt ignore me on purpose I just said okay. Because i know he is lying. But I really dont feel like letting this fight go on any longer so like you said will wait till we meet in person.
Why did you accept fwb from him? Why are you pressed over someone who just wants to screw you? He disappeared because of your expectations. He wants easy sex not drama. The minute you exploded shit got too real. Expecting honesty from someone who sees you as a warm hole is expecting too much dear. Don’t subject yourself to such.
We both agreed on being fwb. We also agreed to be honest with eachother. I ‘exploded’ because he lied, he knows that.
But maybe I may be expecting too much. For now i’m just letting it be
Why did you accept fwb from him? Why are you pressed over someone who just wants to screw you? He disappeared because of your expectations. He wants easy sex not drama. The minute you exploded shit got too real. Expecting honesty from someone who sees you as a warm hole is expecting too much dear. Don’t subject yourself to such.
We both agreed on being fwb. We also agreed to be honest with eachother. I ‘exploded’ because he lied, he knows that.
But maybe I may be expecting too much. For now i’m just letting it be
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Who cares if he lied and what y’all agreed on? I hate to be harsh but cmon girl. Put yourself first not him. Agreements get broken all the time.
Why did you accept fwb from him? Why are you pressed over someone who just wants to screw you? He disappeared because of your expectations. He wants easy sex not drama. The minute you exploded shit got too real. Expecting honesty from someone who sees you as a warm hole is expecting too much dear. Don’t subject yourself to such.
We both agreed on being fwb. We also agreed to be honest with eachother. I ‘exploded’ because he lied, he knows that.
But maybe I may be expecting too much. For now i’m just letting it be
What did he lied about?
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Before we started our fwb we agreed to always be honest with eachother and communicate. So we agreed we wouldnt sleep with anyone whiles being FWB cuz I'm just not comfortable with that. I asked him several times( through text) if he did and he told me no. Something was still unsettling for me, so I asked him again f2f then he finally admitted that he lied and did have sex. This when i became very angry because how can I trust him if he lies to me. I even felt bad for doubting him, but I was right about my feeling.
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Hi everyone,
I hope someone can give me some insight on what to do. I've been seeing this aqua guy for 10 months now. We are fwb but I know we're more than that. He has told me he loves me but he really has trust issues due to previous relationships.
Last week we got into a big fight which was caused by something that is his fault. He doesnt want to own up and take responsibility. So I totally spazzed out and ignored him afterwards. He tried getting my attention by sending me a picture I didnt respond. Now I've cooled down, i've come to the realization that i might have overreacted but it was because of the way he was responding to me. Before the fight I agreed to do something for him, and when I say i will do something I still do it regardless if we are on good terms or not. So yesterday I sent it to him and he saw it but never responded.
What shall I do now? Should I just let him be or does he think i should apologize? Any insight would be helpful
He is aqua sun, aries mars, venus capricorn