Aquarius Player?

Aquarius Player?

No they just crush alot 😄

I think they just love being social. In their head, they aren't serious about that person unless they are interested in them or care about them alot. So they don't really think its their fault if someone falls for their charismatic ways.

but they are genuinely nice people 😄

There's an Aquarius man I've had a relationship with for about 4 months, he recently told me he's afraid of hurting me. He explained that he's always had several women "on the menu" and I'm the first woman he's had a one on one relationship with. He's afraid that with time he might get bored and cheat on me. I didn't freak out because I'm not like that but, is that an Aqua thing? One person not being enough?

I think he's actually afraid of that Deepness that comes with relationships, because they are afraid of their emotions and losing freedom.

I think if you act fast and keep things light and casual and communicate that with him, i think he'll worry alot less.

Posted by IAmMystified
I think he's actually afraid of that Deepness that comes with relationships, because they are afraid of their emotions and losing freedom.

I think if you act fast and keep things light and casual and communicate that with him, i think he'll worry alot less.

I thought I WAS keeping it light and casual lol he says I'm the first woman he's been with that lets him breathe. I think he's honest mostly so I tend to believe that, he explained most women get needy and clingy and he was expecting me to do the same. However, since I'm a Libra 😉 I have a lot of dignity, it's really hard to make me emotional and he admires that. I like him A LOT, in fact, I love him, but I refrain from telling him that because I don't want to make him feel like I'm rushing our relationship....

I would also like to add that I have a Venus Scorpio so I'm NOT ok with sharing... In fact, I think he made me want to break up :-/

Posted by RosyLibra
I would also like to add that I have a Venus Scorpio so I'm NOT ok with sharing... In fact, I think he made me want to break up :-/

Then maybe he's afraid of how refreshing being with you is...he's probably afraid it will end and that you will end up like all the women from his past.

Just continue to be you and he either comes along for the ride or he doesn't and he misses out.

Life is always going forward...no use in dwelling on what has already passed.

Posted by IAmMystified

Posted by RosyLibra
I would also like to add that I have a Venus Scorpio so I'm NOT ok with sharing... In fact, I think he made me want to break up :-/

Then maybe he's afraid of how refreshing being with you is...he's probably afraid it will end and that you will end up like all the women from his past.

Just continue to be you and he either comes along for the ride or he doesn't and he misses out.

Life is always going forward...no use in dwelling on what has already passed.

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Another thing, he and I really enjoy sex, we love it. He also told me that he was afraid one day he would end up being one of those men who has to take his girl to f*** other men in order to keep her happy. I mean, what's that supposed to mean—

^ This

It's not our fault people just gravitate to us 😄

Posted by NotoriousAquaman
^ This

It's not our fault people just gravitate to us 😄

It's the same with Libras 😉 But, in his case, I think he's used to girls falling at his feet left and right. Somehow this makes him assume I should do the same, not gona happen... Regardless of how much I'm into him, I don't run after men, they either want me or they don't. I don't understand his mindset, sometimes... He kinda judges me based on his exes which is messed up because they're sluts and I always "keep it classy not trashy". So help please...?

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Posted by RosyLibra
There's an Aquarius man I've had a relationship with for about 4 months, he recently told me he's afraid of hurting me. He explained that he's always had several women "on the menu" and I'm the first woman he's had a one on one relationship with. He's afraid that with time he might get bored and cheat on me. I didn't freak out because I'm not like that but, is that an Aqua thing? One person not being enough?

as an aquarius girl I can say Im afraid of hurting the other person, and because of that sensativity that I sense in the person its kind of a boring situation. I think subconsciencely we like to be in situations where our feelings are at stake. We like to feel more on our end, if not equal. The only curl for this is time.
Give him space, be yourself, after a while feeling like we might hurt a person wears off about that particular person and can sometimes turn into a nuturing deal where instead of running from a persons soft heart we might feel the want to take care and love that person. depends on how numb and lost we are.

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Thank you 🙂 I really appreciate this thought, he means so much to me and I'm grateful for this point of view