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all signs point to feb16 wanting to be dominated! 😉

Posted by aquasnoz
all signs point to feb16 wanting to be dominated! 😉

Lol I know. They're so open with everything. You two need a blog for fantasys R US. Hilarious.

^^

You should go to the relationship or astrology boards and ask that "in general" question. Some of the more open posters/commentors maybe able to help you. 🙂

I thought rape fantasies are common most people just don't talk about it. Feeling of being dominated and all that jazz. Anyway you're on the Aqua board, I'm sure no one's going to get too weirded out by it.

I've acted out a rape fantasy with my Sag years ago, certainly an experience but yeah not really my type of thing. Roleplay is so much better 😉 or public improvisation *cough*

well i hate to be a party pooper but it's steering away from the OPs original topic too much. (as much as i like at times to go off topic, i'm a secret rule-maker and despise to break rules, like i keep my boundaries) but whatever, you all have what you want to do. (shrug)

it's getting HAWT in here 😉

Well you know say you goto an art exhibition together, then the mood strikes and you can't keep your hands off each other. I'll pretend to be the curator and an innocent art admirer comes in and we find a discreet location! haha yeah I know I don't know where I get these whacky ideas.

I have a terrible history with PDA. terrible.

Posted by Sola
it's getting HAWT in here 😉

it's UNCANNY how you just "pop" up all of a sudden.

well if people want to keep talking about this, and the OP doesn't mind, go right on ahead. Just sayin' you'll probably get more INFORMATION off the "general" boards, like miscellaneous than here. Since most people don't come over here.

rape fantasies usually is an "Arian" trait (from googling astrology and zodiac signs, and strong Mars rulers)

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Meet at Maccie D's for a romantic meal and take it form there lol.
Or maybe even a spiderman costume! Although I think that'd probably have to be with a woman further on in the relationship, bringing a new spin lol to bedroom gymnastics.

You just gave me the best idea for a video! haha and hey Maccas can be romantic! Now with their all brand spanking new suave interior. Dine with an expensive large cup of coke or fanta, feed each other french fries while gazing deeply into each others' eyes, wipe off the mustard with maccas napkin for a tender moment then induge on a soft-serve ending up in lip-locking at the end.

Yep lisabeth's right WAY off topic lol.

Hey feb16aqua, im ok! Not great, i have lots on my mind, it makes me soooo tired that my brain wont take a breather, but hell, that's being a libra 🙂

A Scottish Libra 🙂 A pleasure to meet you too..!

yeah, i cant imagine not being full of air!

Insanity is finding out that the Aqua went out on a date last Tuesday night, the night before he took me to the theatre and had arranged to meet her again on the Friday night, but she didnt go and he turned up at my door instead. Excuse my French, but this dude is officially a royal cunt..and so am I if i even consider seeing him again.

Meh meh meh.

He told me about it, straight up..and then (get this), he asked my advice about what to do about it because he didnt want to seem too keen!! he said they had really liked each other and it had been a good date, and they were kissing a lot etc. WHOAAHHH, I told him he was a totally clueless bastard..and i think he likes me insulting him..he was laughing. And then it just got even weirder. He always says he was invited to do other things with other people, but somehow he ALWAYS ends up doing something with me, then he was asking about why i still use my username, (because it means "alone"), and if i still felt like i was alone..eemmm, yes!! And then he was asking me if when i was with him, did i feel safe, because thats how he tries to make me feel.

I wish he would do the Aqua disappearing act, like NOW!

Interesting topic.

I've always found the essence of someone regardless of gender to be attractive. This attraction can manifest itself differently and it's a bit different to just a physical attraction.

What I find with time it can feel very intimate hence why I can relate to Aquas making friends first then relationships later. I don't think I question my own sexuality, the desire to get physical with another guy isn't there but there's a strong sense of affection towards them.

I guess that's what you call bromance.

So in that sense I believe in friends with the opposite sex but personally for me it can develop beyond that which is why I go by the fact unless you are already taken, if there's even a slight amount of physical attraction it will go beyond a typical friendship.

I'm an asshole for even letting the situation get this far. Its the way its been my whole adult life, one bad relationship or unhealthy situation after another (for most of the time, but with a few really decent men thrown in on occasion). Its so sad!! But despite it all, and how bad it sounds and is, i just cant give it up. Im a badness addict.

I dont know why he would even tell me any of that stuff, its probably 70% lies as you all say. He doesnt know how i feel because its something i NEVER talk about, he asked me not to talk about that stuff at the start so i never have. I just see him, we spend the time together. So, you see, he feels something and either cant/wont do anything about it. Im so tempted to just put my feelings out there, it would save all this mind fuckery..surely?!

It just never seems right! Yeah, i didnt see anyone for the last 14 months, and thought i was definitely in a new place, a new starting point..and look what i fell right back into, the good old habit. But this guy loves me. Im not deluded, im old and experienced to just "know" when a man does.

oh, he's my drug all right!!

I really see it as the Libran trait because it's fundamentally that which makes me indecisive at times. You guys are gifted to see the many perspectives but when it comes right down to it you don't know what's wrong or right but then again, is there an answer, I ask this myself.

I've made a practice to be delicately blunt so to speak. Someone people can't handle this others can. If I feel something strongly then I would always voice it. It's okay to be selfish when the moment calls for it. Take your situation, you are confused and annoyed, you blame him and you blame yourself. What seems like a complicated situation has a absurdly simple answer screaming out at you but you just refuse to take it for fear of losing all this.

Let's say you did tell him, and he finally confesses. Then it's win win for everyone. Alternatively he runs away in the other direction, you might be heartbroken but there's very good justifications to end this miserable cycle rather than holding on to it. If you do choose to let it keep playing out it still leads to the same outcomes but with so much shit stuck in between that might manifest itself later on down the track.

Which road do you want to take? Which person do you want to become? Would you rather believe in date or make your own destiny?

*believe in fate

ake your situation, you are confused and annoyed, you blame him and you blame yourself. What seems like a complicated situation has a absurdly simple answer screaming out at you but you just refuse to take it for fear of losing all this.

Let's say you did tell him, and he finally confesses. Then it's win win for everyone. Alternatively he runs away in the other direction, you might be heartbroken but there's very good justifications to end this miserable cycle rather than holding on to it. If you do choose to let it keep playing out it still leads to the same outcomes but with so much shit stuck in between that might manifest itself later on down the track.

I've analysed it to death, heard everyones perspective, and KNOW that at least one of us needs to be bold, and its never gonna be him. I think it wil be one of those conversations that happens in the dark, (because then its easier to have a silent cry should it all go "arse up")!! Yeah, i have to speak up, not only to save myself from bs, but because it just gets boring after a while.

I repeat..thanks everyone!

i can totally see how earth and water can't understand air and fire. Sheesh.

my brother-in-law is a Libra sun btw and married to my beautiful Aries sister. Although he is dominant water/earth though.
And she is too. So the opposite attracts are all in their chart as well.

I dont know why I mentioned it, just glancing through you two talking and therapising. 🙂

aw sorry if I'm playing matchmaker (i'm not!!) LOL It's just when I see two single people sharing, therapising, ect, ect..
always got romancing on the brain when bachelorette no.1 is talking to bachelor no.2 (or whatever no.) lol

My brother-in-laws family just loves my sister to death! He has a Cap mother and a Leo father.

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Posted by lisabethur8
my brother-in-law is a Libra sun btw and married to my beautiful Aries sister. Although he is dominant water/earth though.
And she is too. So the opposite attracts are all in their chart as well.

I dont know why I mentioned it, just glancing through you two talking and therapising. 🙂

Hey Lisabeth anyone can chime in right? I have only known 2 Libra guys and they both were very charming but they were coworkers and I never dated them! It is nice that your sister has found harmony...We Aries at times find difficulty in that at times.. 🙂
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She had a Cancer and a Leo guy before the Libra. They were not for her, unfortunately. She's very happy now. 🙂

gracias 🙂

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Posted by lisabethur8
aw sorry if I'm playing matchmaker (i'm not!!) LOL It's just when I see two single people sharing, therapising, ect, ect..
always got romancing on the brain when bachelorette no.1 is talking to bachelor no.2 (or whatever no.) lol

My brother-in-laws family just loves my sister to death! He has a Cap mother and a Leo father.

Aww you are too cute! shall i call you Cupid? LOL 🙂
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Naw, it's not my place really. You can't force two single people together if they dont feel it, or if one doesn't feel it.

Just was observing and I'm a huge romantic.

@firewaterearthpiscesvenus

🙂 Oh i know, i got it. hehe. Btw, her husband has Cancer Mars and a Cancer Jupiter so obviously she wasn't able to escape the Cancer energy. LOL

13 Years

Aqua is playing games. Love takes on many forms. I have platonic male friends whom love me and they married women with very similar personalities to mine. They would do anything for me and vice versa but, the love we have for one another is not romantic.

Some Aqua men know that they don't have what it takes to sustain a mature adult relationship. So, they amass a harem around them to fulfill this need. Now, the Aqua man may not be sleeping with every member of the harem but, each member fulfills one of his need.

You may have fallen into the category of "Gal Friday" which is fine as long as you realize that is where you will most likely stay.

I do miss the old fish and chips complete with the paper wrapping. Ban the trays I say!

Also whatever happened to good old hand-made chips. What's this frozen KFC wanna be chips 😛

Awww, now i want fish and chips!! With a pickle and extra salt 🙂

We can all share but hands off the crunchy chips they're all mine!