Aquarius/Virgo

Any Male Aquarius with Female Virgos out there? I'm frustrated!!

As you should be. This is the worst match for aqua. I don't care what astrology books say regarding the pairing, but I have seen brutal endings or relationships in this pairing. In fact, I have 4 Aquarius in my family, including myself, and all of us just don't get along with our Virgo sis/daughter. It's not just her. Virgo has become a very weird sign for us, as in we dread them. My capri mom dated a Virgo. The qualities that she despised in this guy were ironically found in all the virgos we know. I was good friends with 2 Virgos (male and female) and we couldn't stand each other. Here's the thing: aqua and virgos are tje 2 intellectuals of the zodiac. Their thinking process is very different. I truly believe in that because almost all virgos I met were super smart. The problem was it led them to behaving like know-it-all's. Aqua doesn't like that. Also virgos are too analytical in their thought process that they will dissect something to death. Aqua gets annoyed by that. Just like with water signs, air signs have communication trouble, with virgos, an aqua has a difference in thinking. Both are smart, but each sign thinks the other sign's thought process is odd.

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Posted by aquarius09
Just like with water signs, air signs have communication trouble, with virgos, an aqua has a difference in thinking. Both are smart, but each sign thinks the other sign's thought process is odd.

I agree with everything in a sense, except for this. I am pretty sure that my communication skills are top notch (GOD complex here we gooooo). 🙂 I don't know about Virgos being super smart. In my experience I find them to be VERY sensitive, especially to things unspoken but felt. Dissecting, yes. I also don't like to be cornered and I've been cornered or put on the spot by a few! lol grrr hey no one puts baby in the corner!!!!

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And they love our GC charms haha.

And yes I've had a something like this before? Are you the Aqua or are you the virgo? because it'll change what I'll say 😛

many Aqua/Virgo couples out there. Don't listen to people who WANT it their way, listen to your heart and soul.

my husband has virgo placements and i LOVE virgo energy.

Posted by aquarius09
As you should be. This is the worst match for aqua. I don't care what astrology books say regarding the pairing, but I have seen brutal endings or relationships in this pairing. In fact, I have 4 Aquarius in my family, including myself, and all of us just don't get along with our Virgo sis/daughter. It's not just her. Virgo has become a very weird sign for us, as in we dread them. My capri mom dated a Virgo. The qualities that she despised in this guy were ironically found in all the virgos we know. I was good friends with 2 Virgos (male and female) and we couldn't stand each other. Here's the thing: aqua and virgos are tje 2 intellectuals of the zodiac. Their thinking process is very different. I truly believe in that because almost all virgos I met were super smart. The problem was it led them to behaving like know-it-all's. Aqua doesn't like that. Also virgos are too analytical in their thought process that they will dissect something to death. Aqua gets annoyed by that. Just like with water signs, air signs have communication trouble, with virgos, an aqua has a difference in thinking. Both are smart, but each sign thinks the other sign's thought process is odd.

Ok. Your biased opinion is way too much. But we get it. You have had a terrible experience with them.

But since you obsess over libras at the libra forum, let me tell you something..... STING from the Police, who is a libra sun.

he's got VIRGO energy. He's Virgo Venus AND mercury, and he's married to a Capricorn Sun, Scorpio Venus/Mars, and Aqua Mooner lady, Trudy style r. And he's got Mars and Asc in Leo, which explians alot of opposite attracts and trines in the energy.

I am Virgo Female. I wouldnt consider myself a know-it-all. I consider him quite smart, even though some of what he says he just BS, as he's quite the BS'er, as are most Aquas.
Here is my frustration... [We have been living together for 2 years]. He pursued me. I wasnt so sure he was my "type", but I got to thinking what the heck, maybe I dont know what my type is. I was living in my aunties basement and he opened up the offer to come and go as I pleased. Showed me where the extra key was hidden and told me to come over any time whether he was home or not. For the most part, things have gone quite well. I think I know quite a bit about his sign, so when he does certain things I'm not totally blindsided. Except.....when it comes to sex. He talks of how in his younger days (he's 48) that he had lots of sex, but now that he's older he just doesnt need it so much. Sex is always his idea, I let him know when I am need-which is quite often, but more often than not, I'm lucky if I can get some of his attention once a week or less. I know he needs his space and he does spend a lot of time down in the basement in his cave at the computer looking up car parts and whatnot. But dang it, if I'm gonna get all worked up when we're in the sack, I expect to get off too!! I can usually count on him just about getting me there and then he moves on to him getting there, its over and he's going to sleep. Either I can take care of it myself or try and ignore it and hope he's ready again soon!
Last night I said I wanted to go out on a date this coming Wednesday and he got all defensive. Saying he was frustrated and he had all these things to do on his days off (Tues/Wed) that he didnt get to do last week. blah blah blah. So, I didnt say another word about it or anything until we were laying in bed. He asked me if I was ok and I said ya. He said you really want to go out Wed. I said well you gotta eat dont you? He said well ya..so whether we go out or not I dont know, we shall see I guess. I think right now more than anything I am so sexually frustrated I dont know what to do. I have been in relationships before where I had to take care of things on my own and I really dont feel I should have to do that, and honestly, I simply dont want to. I know we Virgos can be critical and I dont want to approach him and make him feel like sex with him sucks, because it doesnt always. But when I dont feel like I'm being included in his fun, whats the point?!

I've seen the male Virgo/ female Aquarius combi, not the other way around.

I should also add, even with as cold as he is much of the time. I have seen his soft side, so I know he has one and when there has been a separation between us for days or a week, wow things in the sack are so much different. He works a very demanding physical job (on call 24/7) which he says provides him the necessary adrenaline he must have. My adrenaline is sex!

Okay so I'll gather this is mostly a sexual frustration case more than anything. I'm not dismissing your worries but I really do have to point out it has nothing to do with being an Aqua.

There are guys who love to talk, those who don't.
There are guys who are great in bed, there are ones that aren't.

I'm not a counselor by any means but maybe you should talk to him about it because it seems like a deal breaker for you. I really doubt he'd miraculously just last longer out of the blue to be honest.

I guess a better question is, do Aquas just not care about the needs of others? Sexual or otherwise. I know Aquas have issues with the whole emotion thing.

I just think he doesn't know what's going on. He only knows what he experienced in his life and probably assumes everything is fine with you and if it wasnt you'd tell him directly.

Sexually? Hell no. If my partner doesn't at least get there 100 times before me then it's no good for me! haha (okay exaggerating on the 100 part). Story with my Virgal fling? She was just after sex but I couldn't do it, call me old fashioned. Not tooting my own horn but fingers can be just as effective.

Like I said it's mentality of taker vs giver. For me when I love someone I take care of them. There are both takers and givers under the Aqua sun sign.

Ok, I just learned this; I'm still somewhat knew to this:

Me-Sun-Virgo
Him-Sun-Agua
Me-Moon-Scorpio
Him-Moon-Capricorn
Me-Mars-Scorpio
Him-Mars-Virgo
Me-Mercury-Virgo
Him-Mercury-Capricorn
Me-Jupiter-Leo
Him-Jupiter-Taurus

Sorry.. missed this..
Me-Venus-Virgo
Him-Venus-Capricorn
Me-Saturn-Aries
Him-Saturn-Pisces

I'm still pretty bad looking into synastry just by signs themselves so apologies 😛

I did notice his virgo and cap placements tho. Emotionally speaking? I can only guess that he's more grounded and methodical and somewhat logical about his approach and always something tangible. I noticed you said he asked you after laying in bed, I noticed this with the virgal as well, seems like that's when they become all cuddly and soft and open up. Just amuses me because his mars in virgo.

Suffice to say he's willing to talk, maybe just need to find the right time. As to which issue is more pressing? Sexual frustration or possible emotional abandonment? Not sure but you were pretty thorough about the first.

He loves to talk, not sure if its because he likes to hear himself talk or likes that others are listening while he talks. Its rare that we go to bed at the same time. I have to be to work by 7am, him not until 8 if he's home at all or not out on a call already. He says he doesnt need as much sleep as I do, yet I hear him complain the next day he is tired. So I tell him he can always come to bed instead of sitting up until 1am...duh! I think he's just avoiding coming to bed with me. Guys always do and say all the things you want in order to get you then they get all comfortable and dont do any of those things anymore.
We also do not have days off together, so believe when I say we get PLENTY of time away from each other.I also go away one wknd a month to see my grown kids.

Aquas feed off getting a reaction out of people. The aqua I know gets up at early in the morning to go to the gym. He works so hard and will sleep less cause he doesn't want to skip lifting weights

They are so spastic mentally it's hard to keep them grounded. What they do value is you continue being you and doing your thing while he does his. That's what will keep him sane

I think like what SF79 said could be he just not aware of how much it bothers you :/

Gosh I had a Virgo girl give me her number once but she wants me to chase her and I don't chase anything unless I know what Im chasing. Me and her barely had conversations long enough for me to get to know her at all. And Im beginning to wonder by your comments if all she wanted was sex .... I mean I loves me some sex but hmm I dunno I never done one night stands... Guess Im a prude