Ask an Aquarius! (Page 2)

Posted by Londonelixer
I guess this isn't just a an Aqua question, but given my current situation.

What would you make of selfies being uploaded by someone being very distant with you. Though not deleting the ones of you on there and things are still standing as they were with no real improvement or nothing going backwards .... my friend said let her come to come, and if she don't?

Am I'm reading far to much into this matter and just need to give her space and for me to calm the fuck down!!

It's annoying not knowing what the fuck was said. I'm beginning to lose patience if I'm honest.

Give her space and calm down a bit. Take things slow. If you are really interested in her, don't just waste your chances.

No you're right, 100% .

I do, a hell of a lot. I guess I'd prefer to talk about an issue but everyone is different, I have to understand that.

As us Londoners say "Keep calm" ...

Posted by Londonelixer
No you're right, 100% .

I do, a hell of a lot. I guess I'd prefer to talk about an issue but everyone is different, I have to understand that.

As us Londoners say "Keep calm" ...

Well, I hope it worked out.

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How would you as an aqua like to be approached by a female who knows of you through mutual family and friends?

for a male aqua right?

Yes a male. He seemed pretty shy and I'm no good with confrontations especially in a group setting. I know aquas tend to be comfortable in those sort of atmospheres where it takes the pressure off of them potentially being the center of attention (of course depending on the aqua). Whereas I prefer a tiny bit more intimate setting because I saw him at a family reunion/birthday party. He kept looking over at me unfortunately I didn't have the balls to go over and introduce myself. His family seemed to like me though which I think is a plus in aquas book if I'm not mistaken..?

Well, it is a good thing.

Ok that's good. Aquas also like people who standout right? I think achieved that. Not only was I was dancing all night long when there wasn't anyone on the dancefloor, but I didn't get the memo that it was Hawaiian themed (that's where they are from) so I dressed like myself but again my style is pretty eclectic. Besides that there was one thing I found strange. I was standing on line for food and he had to use the bathroom. Instead of using his words to say excuse me he just like grabbed me and placed me somewhere else like an object ? Do you do this as well? Aquarians confuse me as a Cancer who loves to read people and their body language

This made me smile,i dont know if other aqua do this but i do it a lot,i dont speak i just do things that shock or leave a person puzzled for the way i did something like when i hear a friend that she is so sleepy she wants a coffee i dont ask i will just make you a coffee then give it to you without speaking,when a friend say that she has a hedache im just going to prompt you to come closer and massage your head,i did this with one of my friend who is a virgo the look on her face while i massage her head was priceless lol,im more of an action type of person i just do it without asking or speaking sometimes

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I mean I'm the same way since my mercury is in Leo so I'm a doer than a sayer (definitely a fixed sign thing) but for me it only applies, to as you said, a response to something that someone asks of me. When it comes to strangers and manners I use my words lol. But Aquarius sees it all the same whether it be stranger or family is what you are saying?

Would you get drunk with me and let me crash at your house?

Posted by Solesan
Would you get drunk with me and let me crash at your house?

As long as my fam's not around, sure. Just keep it all tidy.

We've dated for 3 years now. He's told me he loves me before, but...

Me: I think I fell even more in love with you today.

Him: you are too kind.



What? Please help.

how can I deepen my relationship with an aqua man I've been sexually intimate with from afar? We really hit it off when we met / got involved but We live in different towns and he's expressed he doesn't want to do the long distance thing.. my heart and my gut says he still has feelings! He pulled the disappearing act and I left him for 2 weeks before deciding to msg just to chat. Convo was good, but I can tell he's holding back. How should I proceed? How do I break down or at least better understand these walls.

I'm an Aries *seeatdrop* complete opposite emotionally, so god knows I need the help!!!

Posted by pennystealing123
We've dated for 3 years now. He's told me he loves me before, but...

Me: I think I fell even more in love with you today.

Him: you are too kind.



What? Please help.

Aquas are usually focused on the bigger picture. We can sometimes be very puzzling and unpredictable at times.

He knows what you think of him, the last sentence was basically him not knowing how to react. Take him for what he is. Aquas tend to avoid emotional reactions.

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Posted by pennystealing123
We've dated for 3 years now. He's told me he loves me before, but...

Me: I think I fell even more in love with you today.

Him: you are too kind.



What? Please help.

Aquas are usually focused on the bigger picture. We can sometimes be very puzzling and unpredictable at times.

He knows what you think of him, the last sentence was basically him not knowing how to react. Take him for what he is. Aquas tend to avoid emotional reactions.

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how would you know what he thinks? 😕

are you putting yourself in his shoes then?



you know my husband who has NO AIR, says "Thank you" when I tell him I love him lots.

are you gonna say that's because he's avoiding emotional reaction?

(he is a bit of a jokester though)

Posted by childoftheram
how can I deepen my relationship with an aqua man I've been sexually intimate with from afar? We really hit it off when we met / got involved but We live in different towns and he's expressed he doesn't want to do the long distance thing.. my heart and my gut says he still has feelings! He pulled the disappearing act and I left him for 2 weeks before deciding to msg just to chat. Convo was good, but I can tell he's holding back. How should I proceed? How do I break down or at least better understand these walls.

I'm an Aries *seeatdrop* complete opposite emotionally, so god knows I need the help!!!

he's not ready for a relationship.

if any man disappears, they are just NOT ready for anything. they wanna have fun with life because being a relationship is serious business. That means he has to be monogamous, think of responsibilities and taking care of you and him, and making money and doing the boring working day and day out and maybe have children.

with no obligations of responsibilities of being in a relationship he doesn't want to DEAL with it.

that's what I get with all of these types of guys. they DISAPPEAR because they just can't deal.

I mean what else is it??

*shrug*

they want to remain in boyland, peter pan syndrome.

Posted by ChoXtsy
What do you like/dislike about libra women?

Likes:

-Appearance

-Communication skills

-The ability to understand a troubled invidual like me

-Friendliness

-Solid company

-Reliable

-The ability to listen

Dislikes:

-Low standards/changes partners like bed sheets (might depend on external conditions)

-They can sometimes turn into goblins who spew nonsense and annoy the living crap out of someone like me

Is it common for Aqua women to get comfortable with you so fast? Like my gf. It's only been a month and when she comes over to my house. I cook her something. I like to cook for women. 😉 But instead of just hanging around the kitchen and chat. She gets involved with it. Not that I mind it.

Posted by Vulcansfire
Is it common for Aqua women to get comfortable with you so fast? Like my gf. It's only been a month and when she comes over to my house. I cook her something. I like to cook for women. 😉 But instead of just hanging around the kitchen and chat. She gets involved with it. Not that I mind it.

I help my wife sometimes. Even if it is a special dinner. I think it is more fun that way instead of sitting at the table or living room waiting.

What kind of gifts do you guys like or appreciate?

Thanks in advance for answering my qns??

Posted by Mirahiheart
What kind of gifts do you guys like or appreciate?

Thanks in advance for answering my qns??

Gift cards, anything unexpected. Aquas love surprises and usually expect to be surprised by the stuff they get, so try to find something that is both a gift and a surprise.

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Posted by Mirahiheart
What kind of gifts do you guys like or appreciate?

Thanks in advance for answering my qns??

Gift cards, anything unexpected. Aquas love surprises and usually expect to be surprised by the stuff they get, so try to find something that is both a gift and a surprise.

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hm I don't really like surprises.

I read that aquarius likes to surprise/shock,

but I don't honestly like that from other people doing it to me.

I don't like to get gifts out of the blue either.

my husband does come home and the surprise he will sometimes do, is he has a box of chocolates he got from work, and he brought it home for me. or that he got a gift package from a job well done, and he will bring that home to me. He brings home that kind of stuff for me. So I guess that is a surprise, but it's not weird stuff. so I like it.

my husband doesn't like surprises either. lol so we are very similar.

we went out to eat, and got treated by mother in law to go out to eat at a nice, decent restaurant.

we usually cook for her so she wanted to take us out to eat, since she's been busy all week and hasn't spent too much time with us. and she took us to his really strange restaurant, with weird food. lol

we (me and hubby) don't like the food, it's so strange and not good. but the desserts are delicioius.

my husband said to me, after going out, "Never ever going there again"



lol

I don't blame him. yuck.

but I said, if we're around there, downtown, and we want coffee and dessert, fine. I really like the desserts.

great tiramisu and delicious cakes.

Posted by Vulcansfire
Is it common for Aqua women to get comfortable with you so fast? Like my gf. It's only been a month and when she comes over to my house. I cook her something. I like to cook for women. 😉 But instead of just hanging around the kitchen and chat. She gets involved with it. Not that I mind it.

that's good right? she wants to help you.

I honestly don't like anyone bothering me in the kitchen.

if my husband gets a wild hair up his butt, and wants to make something he will NOT want me in the kitchen either. We're not good with working together. lol we like to do things individually. we're extremely individualistic that way.

but I used to work in a restaurant years ago, and I worked fine with other people. and taking orders, which is fine.

I would say, to a certain extent, that he's SIMILAR to Gordon Ramsey.

I was watching some Jamie Oliver shows, and I don't think my husband is like him in the cookin department. He's totally different.

Definitely, much more Gordon Ramsey, in that he stresses out a lot, and gets pissed off if everything is NOT perfect.

see??



I watched Jamie Oliver, Anthony Bourdain and even all the Masterchef's in Austrailia (we used to watch that show)

and none of these chefs even resemble my hubby in the kitchen....they are TOO kind.

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there are some slight differences, but gosh Gordon Ramsey is already Scorpio and Virgo dominant. But my hubbykins is not Gemini dominant. Which Mister Ramsey is....

my husband will be kind of kind....nice, but if he's management or in CHARGE, he will get PISSED off at the incompetence. lol but he will keep it in....and keep it in.....which will stress him greatly.

he already stresses out with people at work.

oh wow, Anthony Bourdain is a Cancer sun/Aquarius moon,

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Anthony_Bourdain



pisces mars, Gemini venus.



I notice there's a lot of Gemini influence in the kitchen, for men.

it's like they NEED multiple air, or multiple decision making helping skills, to get them around the kitchen.

which will help greatly I think.

or even mutable dominant, like Nigella Lawson....she is Sag dominant despite her Cap sun/Aries moon.



http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Nigella_Lawson



it's as if that's gonna save your life in the kitchen, to MOVE around easily.

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Posted by Mirahiheart
What kind of gifts do you guys like or appreciate?

Thanks in advance for answering my qns??

Gift cards, anything unexpected. Aquas love surprises and usually expect to be surprised by the stuff they get, so try to find something that is both a gift and a surprise.

hm I don't really like surprises.

I read that aquarius likes to surprise/shock,

but I don't honestly like that from other people doing it to me.

I don't like to get gifts out of the blue either.

my husband does come home and the surprise he will sometimes do, is he has a box of chocolates he got from work, and he brought it home for me. or that he got a gift package from a job well done, and he will bring that home to me. He brings home that kind of stuff for me. So I guess that is a surprise, but it's not weird stuff. so I like it.

my husband doesn't like surprises either. lol so we are very similar.

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Are you even an aqua?

Sorry one more question!—?

What would make an Aquarius know that person is the one for them ,the one you would want to spend your life with which will ultimately led to marriage ?

- Other than just relying on feeling since that feeling can disappear anytime etc.i feel a spark with them .

- Physical/mental attributes

- Does their career and income matter?

- Family relationships

Posted by Mirahiheart
Sorry one more question!—?

What would make an Aquarius know that person is the one for them ,the one you would want to spend your life with which will ultimately led to marriage ?

- Other than just relying on feeling since that feeling can disappear anytime etc.i feel a spark with them .

- Physical/mental attributes

- Does their career and income matter?

- Family relationships

I think Aquas are looking for a companion or a best friend, most likely someone that they have good chemistry/mental compatibility. Most of the stuff comes second. Aquas are some of those people who like different or interesting individuals, someone who they like not only for how they look on the outside, but also for what's inside. Aquas can be very hesitant about marriage (they like freedom, after all), but if you manage to hook one well enough, it should be good. Personally speaking, I think that Aquas don't pay much attention to career and/or income of people who they want to be in a relationship with, but Aquas themselves tend to sacrifice family for a career.

I think that Aquas will usually observe the person they like, see what the other person does, how they act and if Aqua likes that person, they can act very awkward or even shy around that person. I mean, I can't even look into eyes of girls who I like! If Aqua sees that you aren't taken and feels like you are the kind of a person he would like to be in a relationship with, he might give some hints, but otherwise he will always act as usual - in fact, I think Aquas are some of those people who prefer being chased than chasing.

I'm most likely a rather picky person, but so far I have met really only 2 ladies who I like more than anyone else (though that might have to deal with my age), but this isn't always the case. As far as physical/mental attributes go, I like good-looking ladies who have chemistry with me, not walking dolls or shallow ladies. There isn't too much I'm asking for, but at the same time, I want to have some kind of physical attraction (might have to deal with my taste and other things). What's the point of me dating an overweight and an unattractive person who might get around well with me, if I could be dating a hottie in the meantime? I don't have too high physical standards, but I have high mental/chemistry standards. I love a genuine personality!

I honestly don't pay much attention to family backgrounds and/or ties, but will pay attention if the other individual says something important about their family. There are some things which make me rather worried about other people's ties to their families (I mean, how the hell am I supposed to tell if one's family members can access the phone of a person who I'm exchanging messages with?), but these aren't something that I devote too much of my thinking time to.

Hope this helped, I totally didn't spend 30 minutes writing this.

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Posted by Mirahiheart
Sorry one more question!—?

What would make an Aquarius know that person is the one for them ,the one you would want to spend your life with which will ultimately led to marriage ?

- Other than just relying on feeling since that feeling can disappear anytime etc.i feel a spark with them .

- Physical/mental attributes

- Does their career and income matter?

- Family relationships

I think Aquas are looking for a companion or a best friend, most likely someone that they have good chemistry/mental compatibility. Most of the stuff comes second. Aquas are some of those people who like different or interesting individuals, someone who they like not only for how they look on the outside, but also for what's inside. Aquas can be very hesitant about marriage (they like freedom, after all), but if you manage to hook one well enough, it should be good. Personally speaking, I think that Aquas don't pay much attention to career and/or income of people who they want to be in a relationship with, but Aquas themselves tend to sacrifice family for a career.

I think that Aquas will usually observe the person they like, see what the other person does, how they act and if Aqua likes that person, they can act very awkward or even shy around that person. I mean, I can't even look into eyes of girls who I like! If Aqua sees that you aren't taken and feels like you are the kind of a person he would like to be in a relationship with, he might give some hints, but otherwise he will always act as usual - in fact, I think Aquas are some of those people who prefer being chased than chasing.

I'm most likely a rather picky person, but so far I have met really only 2 ladies who I like more than anyone else (though that might have to deal with my age), but this isn't always the case. As far as physical/mental attributes go, I like good-looking ladies who have chemistry with me, not walking dolls or shallow ladies. There isn't too much I'm asking for, but at the same time, I want to have some kind of physical attraction (might have to deal with my taste and other things). What's the point of me dating an overweight and an unattractive person who might get around well with me, if I could be dating a hottie in the meantime? I don't have too high physical standards, but I have high mental/chemistry standards. I love a genuine personality!

I honestly don't pay much attention to family backgrounds and/or ties, but will pay attention if the other individual says something important about their family. There are some things which make me rather worried about other people's ties to their families (I mean, how the hell am I supposed to tell if one's family members can access the phone of a person who I'm exchanging messages with?), but these aren't something that I devote too much of my thinking time to.

Hope this helped, I totally didn't spend 30 minutes writing this.

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that's true about i don't care what career the man does. i just want to fall in love and if i feel he is my TRUE LOVE and i feel it, and he loves me the we are gonna live together and love eachother.

my sisters and auntys were talking about this.....about women who are always asking what a man does for a living. (i remember mentioning this in another topic)

and those types of women we notice always does really badly in life, financially. the IRONY.

because they focus too much on what a man make, your HEART is not into it, and you are gonna be miserable.

well i don't know....i know that i married my first husband and he had nothing. he had NO JOB either, so we just wanted to marry and live together. i was still going to school too.

even living the trailer home life, simple and less worry about money and living off the grid....

it's heavenly for many.



i just want my coffee maker and coffee..







in the early days of being POOR, we didn't have a coffee maker.

i had to boil water, and filter the coffee to make coffee and i had cheap coffee where you buy it in bulk.

we was POOR.

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having a coffee maker is LUXURIOUS to me.

If a lover requested taking a break from the relationship, how would Aqua respond?

The lover is still in love with Aqua, but confused and frustrated by the lack of attention they have been getting. The aqua is aware of the feeling lack of attention, but feels he gives enough attention when he can.

(Ps I'm thinking of taking a 2 month long break from my Aqua because he will be really busy until after Valentine's Day. Don't want the expectations.)

Posted by pennystealing123
If a lover requested taking a break from the relationship, how would Aqua respond?

The lover is still in love with Aqua, but confused and frustrated by the lack of attention they have been getting. The aqua is aware of the feeling lack of attention, but feels he gives enough attention when he can.

(Ps I'm thinking of taking a 2 month long break from my Aqua because he will be really busy until after Valentine's Day. Don't want the expectations.)

If the Aqua is really into you, that might not end well. If it's something like fwb or nothing serious, there should not be any bad consequences unless the guy is emotionally attached.

This can very much depend on the person, some Aquas will simply no longer care in case of a prolonged break and will instead move on to another partner.

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Posted by pennystealing123
If a lover requested taking a break from the relationship, how would Aqua respond?

The lover is still in love with Aqua, but confused and frustrated by the lack of attention they have been getting. The aqua is aware of the feeling lack of attention, but feels he gives enough attention when he can.

(Ps I'm thinking of taking a 2 month long break from my Aqua because he will be really busy until after Valentine's Day. Don't want the expectations.)

If the Aqua is really into you, that might not end well. If it's something like fwb or nothing serious, there should not be any bad consequences unless the guy is emotionally attached.

This can very much depend on the person, some Aquas will simply no longer care in case of a prolonged break and will instead move on to another partner.

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Well he is emotionally attached to me. He just doesn't have time for me like I need. He gives me what he thinks he can and it's not really enough for me. I know I will get the bare minimum these next two months because of holidays. So, am I supposed to wait for him to have time?

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Posted by pennystealing123
If a lover requested taking a break from the relationship, how would Aqua respond?

The lover is still in love with Aqua, but confused and frustrated by the lack of attention they have been getting. The aqua is aware of the feeling lack of attention, but feels he gives enough attention when he can.

(Ps I'm thinking of taking a 2 month long break from my Aqua because he will be really busy until after Valentine's Day. Don't want the expectations.)

If the Aqua is really into you, that might not end well. If it's something like fwb or nothing serious, there should not be any bad consequences unless the guy is emotionally attached.

This can very much depend on the person, some Aquas will simply no longer care in case of a prolonged break and will instead move on to another partner.

Well he is emotionally attached to me. He just doesn't have time for me like I need. He gives me what he thinks he can and it's not really enough for me. I know I will get the bare minimum these next two months because of holidays. So, am I supposed to wait for him to have time?

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Well, I guess you should give him time. But keep in touch, remind him that you are still there.

Hi, need help here, guys!

I'm a leo woman in an on- off relationship with an aqua guy. It's been hard. And it takes a lot of affort on my side to make it work. He has been through a messy divorce and was left with a lot of trust issues. Since his divorce he hasn't dated anyone for 4 yrs until we got together.

I still am not sure, after a year of being in a relationship with him, if there is a future here.

What I'm looking for is a cheat sheet from an actual aqua guy on what they want/ need in a relationship i.e. loyalty, warmth ect. The pure basics. Tnx