Aqua's Best match

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by aquaameh on Wednesday, November 26, 2008 and has 31 replies.

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@aquaameh
17 Years

Hi, I have been searching for the best match for the aqua. And i got three options for an Aqua guy - Sagittarius, Libra & Gemini girl. but not satisfied with any of the three signs as Aqua believes in a real long term relationship and all 0these three signs were not like that.
Is it true that Aqua wont have a real match in his life?

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

I have been searching for the best match for the aqua.

erm wow - you have?! how?

but not satisfied with any of the three signs as Aqua believes in a real long term relationship and all 0these three signs were not like that.

What is your definition of long term relationship? Do you think or believe anyone of any sign dates to break up tomorrow? Are you looking way into the future and not reality? Are you going into dating with your ideals? sounds scary-like πŸ™‚

Is it true that Aqua wont have a real match in his life?

who said that? based on this, does any sign have a real match in their life? are you not part of 12 signs?

Anyway, my opinion is Aqua's long term match is someone that does not see them as special, eccentric, weird, intelligent >>> just sees them as someone else...see the signs you list above I have seen make good wives, mothers, long term partners, etc...

You date to find out if the qualities the person has is what you would like then you work and work happily, cheerfully, as you see most people, especially the signs you mention, don't think of long term in the conventional sense including Aquas, you have to be worth it and it has to be the right time for them --- if you don't want to do any work --- do you want the best match to come to you wrapped with long term dreams wrapping paper? πŸ˜›

and IT IS NOT WRITTEN IN SIGNS OR STARS - you work at what you want πŸ™‚

too many females do all the work for males though...convince them they are this and not that and sooner or later, even chase them...they cave with the wrong person, then realise their idea of long term is VERY VERY different so I guess the astrologers are not wrong - long term partnership needs similar life outlook.

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@aquaameh
17 Years

Thanks guys for the reply. I knew, that ultimately this topic will lead to getting advice from all. I can see major differences between the Astrology and Real life. It really depends on how we take each other's differences. Me and a taurus woman cant handle each other. But i even know a Sag man & virgo woman happily married for years.... They saw each other's positive.
zenalchemy, i like the way you reply to every one.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

^lol

Sagittarius, seen some blissful couples from both aqua males and females.
Libra, I personally like them for the most part.
Aries, two aqua ladies on the board can attest.
Pisces, later in life or with maturity on both the aqua and pisces part, but the same could be said for all signs.

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@aquaboy
17 Years

Taurean Princess, Aqua man + Taurean Woman cant be a good match. It needs a lots of sacrifice from both the sides. one person cannot be himself/herself & it will lead to many miss understandings. As i myself, personally got involved in this kind of relationship and felt very bad at the end. Are you in a relationship with any Aqua man?

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@SoftCookie
20 Years500+ Posts

Are Aqua chicas attracted to Leo men? Just curious, there is one in my life at the moment. She's quirky but still grounded, an entertaining combination...

πŸ™‚

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

I really think there will be more happiness , at least on dxp-world if all Aqua just married each other already πŸ˜›

One day you will remeber this!!
I think someone's trying to start a revolution but I think it has already been done somewhere, can't remember now though.

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

lol OFA, that's because they meet women who are too attentive to them or think they're blah/wow so they try to push the envelope with attempting to revolutionise relationships status, or advocate suntin or crap like that... remember Aqua sign is more comfortable advocating or promoting some stuff or the other but not with over-emotionality.

ignore their crap, then they come running or whine.

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@xonsie
17 YearsAries

I can see that, I usually stay away from other Aries(sun) or Virgos(rising...why would I go out with myself, and have to deal with my neurosis and impulsiveness twice over when I have a hard enough time keeping myself in check...may be some truth in opposites attract.

But I love aquas...sun/moon/rising...I get their need to feel free from constraints, real or otherwise...and they understand when I can't be bothered myself. And nothing is more fun than arguing back and forth about big ideas, how to the future should be, etc...very hot!

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

lol yea big difference, my last married aqua pick up... 'was fun to chat, here're my details, call or email, you just never know, we might be friends for life' few months later 'i need a mistress'

πŸ˜›

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

I think even after Aquas find a good soulmate, we still having problems adapting to things & people that are not like us. But this side of us usually doesn't come out of us until something in the relationship goes wrong. For example, I love that Libras are so caring & don't give up easily on their partners. But the minute me & my Libra start to clash, this very same thing I once loved about them (2 weeks ago) can annoy me. And then out of the blue, I'll feel that they are too naive, too caring & get taken advantage of too easily (all of the things that turn Aquas off immediately once we find out).

So I think that we are in a way doomed when it comes to love in the long run b/c a big part of us will always & only attach towards things that fit US, not the other way around & the minute our partners do something that we might've purposely over looked just b/c we had to in order to have a companion, we go back to being our old selves again; therefore just making it almost impossible to please us. I think real love CAN happen with Aquas but I believe that the problem is, no one can love like an Aqua can. And at the same time, it's almost impossible to get an Aqua to be like everyone else & overlook someone's flaws that we already know in the long run will drive us away anyways

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

^^^ lol --- you do make butter sound good though... try to seperate yourselves with intelligent sounding mesh

no one can love like an Aqua can indeed as none of the 12 signs love in the same way - each has their own interpretation.
everyone is doomed in love, we all naively carry a brand of how we want to be loved of ho our partners should be and judge from random non-realistic/arbitrary standards --- never works perfectly for everyone... sure if you convince yourself enough that it's perfect, then you stick

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Well hey, I can only see things from the eyes of an Aqua, b/c that's what I am. I'm speaking on behalf of being an Aqua b/c that's the only sign I can speak on behalf of. Just like they say "No one can sex you like a Scorp." Sure other signs can sex you, but it's also widespread & known that Scorps. have been branded in the sex department. Some signs love a little bit harder than others or deal with distance alot different than others. If I hadda said, "No one can play the "distance" game better than Aquas" I'm sure alot of you would agree. But the minute I say "No one can love like Aquas" you automatically assume that I'm making it out so that Aquas appear better or more superior than other signs & not once did I say that.

You're right. Love is doomed for everyone. But she asked about Aquas in particular so I responded in a way particular to Aquas, & not everyone. I think Aquas are a little more strict than some other signs in the "love" department & so it's understandable why some just can't figure us out. But sometimes you have to put yourself in someone else's shoes to know why they are the way they are & explaining how an Aqua mind processess his thoughts is just that: explaining. Whether or not she decides to pursue him is up to her.

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

But the minute I say "No one can love like Aquas" you automatically assume that I'm making it out so that Aquas appear better or more superior than other signs & not once did I say that.

Response was 'indeed' meaning I agree with you on the statement πŸ™‚

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@AquaDash
18 YearsAquarius

I'm just wondering if we are thinking in terms of marriage?
Otherwise, we can discuss long-term, short-term, casual fling, one-night stand, exclusive, monogamy, best friend, business partner (co-worker), smoking partner, drinking partner, clubbing partner, shopping partner, starbucks/dunkin partner, library/study partner etc...
You guys get it.
Although, my leo friend is probably my best shopping partner, well until she suggested that I buy a pair of uggs. I told her don't call me, I'll call you. That was that.

I think this has been discussed before. If anyone cares to tell me which thread, I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you. πŸ™‚

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@Aquaguy7
17 YearsAquarius

From what I've read:
Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra & Aquarius itself.
(Not in any order either btw πŸ˜„)

But really it's a difficult one to give a correct answer. I did some research on one or two exes who I'm still friends with (bless facebook) turns out my longest relationship was with an Aquarius girl! To my amazement in fact! I had mixed results with Virgo and Taurus though; but these things happen and to be honest I'm not sure if it's down to the star sign at all because I am still good friends with the Taurus girl years on and we are great friends! πŸ™‚

As for other ex-girlfriends I really don't know their star signs :\

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@LeoAqua
18 Years500+ Posts

They say Leo and Aqua are a 7-7 vibration - i.e. marriage partners for many reasons, the most obvious being that they're opposites.
I don't know so much....but then you put a spin on it....so e.g.
My Aqua b/f has a Leo Moon. I'm Leo with an Aqua rising.

I guess the two make for a good match when there's more than just the sun sign doing all the work. Two Aquas together could equal a relationship devoid of any emotionβ€” So throw some warm Leo into the mix and now you're talking...I may be biased but based on my experiences the relationship has helped each one of us grow in the most extraordinary ways....I think back to the self-centered arsehole who randomly lost his temper and sulked like a baby to the responsible, mature person he is now...caring to the degree that I'm sometimes feeling a little smotheredβ€”