bipolar when it comes to love....?

im heavily affected by the aquarius in my chart to the point where im 70% aquarian and 30% gemini(an) LOL anyway...i've always liked someone and it was always and only skin-deep....but then i met this guy and he was in love with me but i was only attracted to him....*fast forward* we are in love with each other. Frankly, sometimes i feel practically nothing for him Usually/mostly hes ALL i think about. Why does that happen? Like i know for a fact that this guy is the love of my life but sometimes.....i feel like all my emotions for him are "BLEH" and i start thinking "eh...i dont love him" then 10 mins later hes all i want and i start feeling passionately in love with him (it doesnt rlly matter if hes physically close to me or not, i feel detached either way). By now im pretty sure ive lost it 😢 HELP?

You've got intimacy issues. I say that b/c I highly doubt the issue is him

I think that it's possible to primarily like someone on a superficial level but to also have peaks/times when the love seems to sink deeper. The reason though that it always comes back up to the surface (superficial level) is b/c there are intimacy issues within you that are stopping the depth of love for him from being consistent & on going

Posted by krysrenee7
You've got intimacy issues. I say that b/c I highly doubt the issue is him

I think that it's possible to primarily like someone on a superficial level but to also have peaks/times when the love seems to sink deeper. The reason though that it always comes back up to the surface (superficial level) is b/c there are intimacy issues within you that are stopping the depth of love for him from being consistent & on going

Agree

I came on here today to state the same issue. I am messing with my own head and am considering going on some anti-anxiety meds just because I can't figure this out. I love this guy. He and I would go to the end of the world together. However, sometimes I feel as though we aren't right for each other. I want to show him all my love and show him how much I care about him but it is seemingly deemed impossible. and I can tell he wishes I would show more but he doesn't either so you see where we're stuck?.

I would say just stick through it and if you need to see some therapy don't hesitate it doesn't make you less of a person. We all need some anonymous to vent to who will not judge...there are so many things from our childhood that need to be released.