Aquarius sun with Venus in Aires!!

So I need some insight. Basically I met this guy and we have been friends for a while now. about a year ago I became like obsessed with him but I was too scared to ever say anything to him. I always knew he had the hots for me he would even tell other people that. I get hit on all the time and I'm never afraid to approach anyone but for some reason he just got to me and made me nervous. In good way though LOL. So he ended up moving away last March for a job and we started talking through text and I got to tell him how I felt and to my surprise he felt the same way. We were talking every single day for a good two months. He would basically tell me that he loved me without using the actual words " I love you". Then suddenly we would not be talking as much and a day or two would go by I would have to message him and he would always seem very happy to talk to me. I didn't like that I always had to start the conversation now and I let it go and it turned into two months without talking. Then out of nowhere pretty much he starts talking to me again and everything is good and he says he misses me and we both agreed that we would make an effort to keep in touch more. About a week of talking every day then it starts to die out again and a few days will go by before one of us initiate a conversation. He will seem just as into me as when we first started talking but then it dies out again. He comes home and about two weeks from now and he keeps telling me that he can't wait to see me and be able to hold me. But with the way we talk and then die out all the time I'm not so sure if he's really serious. I also feel like I just don't know what's going on in his life like I should but we don't get into too many details. So basically I just want to hear what any Aquarius with Venus in airies thinks about this situation. I would love to hear Every ones opinion. And just a side note he is definitely a busy man but I know he gets on Facebook a lot threw out the day.

That I don't know. Have not asked what time he was born.

The only thing I can find is it's either libra or Scorpio... Depending on the time he was born

Aquas are like this... You have to get used to it.

This thing and the lack off commitement gave me a very hard time in the beggining of my relationship (i'm an aries guy). The thing is that he have other stuff to do that capture his attention and in his mind he has given enough clues that he likes you, by talking that much and openly with you and he thinks that is ok if he get absorbed with an existing project and doesnt text you for a week or 2.

The best way to deal with this stuff is to work on other problems by yourself too. When he dissapear start to work on your stuff too and let the work get all your focus. You will feel like he is somehow in the back of your mind in those times, still there but allowing you to focus on your project. If you manage. to feel like that you will understand the aquarius relationship.

Work on intresting projects too, and when he texts you tell him about them. That will improve your relationship a lot.

I am dating an Aquarius with Venus in Aries and you are describing our interaction. It is frustrating, so I decided to start dating others and keep him as a friend until he proactively demonstrates a stronger interest. I respect that you backed off, in my situation he came on very strong in the beginning we had a few disagreements and he backed off a little. So now I go out with other guys and let the cards fall where they may.