Aquarius vs Taurus

Just wanting to touch base with all them in the Aquarius Taurus relationships.

Hows everyone doing? My relationship seems to be still coming on strong.. really enjoying it. Oh we get in arguments from time to time.. but we have learned to just give each other space to calm down.. then we talk it out after a bit.. and it's usually over something stupid like.. he thinks I'm mad at him, when really yet I think he's mad at me. It's just a bit of misunderstanding on each side. Sex is still wild and fantastic.

Hope all is well with you's.. lets talk about any problems that may come up in this relationship.. or help each other to understand Taurus more.

Aquarius Female

Hi, I'm also an aquarius female just starting a relationship with a Taurus male. He is the real strong, quite type and when he does talk I am the listening and analyzing everything. Although, the sex is truly amazing and spontaneous, the Taurus is a workaholic and we are physical fitness minded people but he's much more dedicated than I am, which means that I don't get to see him as much as I would like. I'm a little confused as to how to deal with a Taurus, I don't know if calling him on a regular basis would be too much or not calling and letting him call me is better? Should I tell him how much I care for him or let him ask me? I'm so used to relationships with fire signs (who talk and play alot) that this Taurus leaves me wondering wear I stand.

Waterbearer,

I know, I feel about the same as you do. They say so little that it's hard to tell what they are thinking half the time.

I do know that they do check us out for a long time before desiding on if they really want us for a 'perminate relationship' or not, they are not quick to fall in love, but when they do, thay are commited to it all the way.

I always want to talk to my Taurus male.. and I feel like I call him to much .. like I am annoying or something at times, but then he's not much of a phone person. I always tell him how much I care about him, he rarely says it back.. like I say they are really slow in doing that untill they are 'SURE' you are the one for them.. that you are true, honest ect.

Another thing I have learn from reading, is they will start giving you things when they care, this is how you can tell where you stand in his heart. Another thing, he is saying all the time that he is going to 'save' me. So they like if they can be the protective, nurturing man.

Aquarius Female

Hi, Jollyjas

The other night while my Taurus was in a somewhat talkative mood, I asked him if there was a possibility that he could fall in love with me? His answer was, yes, but it will take at least a year or two, although the sex is good and I am physically attractive, it takes time to really known someone. Being an Aquarian "what you see is what you get", I do and say exactly what I feel and act appropriately, if you want to know something, just ask, I like to get things out in the open earily before my feelings become too evident. So I hope he doesn't wait too long to find out something or waiting for something better to come along in the meantime. Aquarians will disappear like in thin air and having my moon in Aries there are times when I say enough is enough, time to go. Not necessarily into someone elses arms, but by losing interest.

yes, we do lose interest fast. lol

but in time we learn that we must settle down, would be nice to keep our minds active in other things when our taurus male gets boring lol

aquarius female

jollyjas, good advice. thankx

Hi Jolly,

I know exactly what you mean about getting bored. But I don't think it's really whether or not it's with taurus or whatever. we just tend to get bored. We try to do good by whatever man we are with. but eventually.... well you know.

My taurus and I right now are at an impasse. We get along. And that's a good thing. Because when we aren't getting along...watch out! But my aquarian and I .... well, we just click. It's weird, I read what everyone is saying about Aqua-aqua relationships but I just don't see right now. Maybe it's because we're both married and it's not acceptable, but it's great what we can get!

Just my 2 cents worth!

mindy

waterbearer, you said: "when he does talk I am the listening and analyzing everything"

I had to say... This is happening to us now. I as an aquarian analyzes everything he says... he is now complaining about that.. although I try not to, it's just there in me, he seems to make some weird comments from time to time, and I am always saying "just what do you mean by that?" then the arguments start, cause he just says weird things on the top of his head just to get me going. I guess I have to learn to just ignore what he says to me,, just let it slip by.. [eventually, if i just let it slip..he does end up explaining it on his own] ...hard sometimes to do though.

I have moved in with him [which is why I haven't been in here a bit] July 1st.. things are going ok... see!!!! Taurus and Aquarius 'CAN' get along great.

Hi msmindy!
Yes.. I 'know' how the aquarius/aquarius can click and click 'well' been there done that one.. I think ever since I have been looking for that same relationship with other men that I had with my aquarius male... I'm thinking that my taurus male comes really close to it, and then some!. aquarius male and I went our seperate ways cause we were 'to much of a good thing' we could predict each others moves.. got a bit boring after a bit.
Yes we do bore easy! when we have someone 'just like us' we search for variety.
I hope all goes well for you mindy.. your relationship grows stronger for you, and you are able to find a way to be with him perminately, hugs and good luck girl.

Aquarius Female

Hi Jolly!

Good luck with your Taurus! I think you will be fine as long as you keep him happy in the bedroom!! Seriously, I think you are just the one for it, too, sister!! 🙂
That's the one thing that I have found with him, as long as he's happy in the sack, he thinks all is well. And it can be. You just need to learn to pick your battles. another bit of advice, don't spoil him! I have, and now I regret it. My DH is such a baby at times, it drives me crazy. And he will lie to me to get his way.

Thanks so much for the kind words, I really do appreciate it. My aqua and I are still going strong. And wish we could be together permanently. I hope that we would not get bored with each other. I think that we are both just needing to be loved and appreciated. Neither one of us have ever really had that.

Keep in touch!

Hugs!

m

Excuse me for being a social retard but what the hell does DH mean?

DH = Dear Husband
DS = Dear Sister
DD = Dear daughter

etc, etc.

It took me awhile to learn those! The one that got me was ROTFLMAO (rolling on the floor laughing my a $ $ off.)

Wow, I'm a little taken aback to see that u guys are dating Taureans who are quiet and don't gush about how they feel... my Taurus is quite talkative and just called the other night before leaving for a week (cottage excursion with his guys... he's definitely a guys' guy and needs that time) to tell me that he'll miss me so much and that I'll be at the forefront of his mind the entire time. Did I mention that we just started dating? I think it's very true what you guys said about keeping them happy in bed though... if you can do that, they'll stay happily enamored to your side... and get used to having them insist on paying for everything. They're a bit old-fashioned.

But then again, I guess we have a bit of a role reversal... I'm not much of phone person, and I don't really like to call. I'm more of an MSN person myself.

Hi Lady,good day. i would like to know more about man in taurus, i my self is a Aquarius. let start with my personal story, i know him more then 2 years, think gona be 3 years+ too. i dint have this kind of feeling till i get my self a short trip to his city. well~ ofcause i do call him up can he be my tour guard when im there. ( we are friend but kind of close friend :p) till the second night i get my self a strong feeling for him. dont think he know that. but i do know he really take care of my need when im there. now im back, but i think a little pieces of me is there he never know he had stole it. what should i do? will be complicated for him if i really tell him 'i like him'

@jollyjas the analysing of everything is exactly what I do!! Goodness I remember everything he says word for word and sometimes ask about.

My Taurus and I used to date 10 yrs ago I broke it off and after him always trying to stay in contact with me and being older I really would like us to try again. We have discussed it before. So at one point I just tell him I want to try again...he then reels of a whole bunch of stuff from the top of his head, not to get my hopes up, maybe but it's not like we are going to get married...I was so annoyed whilst frantically analysing it all I called the following day to tell him that if he wanted to say no to just say that. He angrily told me he said nothing of the sort to me (when I relayed what he said) and I just heard what I wanted to hear....then he tried to make me laugh my telling me being angry doesn't suit me and I'll get frown lines.

I'm telling you they sometimes do just talk if you catch them off guard and they have to answer!! And the misunderstanding we have are insane. We have totally different stories about what has happened over the last 10 yrs, why and how we broke up. Strange really but we know each other so well underneath it all I really couldn't imagine being without him really

I posted my own thread about my relationship with an Aqua male.

We're really good friends. He depends on me for a lot

We have what I believe is friends with super benefits.

We have talk for hours with no sex

we can talk for hours then have sex

ignore each other in public then meet in the bathrom for sex.

IDK what this is or if it'll go anywhere but its been a wild ride!

He's still in love with his Libra ex, I am in love with him. I told him. He ignores me then comes back.

It's confusing. I really do not know what to expect or do with this Aqua man.....

Is there anyone that values friendship without sex first and build up foundation slowly with an Aquarius?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Is there anyone that values friendship without sex first and build up foundation slowly with an Aquarius?

Thats the problem.

Taurus are physical and Aquarius are mental.

It clashes

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Is there anyone that values friendship without sex first and build up foundation slowly with an Aquarius?

Virgos. LMAO

Lol nice.

I've read that aquas think Taurus is fake and a lot of words and no action. It's buzzkill for them.

Also that Taurus feels aqua is too self centered and not relationship friendly.