Aquarius man with Leo woman

Please give any input or advice on this signs

Him:
Aqua sun
Capricorn moon
Capricorn Venus
1/24/1982

Me:
Leo sun
Aqua moon
Leo Venus
8/8/1979

Just when I thought that our situationship has been over a few months ago, here he comes viewing my profile the other night. Which is unusual because the last time he did was before we got involved with each other on October of last year. We had a big argument in April and he accused me of being crazy and he asked me to stop contacting him, so I did. I totally stopped all communications with him and now he reappeared again. I don't know if I should make a big deal out of it. Is that normal with his sign? He told me in the beginning that he don't go back to any girl that once it's over it's over, so I don't know why he is like this with me again. I loved this man but I wasn't sure of he's feelings for me before all the drama happened. He sent me some message checking me out and he said "hopefully we can see each other again soon". So I texted him today that if ever we hang out again, I won't if he is with somebody, and he said he is single. Should I rekindle with this guy or stay away? Thanks

I say "Run " as well. I don't like when someone makes you feel like crap then out of the blue pops up, like everything is about their wants and needs at that particular time. You are not a traffic light where someone can say Stop.. now Go, you deserve better move on.

I wouldn't sign that.. I'm an aqua with both moon & venus in cap - I'm very affectionated, old school romantic at heart... I love to do all the little things that make my partner happy. I don't see my partner as something to raise my status - of course I wish for a husband who stands firmly on the ground financially and emotionally.

I burnt myself several times with that leo who also had his venus in leo 😛 I did it all over again because I still had feelings for him. It was just sex but to me it was never just sex! I can't have "just sex" - there are always feelings involved. So no to that strategic mannerism.. I love to plan and make out wedding scenerios in my head LOL but no... if I get involved with someone then I do fantasize about the future but I don't go like "ok this is step 1.. this is step 2"

but what I can tell yo is, once it's over... it isn't really over... if there is a chance to make up then we'll take that chance (depending if you cheated on us or not) but yes we will be guarded. But I wouldn't say we are cold or whatever... just not all lovey dovey at first.

Dunno how it plays out with male aquas... but from my point of view, sharing his placements.. I'd say he still has feelings for you and is curious to know if it will work out this time.

I would never revisit someone elses profile (or initiate contact) if I wasn't interested in seeing them again.

oh what I forgot to say.... I went through a damn on off with that leo... never developed into something serious though! the chemistry is bangin hot.. but that's about it I guess...

@aquanextdoor thank you for that input. You gave me a little hope. Although I notice he isn't so hot and intense with his communications with me this time, I can feel the guarding and him being careful not to get hurt by me again I guess. Or maybe he is still testing if I still have the same interest I had before. I'm a little bit careful too and I'm not showing so much interest and excitement although deep inside I'm jumping for joy that he came back and that we are communicating again. I prayed for that and I'm glad it happened. I don't wanna go all out yet because I'm not really sure what is his intentions of coming back. He is so charming and very popular in his circle, I missed him so much. Although I'm the one who first to sent him a message after he revisit my profile, I'm satisfied that he responded to every message I sent. I'm hoping for a very good outcome this time, and I'm hoping for a real relationship.

Posted by AquaMermaid
TrueCap,I hope you can contribute to the thread.I love your Cap moon's brutal honesty. This Leo needs it.

Awww....combined with my cap mercury, I guess it is brutal. lol!
It's all meant well.

As a cap moon, I would say perhaps he's curious to what you're up to now. Curious if you've learned any life lessons, made the effort to change. Whether we like it or not, our experiences change us and it's usually for the better. So either you or he or both has changed somewhat and he's curious. I'm thinking he liked your company and misses you as a person. Perhaps he wants to see what you're all about now. He may be reminiscent and miss things, so why not make contact. However, once he starts seeing you again, he may be reminded why it didn't work out the first time. Sooooo, if you see him, realize it's a trial run and he's observing. Just keep in mind, you can't fool him into thinking you've changed if you haven't really changed (or maybe he's the one who feels like he's changed).

Just be aware, he will definitely be guarded, not as affectionate, will take things slower than before. He'll be cautious and will take care to protect his heart. I just don't know if a Leo with a Leo venus would be able to be patient enough to give him the time he needs to re-build a relationship.

- just my two cents.

Posted by Lioness88
I'm jumping for joy that he came back ..... Although I'm the one who first to sent him a message after he revisit my profile, I'm satisfied that he responded to every message I sent. I'm hoping for a very good outcome this time, and I'm hoping for a real relationship.

Wait. I may need to change what I said. I stand by it if the situation is that he is interested in starting up again, however, that may not be the case.

He viewed your profile and YOU sent HIM a message. Just because he viewed your profile, does NOT mean he's coming back, or even wants to come back. Not by a long shot. He's probably just being nosy and may have no intention of rekindling anything.

I think you're reading too much into it and getting your hopes up.

Not trying to be mean, just don't want to see you hurt or disappointed. Us caps are realists and I couldn't help but bring those facts to the forefront.

Hoping I'm wrong, but just don't jump the gun.

@truecap I always appreciate your advice and say regarding all my inquiries. When he viewed me I have to sent him a message and it was like this "lol you viewed me,that's unusual. Hope you're doing well. God bless". It was some kind of reaction to him viewing me because the last time he did that was back in October way before we got involved with each other, so him viewing me the other day was a shocked to me. So after I sent him a message I didn't expect him to respond(I know he won't if he's still mad) but he did. So we were back and forth with our messages that day. But I was very civil and mature with my responses, pretending that he don't affect me much with him reappearing. And the last message I got from him that day was "hopefully we can see each other soon". This man is who I want but I understand his aloofness and being so guarded and slow. Me being a Leo, I changed a lot, since I met him I learned a lot about being patient, about me not getting everything I want every time. I think I'm way more mature now, but like a cub, I'm still that playful cat. I know he don't shower me with so much attention than what I crave but I learned to wait and I do understand a bit about his sign now. I really just hope it gets better this time.

Posted by AquaNextDoor
I wouldn't sign that.. I'm an aqua with both moon & venus in cap - I'm very affectionated, old school romantic at heart... I love to do all the little things that make my partner happy. I don't see my partner as something to raise my status - of course I wish for a husband who stands firmly on the ground financially and emotionally.

I burnt myself several times with that leo who also had his venus in leo 😛 I did it all over again because I still had feelings for him. It was just sex but to me it was never just sex! I can't have "just sex" - there are always feelings involved. So no to that strategic mannerism.. I love to plan and make out wedding scenerios in my head LOL but no... if I get involved with someone then I do fantasize about the future but I don't go like "ok this is step 1.. this is step 2"

but what I can tell yo is, once it's over... it isn't really over... if there is a chance to make up then we'll take that chance (depending if you cheated on us or not) but yes we will be guarded. But I wouldn't say we are cold or whatever... just not all lovey dovey at first.

Dunno how it plays out with male aquas... but from my point of view, sharing his placements.. I'd say he still has feelings for you and is curious to know if it will work out this time.

I would never revisit someone elses profile (or initiate contact) if I wasn't interested in seeing them again.

lol good thing that 5th house helps, or else it's all status. 😄

Posted by regulus
Run.

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lol

We communicate with each other again today..and he ask me if I'm with any guy. And he said he is single too. Should I go on with this or just stay away from him?