Aquas and parents

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Eleventh
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I've been living with my mum for the last year, both my folks are Gemini and they are very much a like in some ways but very different.

My relationship with my mum is a lot better now that I'm older, she was a career woman and raised us kids by herself so she gets a lot of my respect but I developed a lot of anxiety from her because she's a pressure cooker, I'm constantly telling her to relax as she always pushes her physical and mental limits....

When I'm away from my folks I miss them heaps but when I live with them I want to see them as little as possible, a lot of times my mum knows when I'm boiling over internally and she likes to take advantage of it and relishes in seeing me squirm, I constantly tortured because of that witch, she even used to make me call her mommy darling
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aquasnoz
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I'm not on good terms with either. They alienated me as a child so I never got to see them. Kicked me out of home when I was young, which was good because I probably would've left anyway. My dad is a bit unstable or at least was, almost killed the whole family in the car (quite an adrenaline rush), still have a scar from when my step mum stabbed me so that's fun. The only real good thing out of all this is my biological mum, left me with some belongings, she's passed so there's really not much left to salvage.

Yes I do miss them, more of the fantasy side of a functional family. I guess that would be delusional or incorrect as I actually have no idea what it feels like to have a family.
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AquaNextDoor
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I moved out when I was 17 so I could move to switzerland. My parents & my siblings still live in germany (550km away) and its aaaaallways a blast when I visit them on christmas or whenever I feel like.we miss eachother a lot and we are on the phone 1-2x a week.

Mum: pisces
Dad: cancer
Brothers: libra & aries

Til this day I'm very thankful that my mum let me go back then. She knew that I thought everything through and that my decisions are right.
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AquaNextDoor
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10 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

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Mum : pisces, aqua moon/merc, cap venus, leo mars

Dad: cancer, pisces moon, cancer merc, gem venus/mars

Youngest brother: libra, gem moon, leo venus, libra merc, sag mars

Other brother: aries, cancer moon, aqua venus, aries merc/mars

We have 4 fire mars (mine is in sag) in our family hahaha but it works!
Its funny though that my mothers placements are simular to mine. I'm an aqua with leo AC and 6 cap placements.