Aquarius Moon, Libra Sun, Scorpio Venus Man

I'm a Cancer/Leo cusp. Things started out great... dining me, taking me out, treating me, showering me with love and affection. He initiated a commitment right away, has told me confidential/personal things. Offered to give me his passcode to his phone, as well wanted to see mine. Speaks of us in future terms, we've already discussed marriage, kids, and were actually in the process of moving in together. He also asked for an introduction to my family, and has already told his about me just haven't met yet. Things got serious rather quickly. He even cancelled a planned event to spend some time with me. Then about 2 weeks ago that weekend we were supposed to spend it together, and I called got no response he ended up having to work. He called me later and I was at a get together, he asks when I'm leaving from there I said I don't know yet, but I'm not staying there I have somewhere else to go to and I proceeded to have a conversation with him he then says, You didn't include me in your plans at all??! And wouldn't let me finish talking about it. He went into another topic said he'd call me back later that night and never did. I called him back and ever since can't reach him. I text him once and just haven't said anything either since are we over?

His chart and mine included.

His
Sun 12??03' Libra
Moon 14??26' Aquarius
Mercury 17??59' Libra
Venus 25??13' Scorpio
Mars 00??52' Sagittarius
Jupiter 00??56' Cancer
Saturn 11??52' Pisces
Uranus 16??54' Virgo
Neptune 18??22' Scorpio
Pluto 17??02' Virgo

Mine:
Sun 28??43' Cancer
Moon 04??39' Pisces
Mercury 02??23' Leo
Venus 26??55' Leo
Mars 21??48' Leo
Jupiter 28??04' Gemini
Saturn 09??10' Capricorn
Uranus 02??18' Capricorn
Neptune 10??30' Capricorn
Pluto 12??13' Scorpio

he sounds ridiculous.
i can't stand flaky, inconsistent men.

I'm not used to this... I like him a lot though and am trying to understand. Normally, I would've reacted differently, and wouldn't be making a thread ab it..

I see the disappearing is common for Aquarius prominent placements with the men. I've seen mixed reviews on them, I've heard the cooler they get, the stronger they feel or they are getting closer to you too close emotionally that they get uncomfortable, I've also heard they've lost interest, or are seeking other women,not positive things, etc.

Posted by msX
he sounds ridiculous.
i can't stand flaky, inconsistent men.

i saw this last night and was thinking the same thing.

(shakes head)

but OP, you have a strong LEO energy, stellium, you can CHASE him. You have the energy to do so, and enjoy the chase. If you can stand that, then go for it.

http://astrology.about.com/od/moonsigns/p/AquariusMoon.htm<BR>
Famous People with Moon in Aquarius:

John Lennon, Uma Thurman, David Duchovny, Diane Keaton, Bill Murray, Annie Liebovitz, Cat Stevens, Prince, Sam Shepherd, Denzel Washington, J.R.R. Tolkien, Billie Holiday
Personality Profile:

Those with the Moon in Aquarius seem to have access to the mysteries of the universe through their inner lives. It's as if they know something the rest of us don't. There's an emotionally detached quality to them that gives them a cool head in times of crisis, but can also make them seem as remote as a distant galaxy.

They??re notable humanitarians, always trying to reach out to the masses through art, science or a cause. This makes them more oriented toward groups in general, and less comfortable with the intimate one on one. Their orientation toward the collective —all of us?? makes it hard for them to isolate their own unique emotional reality. To put it more simply, many Aquarius Moons don't know how they feel much of the time.
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some of the famous people on the list are great people. for example, Cat Stevens, Denzel Washington, J.R.R. Tolkien (althuogh I'm not versed in knowing anything of Tolkien's personal biography, only his works)

Add in also Ryan O'Neal, Taurus sun/Aquarius moon & George Lucas, also Taurus sun/Aquarius moon: I like George Lucas's work.

I don't normally chase, now I have let my leo pride down, and initiated a few calls last week and text. I know someone has to break the ice and speak up which I have so it's his turn to respond. I have some Aquarius in my life and we can make it these are life long friends so I'm not really getting this guy. I'm a direct straight forward kind of person. Maybe I'll just move on. I just wanted some feedback on his chart and why he may react as he did and how much he can work with me. I feel ridiculous calling him again this week because he knows I called and never responded.

Posted by prettyladii
I don't normally chase, now I have let my leo pride down, and initiated a few calls last week and text. I know someone has to break the ice and speak up which I have so it's his turn to respond. I have some Aquarius in my life and we can make it these are life long friends so I'm not really getting this guy. I'm a direct straight forward kind of person. Maybe I'll just move on. I just wanted some feedback on his chart and why he may react as he did and how much he can work with me. I feel ridiculous calling him again this week because he knows I called and never responded.

you can try at the Libra forum, but like in my closed quote, it's probably his sun being wishy washy.

If you look at Matt Damon's sun, who is married to a Cancer sun woman, he has his Sun in the 8th house.

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Matt_Damon<BR>
So there's a powerful connection to his wife. You see??

this guy is probably jsut wishy washy and inconsistent and there's no way you want that in your life.
Especially if you are a Cancer sun. You NEED the emotional connection. Any sun sign will do, as long as they are dominant in water/or HOUSES.

I tried them and they really weren't responsive about him. I really don't like wishy washiness or inconsistency. So if thats what I'm in for, then I'll let it go. We had an emotional connection I felt that. I've dated a Gemini sun,moon, mars and some and lots of fun and great energy but no depth.. this one I feel it probably due to the Aquarius in him. Even though they say Aqua is air they are very passionate and compassionate, loving people.

Posted by prettyladii
I tried them and they really weren't responsive about him. I really don't like wishy washiness or inconsistency. So if thats what I'm in for, then I'll let it go. We had an emotional connection I felt that. I've dated a Gemini sun,moon, mars and some and lots of fun and great energy but no depth.. this one I feel it probably due to the Aquarius in him. Even though they say Aqua is air they are very passionate and compassionate, loving people.

I dunno what to tell you, because in real life, never gravitated to any airy, but if you know his houses/ect,
also....i've noticed....houses in earth, like a stellium in earth houses also works. Because earth is good for water (stability)

but this is just general, because there has to be CHEMISTRY. You can "feel" it but if it's not there, it's not there.

Maybe his Aqua moon is in a water or earth house, and maybe, you're also feeling the Scorpio venus too.

He seems quite consistent in his actions.

He cancels events to meet up with you. You, in return, are unable to hold on to a planned meeting with him, just because he was late to call. You went out on your own on instead. He calls you and you say "I'm not staying". Were you leaving for him? No, you had "somewhere else to go to".

If I were him, I would be seriously annoyed too. You have too much Leo in you, miss. Selfish, unreliable and attention seeking.

Avoiding conflict and drama by withdrawing temporarily is a typical Libra behaviour (I was married to one). Be happy if it is just that and you haven't been dumped.

Posted by Undine
He seems quite consistent in his actions.

He cancels events to meet up with you. You, in return, are unable to hold on to a planned meeting with him, just because he was late to call. You went out on your own on instead. He calls you and you say "I'm not staying". Were you leaving for him? No, you had "somewhere else to go to".

If I were him, I would be seriously annoyed too. You have too much Leo in you, miss. Selfish, unreliable and attention seeking.

Avoiding conflict and drama by withdrawing temporarily is a typical Libra behaviour (I was married to one). Be happy if it is just that and you haven't been dumped.

I'm glad you came in, because you married one, and have experience with them.
Funnily i see the same POV as these other ladies. I dont like them running away and confronting issues when they're wanting a personal relationship.

Posted by Undine
He seems quite consistent in his actions.

He cancels events to meet up with you. You, in return, are unable to hold on to a planned meeting with him, just because he was late to call. You went out on your own on instead. He calls you and you say "I'm not staying". Were you leaving for him? No, you had "somewhere else to go to".

If I were him, I would be seriously annoyed too. You have too much Leo in you, miss. Selfish, unreliable and attention seeking.

Avoiding conflict and drama by withdrawing temporarily is a typical Libra behaviour (I was married to one). Be happy if it is just that and you haven't been dumped.

I've also cancelled things to be with him, and that time he cancelled was weeks ago. This partcular time he wasn't answering his phone or returning calls, and I'm not one to sit by the phone waiting on a man to call me. I went out and had a good time, I still planned on spending time with him but didn't get to finish my sentence as he went on into something else. He also was occupied when he finally decided to call back. Selfish,unreliable, and attention seeking is not me... I don't see how you get that from what little you know.

I'm not really too worried if I am dumped.... I'm not the type to sit by the phone, or stop my life for a man. A nonconfrontational or communicative man isn't for me, I'm straight forward and direct with my intentions and feelings, and don't have time for the guessing games. If that's Libra I guess this is it then.

nah...he is flaky. there is never an excuse to not answer a call or a text, please.
when we stop making excuses for these "men", we'll be better off.
i don't care what sign you are - rude is rude.

Posted by msX
nah...he is flaky. there is never an excuse to not answer a call or a text, please.
when we stop making excuses for these "men", we'll be better off.
i don't care what sign you are - rude is rude.

+ 100

Something doesn't add up in her story. If they planned to meet up at the weekend, why was she calling him and when? She never said he didn't turn up. Maybe he did, after finishing work, and she was nowhere to be found. His reaction shows that he was seriously annoyed with her and we know only her side of the story.

Honey, if you can't wait, you can't wait. Obviously, your life style (not your life, you weren't losing your life for staying home a few more hours) has little patience for including a partner in it.

maybe (shrug)

but for me, I'm NOT interested in mystery to romance, like some women are.

I love them straightforward and rush right on in when they want someone.

I'm guessing some of these ladies are the same. To each their own.

However when it comes to books, tv shows, detective series...that's where it's at.

And just because some of us love it differently,

doesn't mean others should follow our way.

Women should just enjoy and LOVE what they want. Not follow other women's choices, ignoring their instincts and enjoyment of romance.

If you love the mystery then go for it. Indulge.

There is little mystery, Lisa. Most relationships require compromise and understanding to function properly. From both sides. You know that, because you are in a successful relationship.

There is something about her story that irritates me and my intuition tells me she's done something wrong and we only know half of the story, from a distorted perspective.

Posted by Undine
Something doesn't add up in her story. If they planned to meet up at the weekend, why was she calling him and when? She never said he didn't turn up. Maybe he did, after finishing work, and she was nowhere to be found. His reaction shows that he was seriously annoyed with her and we know only her side of the story.

Honey, if you can't wait, you can't wait. Obviously, your life style (not your life, you weren't losing your life for staying home a few more hours) has little patience for including a partner in it.

Sweety, I don't know what your problem is... but I'm not going to entertain you. I don't know why you're mad or caping so hard for a Libra man that you don't know. If I decide not to wait around for a disappearing man to show up, and live my life why be mad about it? Cause I'm not crying about him or sitting by the phone? I got time in my life for men who act like men and aren't flaky,inconsistent, or can't face a confrontation not even a confrontation but dont' got it together enough to state how they feel or what they want/don't want and for whatever reason it seems to rub you the wrong way. There's enough Libras and Aqua mooners for everybody hon, so you can go on your merry way. If two people friends or lovers are going to meet, I or they can call and confirm we're going or to update on details, or say I'm on my way. It's really not that strange. If he was so annoyed with me that's fine, he could be. I don't get why you keep repeating that.

Posted by Undine
There is little mystery, Lisa. Most relationships require compromise and understanding to function properly. From both sides. You know that, because you are in a successful relationship.

There is something about her story that irritates me and my intuition tells me she's done something wrong and we only know half of the story, from a distorted perspective.

oh well...

that's easy:

"You didnt include me in your plans at all?"

that's it.

He just got upset and then closed off. Typical male pouting.

So yes, she has to CHASE.

Posted by lisabethur8
And just because some of us love it differently,

doesn't mean others should follow our way.

Women should just enjoy and LOVE what they want. Not follow other women's choices, ignoring their instincts and enjoyment of romance.

If you love the mystery then go for it. Indulge.

Yess. Thank you. You get exactly what I'm saying. I don't see what's so wrong because I'm not interested in interpreting why A man is disappearing, acting distant or making my mind wander until I can't anymore. I'm not that woman and won't start either just because he's xyz sign.... Silent treatment is actually said to be emotional abuse. There's a lot of things men do and get away with because some woman blames herself, or puts up with it. I find it disrespectful to do it and then come back like everything is okay and expect to be treated as lover/boyfriend/ should. I know air signs are different and operate differently from me and I really don't know a lot about these men which is why I'm here. I'm not used to this but just because they're different doesn't mean they're bad for me. This one seemed worthy of understanding and learning about, I'll say he treated me very very well which is why I got confused and am here... trying to see this from an air signs perspective. But from what I've been reading all over the internet this is what some of these Libras/ Aqua suns and moons seem to do.

Posted by prettyladii

Posted by lisabethur8
And just because some of us love it differently,

doesn't mean others should follow our way.

Women should just enjoy and LOVE what they want. Not follow other women's choices, ignoring their instincts and enjoyment of romance.

If you love the mystery then go for it. Indulge.

Yess. Thank you. You get exactly what I'm saying. I don't see what's so wrong because I'm not interested in interpreting why A man is disappearing, acting distant or making my mind wander until I can't anymore. I'm not that woman and won't start either just because he's xyz sign.... Silent treatment is actually said to be emotional abuse. There's a lot of things men do and get away with because some woman blames herself, or puts up with it. I find it disrespectful to do it and then come back like everything is okay and expect to be treated as lover/boyfriend/ should. I know air signs are different and operate differently from me and I really don't know a lot about these men which is why I'm here. I'm not used to this but just because they're different doesn't mean they're bad for me. This one seemed worthy of understanding and learning about, I'll say he treated me very very well which is why I got confused and am here... trying to see this from an air signs perspective. But from what I've been reading all over the internet this is what some of these Libras/ Aqua suns and moons seem to do.

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well this is a very feminine kind of response he's giving you......infact he sounds very feminine.

but you do have some leo energy, that's why you are very interested in him but then you are confused... because it is NOT in your nature to chase (cancer sun) MOON energy doesn't really chase i don't think. Still, your Leo parts wants to chase too, so it's also part of you. Especially in your LOVE parts, where the masculine energies are.

And it's also in your (leo) nature to chase when it comes to love. Kind of like a lion preying on their prey....?

Plus, you're used to the man wearing the pants in society. He's pouting like a woman, with arms folded and silent (but you're RIGHT, it is an emotional abuse)

He did call until something happened and he stopped calling. I see no inconsistency in his behaviour.

You came here asking us to judge your ex. We could do the same for you. My feeling is that there is something off about your story. And I suspect that you are the flaky and inconsistent one.

Yes, I guess I'm just used to Alpha males, most of them don't behave that way if there is a problem.

That is because you are not an Alpha female 🙂!

Posted by prettyladii
Yes, I guess I'm just used to Alpha males, most of them don't behave that way if there is a problem.

Dont worry, I get you (nods)

Lol, you must be really mad... Like I said there's enough Aqua and Libra men to go around. Why are you still on my thread though? Really mad, a woman with some standards and self -respect who won't do what I guess you do and pin over a man who is out doing this own thing. Stop projecting. 🙂

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by prettyladii
Yes, I guess I'm just used to Alpha males, most of them don't behave that way if there is a problem.

Dont worry, I get you (nods)

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I get her even better. Her Moon sits on mine, at 4?? Pisces. I sense lies in her story and that's what irritates me.

I'm in a happy relationship with an Aqua, by the way.

I haven't lied about anything. You came in here attacking me and accusing me is the first thing you did and still are doing... over a man you never met and don't know at all, but you're very defensive over him and adamant that it was me who did something wrong. And I'm not patient because I don't sit back and wait for him with his disappearing act. Happy, yea ok.. I don't see what it is to you whether I let the situation go, or whatever I chose. It won't benefit you.

Honey, it's all about you, calm down. I was trying to find out what's wrong with YOU.

Or maybe it's just your 4?? 39' Moon in Pisces that for some reasons irritates my 4?? 38' Moon in Pisces 🙂.

Anyway, I'm off to bed now. Good luck with your life.

Posted by Undine
That is because you are not an Alpha female 🙂!

Thought I'd post it for the alpha woman:
http://mirriamsmyth.wordpress.com/resources/the-ultimate-alpha-female/<BR>

How is she different from the other women?

Task focused. Single minded.
Athletic, more physical than other women.
She is determined, bold, and a competitive high achiever.
Career is part of their identity.
Does not want to be tied down to family. She is not primarily interested in children and may not want children.
Higher sexual libido. Can enjoy one-night-stands with no regrets.
Emotionally self sufficient.
More aggressive. Actively pursues power and status. A risk taker.
Enjoys recognition but doesn't need approval from peers.
Gets straight to the point without social chat (a trait expected in Alpha Males, but makes the Alpha female seem rude, abrupt, aggressive, arrogant, a bitch).
Closer relationship to father than mother.
Tend to be left handed.
Fiercely independent — not looking for a man to take care of her, she takes care of herself.
She may outright reject social conventions like marriage, religion, and government

Night, night Lisa. You are adorable.

Posted by Undine
Night, night Lisa. You are adorable.

Night, Undine, take care of your Aqua. ^_~

you are alright with me, prettyladii. i mean, why lie on an anonymous board, especially when you are trying to get a straight answer? where they do that at? lol!
but, regardless, you see how some chicks stan for these men no matter what appalling behavior they display?
being married to a person of a particular sign gives one no right to shut down any negative feedback about that spouse's sign.
bottom line, there are mean people out here that wish you harm. it is good you found out about this man and his capability of such fuckery early on and didn't block your blessings for the right man.

aqua moon

i guess if she is the only sane respondent, welcome to the club, with your insane ass

Posted by msX
you are alright with me, prettyladii. i mean, why lie on an anonymous board, especially when you are trying to get a straight answer? where they do that at? lol!
but, regardless, you see how some chicks stan for these men no matter what appalling behavior they display?
being married to a person of a particular sign gives one no right to shut down any negative feedback about that spouse's sign.
bottom line, there are mean people out here that wish you harm. it is good you found out about this man and his capability of such fuckery early on and didn't block your blessings for the right man.

I don't even believe an "Alpha" woman would stand this either.

I just imagine in my imagination two of them, the alpha woman getting angry and fighting and screaming, stomping, finding ways to get the attention of the beta man, and the beta man is running, pouting, acting fussy and pissy.

My husband and I have witnessed this in real life. The alpha woman and the beta man fighting in public.

Unfortunately, the beta man is quiet and pouty standing there while the alpha one is blasting crazily into the man's face.

He's more a leeb than an aqua. Over the top romance in the beginning followed by flops and disappearance is a libra trait, not aqua. Not being straight up about it is definitely a leeb thing again. Aquas ate quite straight forward in my experience and myself being one.

Posted by aquarius09
He's more a leeb than an aqua. Over the top romance in the beginning followed by flops and disappearance is a libra trait, not aqua. Not being straight up about it is definitely a leeb thing again. Aquas ate quite straight forward in my experience and myself being one.

yeah...i find libra men to be flakier than boxed mashed potatoes.