Aquarius woman...what the hell

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JustaSag
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So, I'm sure you all are sick of hearing this by now, but you are a slightly harder to figure out group of people 😉 As a Sag, that is deeply disconcerting haha. I've known this girl for a few years, we had a class together, and this was during a time when I was still chasing an ex/didn't feel like getting into anything. She made a huge effort to talk to me every day, sit next to me, make me laugh, tried to give me her number, the whole nine yards. Long story short, it was very obvious that she had something for me but I was having none of it. I was not able to at the time. A year or so later, finally finding myself in a free and open state of mind, I started trying to talk to her, although it didn't go well. She would take the opportunity to talk to me, but I could never quite get her to hang out. That faded into nothing too. Now, about a year later, I just randomly decided to say hi to her the other night. We had a nice continuous conversation going for a couple days. As a Sag, I appreciate a razor sharp wit, the ability to be borderline offensive, and very strong personalities, attached to an extremely intelligent brain. She has all that and more, to be sure. And the conversation was indicative of that, and like we had never stopped talking. Then, she disappeared. So, I didn't say anything for a few days. Tried to talk to her just now, very whatever, emotionless (of course), and not at all like we normally have been. Should I try to ask if I said something? Maybe she's scared that I'll disappoint her, although I'm not sure. Is this typical?
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JustaSag
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I don't know about "diss"...we were simply friends and I never made any moves to push it farther. I couldn't. I'm not going to go into detail with it, a few months earlier I had a painful breakup, and worse, had to see this person every single day. So, yes, I guess maybe she felt bad that I never reciprocated the attraction but it wasn't just because, I can assure you. The second time we started talking, it was very casual, and balanced. As I said, we could never really find time to get together, and of course were really busy. This time is the only time where she just disappeared. That's why I thought it was strange, as it was inconsistent with earlier times, that's all.
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Well she liked you in the beginning, after her failed attempts of flirting with you she figured you were not interested. To be honest she's probably thinking you are just being friendly with her and not taking your conversations as anything else but friendly enlightening conversation. Aquarius women can talk about everything under the sun, and not know if someone is really interested in them unless the come out and say it.

She may have been cold because something else was on her mind. If your in a relationship with an Aquarius you have to accept that your not going to be on their mind all the time. (just a heads up 🙂 )

If you try to talk to her again, it will be like all of this never happened.
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JustaSag
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Haha thanks for the advice. She texted me out of the blue yesterday, apologizing for not responding the day before, but still has been pretty inconsistent. We'll see what happens. You're probably right about the being friendly thing...I kind said something to make my intentions a little more clear earlier, she responded well, but of course texting is not really useful. I guess I will have to try to pry her open a little more.