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Posted by lisabethur81. Yes, I'm a guy.
you're a guy right?
what would describe your woman??
do you like her funny? cool? what?
cold, aloof, ridiculous?
my man is like this!! fire Jupiter conjunct fire moon, water sun/venus, fire mars.
and another Aquarius/Pisces moon/Gemini Mars/cap venus actress, is married to a funny guy too,
but his funniness is really different, it's more OUT THERE, like cray.



Posted by themagnetorebornAquas usually try their hardest to blend into the crowd. We don't want to be special snowflakes and we could take up certain unusual professions.
So how come Aquariuses are hard to come by?
I only know like 3 of them in real life.

Posted by Undinety c:
You are adorable 🙂!


Posted by herlimbicmind
On the whole, do you think weight is a factor in attractiveness to Aquarians? I have a friend who is convinced her weight is holding back a romance between she and an aqua male.
She's a leo.

Posted by TheGreatSearcherPosted by herlimbicmind
On the whole, do you think weight is a factor in attractiveness to Aquarians? I have a friend who is convinced her weight is holding back a romance between she and an aqua male.
She's a leo.
It depends. If it's not a whole lot of weight and if the Aqua is tolerant enough, he wouldn't care as long as they have the chemistry. For aquas, the mental compatibility is the most important aspect in a relationship. The other stuff comes second.
For me, it can be a deal-breaker (though it probably has to do more with my taste than anything, really), I would never date a lady who isn't at least a little bit physically attractive. Take this paragraph with a grain of salt.
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Posted by Freetobe007
What can I do to help my Aqua friend have more of a backbone when it comes to her son? He takes advantage of her chill, mellow nature and I've even seen him lash out and give her a strong pimp smack. He is under the age of 10. I don't want to make her feel judged or embarrassed, but I can sense she's overwhelmed and doesn't know what to do. His dad is out of town for several months for business and he wants to see what he can get away with.
Posted by yupvirgogive an example, yupvirgo.
Why does my Aqua female friend keep dating controlling guys?
Posted by canceleo33for a male aqua right?
How would you as an aqua like to be approached by a female who knows of you through mutual family and friends?
Posted by yupvirgouh I don't really like to be judgy but that prominent earth in me, frowns on women who have many flings.Posted by lisabethur8She's had many flings but the rare times she does get into a relationship- it's always with someone controlling. The first guy as she said and as I've witnessed controlled her comings and goings, who she's with, calls every hour of every day. I invited her to my birthday party and he wouldn't let her come coz "guys will be there." 10 months they lasted. Then this new guy is controlling the way she eats, the way she dresses, what she drinks and checks her phone every chance he gets. And every time she keeps calling me, complaining that she's being controlled. The one time she did date someone who wasn't controlling was another Aqua she met last year's Halloween party. They were really cute but she said he seemed detached lol.Posted by yupvirgogive an example, yupvirgo.
Why does my Aqua female friend keep dating controlling guys?
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Posted by yupvirgoPosted by lisabethur8The first guy was an Aqua and yes he was controlling. The new guy right now is a Pisces. The guy she met last year's Halloween was an Aqua (that one wasn't controlling). But to be fair, the first Aqua was cheated on by his ex-gf so he's kinda paranoid coz of that.Posted by yupvirgouh I don't really like to be judgy but that prominent earth in me, frowns on women who have many flings.Posted by lisabethur8She's had many flings but the rare times she does get into a relationship- it's always with someone controlling. The first guy as she said and as I've witnessed controlled her comings and goings, who she's with, calls every hour of every day. I invited her to my birthday party and he wouldn't let her come coz "guys will be there." 10 months they lasted. Then this new guy is controlling the way she eats, the way she dresses, what she drinks and checks her phone every chance he gets. And every time she keeps calling me, complaining that she's being controlled. The one time she did date someone who wasn't controlling was another Aqua she met last year's Halloween party. They were really cute but she said he seemed detached lol.Posted by yupvirgogive an example, yupvirgo.
Why does my Aqua female friend keep dating controlling guys?
it just shows to me loose morals.
and the guy she's involved with doesn't sound like he trusts her either. it's good you keep friends with her.
and don't be surprised, there are very controlling aqua men out there.
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Posted by canceleo33This is tough one. Ideally, you should show some kind of interest, maybe casual chit-chat and what not, so that I know you don't mind my presence. Just don't act like a creep, be more like a friend and try to attract my attention, but don't be too possessive or aggressive about it. You can scare me away that way. I prefer to know the person first, only then do I start doing something. It can take some time.
How would you as an aqua like to be approached by a female who knows of you through mutual family and friends?

Posted by yupvirgoCould have something to do with her personality, maybe she doesn't want to take the lead in a relationship.
Why does my Aqua female friend keep dating controlling guys?

Posted by Freetobe007Tell her to take stricter measures (such as informing the kid about consequences) and if the kid has some kind of mental health or behavior issues, suggest taking care of those with a specialist. Make sure to express your concern, but don't throw it into her face, it could make her feel judged (aquas hate taking criticism).
What can I do to help my Aqua friend have more of a backbone when it comes to her son? He takes advantage of her chill, mellow nature and I've even seen him lash out and give her a strong pimp smack. He is under the age of 10. I don't want to make her feel judged or embarrassed, but I can sense she's overwhelmed and doesn't know what to do. His dad is out of town for several months for business and he wants to see what he can get away with.

Posted by TheGreatSearcherMy ex who was an Aqua said I was a bit possessive...she was joking at the time but a few months later, we broke up lolPosted by canceleo33This is tough one. Ideally, you should show some kind of interest, maybe casual chit-chat and what not, so that I know you don't mind my presence. Just don't act like a creep, be more like a friend and try to attract my attention, but don't be too possessive or aggressive about it. You can scare me away that way. I prefer to know the person first, only then do I start doing something. It can take some time.
How would you as an aqua like to be approached by a female who knows of you through mutual family and friends?
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Posted by themagnetorebornIt's possible, but it needs to be said in a way which doesn't give it away. Maybe do your part in it?Posted by TheGreatSearcherMy ex who was an Aqua said I was a bit possessive...she was joking at the time but a few months later, we broke up lolPosted by canceleo33This is tough one. Ideally, you should show some kind of interest, maybe casual chit-chat and what not, so that I know you don't mind my presence. Just don't act like a creep, be more like a friend and try to attract my attention, but don't be too possessive or aggressive about it. You can scare me away that way. I prefer to know the person first, only then do I start doing something. It can take some time.
How would you as an aqua like to be approached by a female who knows of you through mutual family and friends?
Take this with a grain of salt, it does depend on certain other conditions (e.g. attraction and chemistry),
I get people in general need their space, but is it too much to ask an Aquarius to let down their guard and just be closer to their significant other? I mean seriously.
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Posted by Virgoatty891. Cheating is something that Aquas almost never do and it's not something that we like to talk about.
How do Aquarius men feel about cheating in a relationship? I cheated on my aqua husband (we have been long distance for 3 years and it got to a point where he was flat out refusing to move home) and he told me he wants to work it out /stay married/ forgives me but REFUSES to discuss it (or the root cause) with me . In fact he glosses over it like nothing ever happened. He did the same exact thing when we went through a miscarriage in the beginning of the marriage . Is this the way aquas cope with pain by essentially acting like it never happened?


Posted by umisaidDepends on how much of an impact they had on me. If it was someone who I really really liked and couldn't forget, it will remain. If it's a short-term chick who happens to be talking to other guys, I will move on and not give a damn about her.
if you had a crush on someone in the past will you always have a crush on them or was it just for the moment?

Posted by TheGreatSearcherinterestingPosted by umisaidDepends on how much of an impact they had on me. If it was someone who I really really liked and couldn't forget, it will remain. If it's a short-term chick who happens to be talking to other guys, I will move on and not give a damn about her.
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Posted by yupvirgodid you hear what Howard Stern was saying about it— 😢 well firstly he was saying, what a hot piece of ass, (typical Howard) and he got it made for having someone like her, but then he hits her because he didn't get the job he wanted (some movie deal didn't fall through) so he takes it out on her, and beats her up. She calls the cops and when they arrive she regretted it. Like she wants to forgive him MORE.Posted by lisabethur8That's sad and they're both Aquas too 😢Posted by yupvirgoPosted by lisabethur8The first guy was an Aqua and yes he was controlling. The new guy right now is a Pisces. The guy she met last year's Halloween was an Aqua (that one wasn't controlling). But to be fair, the first Aqua was cheated on by his ex-gf so he's kinda paranoid coz of that.Posted by yupvirgouh I don't really like to be judgy but that prominent earth in me, frowns on women who have many flings.Posted by lisabethur8She's had many flings but the rare times she does get into a relationship- it's always with someone controlling. The first guy as she said and as I've witnessed controlled her comings and goings, who she's with, calls every hour of every day. I invited her to my birthday party and he wouldn't let her come coz "guys will be there." 10 months they lasted. Then this new guy is controlling the way she eats, the way she dresses, what she drinks and checks her phone every chance he gets. And every time she keeps calling me, complaining that she's being controlled. The one time she did date someone who wasn't controlling was another Aqua she met last year's Halloween party. They were really cute but she said he seemed detached lol.Posted by yupvirgogive an example, yupvirgo.
Why does my Aqua female friend keep dating controlling guys?
it just shows to me loose morals.
and the guy she's involved with doesn't sound like he trusts her either. it's good you keep friends with her.
and don't be surprised, there are very controlling aqua men out there.
Josh Brolin as an example was cruel to Diane Lane, (aqua sun/libra moon) she seems like a sweet woman but it didn't work for them.
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Posted by aquarius_beautyPosted by herlimbicmindThat's because Leos are vain like that. They don't like overweight people. That's why she thinks Aqua guy is like that.Posted by TheGreatSearcherPosted by herlimbicmind
On the whole, do you think weight is a factor in attractiveness to Aquarians? I have a friend who is convinced her weight is holding back a romance between she and an aqua male.
She's a leo.
It depends. If it's not a whole lot of weight and if the Aqua is tolerant enough, he wouldn't care as long as they have the chemistry. For aquas, the mental compatibility is the most important aspect in a relationship. The other stuff comes second.
For me, it can be a deal-breaker (though it probably has to do more with my taste than anything, really), I would never date a lady who isn't at least a little bit physically attractive. Take this paragraph with a grain of salt.
I can agree to that. She is healthy, eats really well, is really active and loves to hike and stuff, and takes care of herself. And she is a pretty lady.
She has a thyroid disorder that caused her gain a bunch of weight before they caught it and she struggles toose weight sense. Unfortunately, she let's the weight get to her head sometimes.
I told her the connection was a more mental connect for Aqua. But thanks for your inputher will share it with her.
Though everyone is different. Lol
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Posted by aquarius_beautyOh ok.Posted by SimplyBeinMeTrue but I think it also depends on their Mars and Venus. Mostly Venus.Posted by aquarius_beautyPosted by herlimbicmindThat's because Leos are vain like that. They don't like overweight people. That's why she thinks Aqua guy is like that.Posted by TheGreatSearcherPosted by herlimbicmind
On the whole, do you think weight is a factor in attractiveness to Aquarians? I have a friend who is convinced her weight is holding back a romance between she and an aqua male.
She's a leo.
It depends. If it's not a whole lot of weight and if the Aqua is tolerant enough, he wouldn't care as long as they have the chemistry. For aquas, the mental compatibility is the most important aspect in a relationship. The other stuff comes second.
For me, it can be a deal-breaker (though it probably has to do more with my taste than anything, really), I would never date a lady who isn't at least a little bit physically attractive. Take this paragraph with a grain of salt.
I can agree to that. She is healthy, eats really well, is really active and loves to hike and stuff, and takes care of herself. And she is a pretty lady.
She has a thyroid disorder that caused her gain a bunch of weight before they caught it and she struggles toose weight sense. Unfortunately, she let's the weight get to her head sometimes.
I told her the connection was a more mental connect for Aqua. But thanks for your inputher will share it with her.
Though everyone is different. Lol
But some Aquarius do think like that, one of my exes is an Aquarius and he has said plenty of time he wouldn't date an overweight female because he's not attracted to them. My brother on the otherhand is also an Aquarius and he's the opposite he only dates overweight women, I myself a Leo wouldn't date an overweight guy because I'm not attracted to them. But I wouldn't call it vanity, people just have a preference in what they like.
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Posted by aquarius_beautyMoon as well.Posted by SimplyBeinMeTrue but I think it also depends on their Mars and Venus. Mostly Venus.Posted by aquarius_beautyPosted by herlimbicmindThat's because Leos are vain like that. They don't like overweight people. That's why she thinks Aqua guy is like that.Posted by TheGreatSearcherPosted by herlimbicmind
On the whole, do you think weight is a factor in attractiveness to Aquarians? I have a friend who is convinced her weight is holding back a romance between she and an aqua male.
She's a leo.
It depends. If it's not a whole lot of weight and if the Aqua is tolerant enough, he wouldn't care as long as they have the chemistry. For aquas, the mental compatibility is the most important aspect in a relationship. The other stuff comes second.
For me, it can be a deal-breaker (though it probably has to do more with my taste than anything, really), I would never date a lady who isn't at least a little bit physically attractive. Take this paragraph with a grain of salt.
I can agree to that. She is healthy, eats really well, is really active and loves to hike and stuff, and takes care of herself. And she is a pretty lady.
She has a thyroid disorder that caused her gain a bunch of weight before they caught it and she struggles toose weight sense. Unfortunately, she let's the weight get to her head sometimes.
I told her the connection was a more mental connect for Aqua. But thanks for your inputher will share it with her.
Though everyone is different. Lol
But some Aquarius do think like that, one of my exes is an Aquarius and he has said plenty of time he wouldn't date an overweight female because he's not attracted to them. My brother on the otherhand is also an Aquarius and he's the opposite he only dates overweight women, I myself a Leo wouldn't date an overweight guy because I'm not attracted to them. But I wouldn't call it vanity, people just have a preference in what they like.
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Posted by lisabethur8Pisces.
what's your venus, OP?
does this describe you for a male?
Posted by TheGreatSearchermoon and venus for men. Neptune for marriage. All the feminine planets. They did a couple videos in Vedic, about Jupiter for marriage, for women but not in depth or the closer inspection BEYOND moon and venus for men. maybe the male astrologers who posted it "focused " more on the women's angle...Posted by lisabethur8Pisces.
what's your venus, OP?
does this describe you for a male?
Yes and no. I like unconditional love, but I think that my Sun, Moon and Mars are pretty much dictating my preferences in this area.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8I see.Posted by TheGreatSearchermoon and venus for men. Neptune for marriage. All the feminine planets. They did a couple videos in Vedic, about Jupiter for marriage, for women but not in depth or the closer inspection BEYOND moon and venus for men. maybe the male astrologers who posted it "focused " more on the women's angle...Posted by lisabethur8Pisces.
what's your venus, OP?
does this describe you for a male?
Yes and no. I like unconditional love, but I think that my Sun, Moon and Mars are pretty much dictating my preferences in this area.
sun and mars for women, Jupiter for marriage.
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Posted by AmethysstHow come so?
@thegreatsearcher
You're my astrology twin in male version. Trips me out..

Posted by AmethysstI might actually have Taurus rising tbh, though I'm not really sure.Posted by TheGreatSearcherAqua sunPosted by AmethysstHow come so?
@thegreatsearcher
You're my astrology twin in male version. Trips me out..
Aries moon
Pisces Venus
Gemini rising
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Posted by lisabethur8Yes a male. He seemed pretty shy and I'm no good with confrontations especially in a group setting. I know aquas tend to be comfortable in those sort of atmospheres where it takes the pressure off of them potentially being the center of attention (of course depending on the aqua). Whereas I prefer a tiny bit more intimate setting because I saw him at a family reunion/birthday party. He kept looking over at me unfortunately I didn't have the balls to go over and introduce myself. His family seemed to like me though which I think is a plus in aquas book if I'm not mistaken..?Posted by canceleo33for a male aqua right?
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Posted by canceleo33Posted by lisabethur8Yes a male. He seemed pretty shy and I'm no good with confrontations especially in a group setting. I know aquas tend to be comfortable in those sort of atmospheres where it takes the pressure off of them potentially being the center of attention (of course depending on the aqua). Whereas I prefer a tiny bit more intimate setting because I saw him at a family reunion/birthday party. He kept looking over at me unfortunately I didn't have the balls to go over and introduce myself. His family seemed to like me though which I think is a plus in aquas book if I'm not mistaken..?Posted by canceleo33for a male aqua right?
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Posted by TheGreatSearcherOk that's good. Aquas also like people who standout right? I think achieved that. Not only was I was dancing all night long when there wasn't anyone on the dancefloor, but I didn't get the memo that it was Hawaiian themed (that's where they are from) so I dressed like myself but again my style is pretty eclectic. Besides that there was one thing I found strange. I was standing on line for food and he had to use the bathroom. Instead of using his words to say excuse me he just like grabbed me and placed me somewhere else like an object ? Do you do this as well? Aquarians confuse me as a Cancer who loves to read people and their body languagePosted by canceleo33Posted by lisabethur8Yes a male. He seemed pretty shy and I'm no good with confrontations especially in a group setting. I know aquas tend to be comfortable in those sort of atmospheres where it takes the pressure off of them potentially being the center of attention (of course depending on the aqua). Whereas I prefer a tiny bit more intimate setting because I saw him at a family reunion/birthday party. He kept looking over at me unfortunately I didn't have the balls to go over and introduce myself. His family seemed to like me though which I think is a plus in aquas book if I'm not mistaken..?Posted by canceleo33for a male aqua right?
How would you as an aqua like to be approached by a female who knows of you through mutual family and friends?
Well, it is a good thing.
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Posted by canceleo33Posted by TheGreatSearcherOk that's good. Aquas also like people who standout right? I think achieved that. Not only was I was dancing all night long when there wasn't anyone on the dancefloor, but I didn't get the memo that it was Hawaiian themed (that's where they are from) so I dressed like myself but again my style is pretty eclectic. Besides that there was one thing I found strange. I was standing on line for food and he had to use the bathroom. Instead of using his words to say excuse me he just like grabbed me and placed me somewhere else like an object ? Do you do this as well? Aquarians confuse me as a Cancer who loves to read people and their body languagePosted by canceleo33Posted by lisabethur8Yes a male. He seemed pretty shy and I'm no good with confrontations especially in a group setting. I know aquas tend to be comfortable in those sort of atmospheres where it takes the pressure off of them potentially being the center of attention (of course depending on the aqua). Whereas I prefer a tiny bit more intimate setting because I saw him at a family reunion/birthday party. He kept looking over at me unfortunately I didn't have the balls to go over and introduce myself. His family seemed to like me though which I think is a plus in aquas book if I'm not mistaken..?Posted by canceleo33for a male aqua right?
How would you as an aqua like to be approached by a female who knows of you through mutual family and friends?
Well, it is a good thing.
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Posted by Londonelixer
I have a question relating to an Aquarius lady.
I made a post about it. The Aquarius lady I think is the one has told me she loves me, twice, both times I've said it back and she's told me she wants no one else that her and I are for life, and I've meant it.
We've hit a stumbling block, she's really ill, and just started in a very challenging successful new job which I know she wants. Something happened a month ago that has recently surfaced and was far more detrimental than I thought. I've said to her we should talk about it, in her own time and she said she does, and I don't want to push anything. She said one of the things she loves is I let her be her. Thing is I'm left in limbo or feel I am as she being very vague and wants to concentrate on work.
She hasn't said it's over, but when I asked if it's repairable she never replied. She's got a hectic day 2moro and I've apologised for what happened of what I can remember.
Is it best for me to leave her for a few days, get back in touch to see how she is, health wise, how work is? Or shall I just leave her until she might message. She's keeping me updated with how she's progressing, I just do not want to pressure her or jeopardise it further. I'm a gemini btw.
TIA if you can, suggest anything ??

Posted by Londonelixer
Of course. So we were out one month ago to this day, we were talking about lots of things, she hasn't said exactly what, her brother was really ill at one point and mine passed some time ago, but I think I may have been dismissive to her about that and maybe made her feel lucky, terrible I know I'm ashamed if I did, she said it wasn't just her brother I said a lot of things about a lot of things. And she didn't think I thought like that. That is all she's said.
But as she is concentrating on work she doesn't want to bring it up just right now, selfishly as she said. But she hasn't said we're over.

Posted by Londonelixer
Exactly what I was thinking was the best course. I want her to want me not snarl when she sees my name on the phone. I'll need your advice, thank you!
She knows how much I care for her so I shouldn't be concerned too much of her timing I don't care anymore or lost interest?

Posted by herlimbicmindDepends on the aqua male and just how much weight, if shes curvy they'll dig it, especially if she carries herself well and has an attractive brain. Aqua men love smart women, but always start as friends, thats how you get to them best. They like the unusual, so if she carries herself well and can hypnosis them with cool topics she's got a foot in the door.
On the whole, do you think weight is a factor in attractiveness to Aquarians? I have a friend who is convinced her weight is holding back a romance between she and an aqua male.
She's a leo.

Posted by canceleo33Posted by TheGreatSearcherOk that's good. Aquas also like people who standout right? I think achieved that. Not only was I was dancing all night long when there wasn't anyone on the dancefloor, but I didn't get the memo that it was Hawaiian themed (that's where they are from) so I dressed like myself but again my style is pretty eclectic. Besides that there was one thing I found strange. I was standing on line for food and he had to use the bathroom. Instead of using his words to say excuse me he just like grabbed me and placed me somewhere else like an object ? Do you do this as well? Aquarians confuse me as a Cancer who loves to read people and their body languagePosted by canceleo33Posted by lisabethur8Yes a male. He seemed pretty shy and I'm no good with confrontations especially in a group setting. I know aquas tend to be comfortable in those sort of atmospheres where it takes the pressure off of them potentially being the center of attention (of course depending on the aqua). Whereas I prefer a tiny bit more intimate setting because I saw him at a family reunion/birthday party. He kept looking over at me unfortunately I didn't have the balls to go over and introduce myself. His family seemed to like me though which I think is a plus in aquas book if I'm not mistaken..?Posted by canceleo33for a male aqua right?
How would you as an aqua like to be approached by a female who knows of you through mutual family and friends?
Well, it is a good thing.
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