Aquarius woman and Aquarius man bumpy ride

Hi I'm a 21 January Aquarius woman and my lover a 10 February Aquarius man. We started off as friends with benefit where we both felt comfortable helping and being there for each other without any problems or restrain.
However, when he started to get close to me i wasn't receptive neither was i comfortable with his emotional demands and need for physical intimacy because i had my reservations concerning where our friendship is heading. I didn't want to lose d friend in him on d alter of forming a romantic relationship. Don't get me wrong i care about him a lot but that's all it is. He wants more Ñ‚–½Î±Î· friendship from me. I want to be certain of my feelings for him before taking the next step. Plz help how should i apporach d situation