okay. basically, he and i are classmates and from the very begining, i was very much attracted to him. i made it my point to interact with him in the begining. after some weeks passed he started to initate our interactions, ie: always looking for me, saving me a seat, making sure i notice him, waiting for me after class, staying in school for hours as i studied and he sat next to me reading a paper...
we've become very physically playful, holding hands, hugging numerous times, poking each other, having our feet touch, basically when we sit next to each other; if the majority of our body doesnt touch, a body PART will touch. its gotten to the point that our classmates and professors tease us and think we are dating or have been physically intimate (we have not, ive even been teased at how he turns into this talkative person when im near him, but when im not there, he's very reserved...
we talk alot and laugh and playfully tease each other constantly. i can tell he enjoys my company and thinks i am physically attractive... he's even tried to take courses i am taking even though our majors are SO very different, and tells me frequently enough that he misses me when i do not attend a class, and asks me when he'll see me again...
my problem is... everything ive read about aquarians, say that this doesnt mean he is romantically interested in me? bc supposedly, if he is detached that would be a better barometer of his romantic interest... if thats so.. why does he act like this?
any advice would be helpful. i truly do like him! 🙂
right now your an experiement to him, in his mind he's imagined so much about you probably of a sexual nature, the type of shampoo you use, what color your underware you are wearing, what you do when he's not around, are you really the person your' portraying yourself to be, ect. problem is you have his attention because he doesn't know you that well, but what he see's thus far he likes, aquas are weird that way, they are interested in the unknown, but once they know all about you you're no longer fun, it sounds like you've got his attention now the problem lies in keeping it.
Pluto's right, the key is be yourself. It may work out it may not but if your not yourself from the start aquas are smart and will see right through your act, obviously you've been yourself thus far and he's interested keep being yourself and i agree with pluto let him call, they have their times when they don't like to talk and he will just sit on the other end of the line saying nothing and then rudly find a reason to get off the phone. so let him call you, that way you know he's ready to talk.
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what should I expect out of this relationship.. just started talking to her.. had an amazing conversation over the phone.. have yet to really hang out with her... seems like we click really good thus far..
we've become very physically playful, holding hands, hugging numerous times, poking each other, having our feet touch, basically when we sit next to each other; if the majority of our body doesnt touch, a body PART will touch. its gotten to the point that our classmates and professors tease us and think we are dating or have been physically intimate (we have not, ive even been teased at how he turns into this talkative person when im near him, but when im not there, he's very reserved...
we talk alot and laugh and playfully tease each other constantly. i can tell he enjoys my company and thinks i am physically attractive... he's even tried to take courses i am taking even though our majors are SO very different, and tells me frequently enough that he misses me when i do not attend a class, and asks me when he'll see me again...
my problem is... everything ive read about aquarians, say that this doesnt mean he is romantically interested in me? bc supposedly, if he is detached that would be a better barometer of his romantic interest... if thats so.. why does he act like this?
any advice would be helpful. i truly do like him! 🙂