Scorpgurl
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Posted by ScorpgurlOh man, jealous friend (to him) and secret admirer (to you). Keep doing what you're doing. Your guy sounds like the type that will put his friend in place. Your guy probably already knows how his friend can get, hence the "no, fuck off comment". Sounds like a keeper!
Alright I couldn't think of a better way to title this thread lol
I am a little concerned about my boyfriend's best friend. I'm not sure if this guy likes/wants me around. They both game together alot and I am totally fine with this. I knew my boyfriend had this little hobby with his friend....hell I even bought a specific gamers keyboard for my man for xmas to enhance the whole gaming thing.
He said his friend is jealous that he got that for xmas and although my man seems "happy" he's jealous....it unsettles me a little.
On valentines day my boyfriend and I were spending time together when his friend called him. They spoke for a little while then I heard his friend ask him to go over to his place and play games. My boyfriend said he was with me for the day/night and I heard his friend yell "FUCK HER!" ...my boyfriend replied "no, fuck off" ...and now its got me really thinking if this guy actually hates me.
My boyfriend says he doesn't, that he doesn't know me well enough to hate me but that doesn't comfort me at all. I am not interfering at all in their friendship. I let them play their games/do guy stuff...but I feel there is a hostility.
His friend has a girlfriend, so its not like hes on his own and wants his friend around. He's a leo if that helps.
Should I just let this go or express my concern to my boyfriend about this?

Posted by ListenlearnteachSecret admirer? To me? That's the cause for his rudeness? LololPosted by ScorpgurlOh man, jealous friend (to him) and secret admirer (to you). Keep doing what you're doing. Your guy sounds like the type that will put his friend in place. Your guy probably already knows how his friend can get, hence the "no, fuck off comment". Sounds like a keeper!
Alright I couldn't think of a better way to title this thread lol
I am a little concerned about my boyfriend's best friend. I'm not sure if this guy likes/wants me around. They both game together alot and I am totally fine with this. I knew my boyfriend had this little hobby with his friend....hell I even bought a specific gamers keyboard for my man for xmas to enhance the whole gaming thing.
He said his friend is jealous that he got that for xmas and although my man seems "happy" he's jealous....it unsettles me a little.
On valentines day my boyfriend and I were spending time together when his friend called him. They spoke for a little while then I heard his friend ask him to go over to his place and play games. My boyfriend said he was with me for the day/night and I heard his friend yell "FUCK HER!" ...my boyfriend replied "no, fuck off" ...and now its got me really thinking if this guy actually hates me.
My boyfriend says he doesn't, that he doesn't know me well enough to hate me but that doesn't comfort me at all. I am not interfering at all in their friendship. I let them play their games/do guy stuff...but I feel there is a hostility.
His friend has a girlfriend, so its not like hes on his own and wants his friend around. He's a leo if that helps.
Should I just let this go or express my concern to my boyfriend about this?click to expand

Posted by ListenlearnteachThis.Posted by ScorpgurlOh man, jealous friend (to him) and secret admirer (to you). Keep doing what you're doing. Your guy sounds like the type that will put his friend in place. Your guy probably already knows how his friend can get, hence the "no, fuck off comment". Sounds like a keeper!
Alright I couldn't think of a better way to title this thread lol
I am a little concerned about my boyfriend's best friend. I'm not sure if this guy likes/wants me around. They both game together alot and I am totally fine with this. I knew my boyfriend had this little hobby with his friend....hell I even bought a specific gamers keyboard for my man for xmas to enhance the whole gaming thing.
He said his friend is jealous that he got that for xmas and although my man seems "happy" he's jealous....it unsettles me a little.
On valentines day my boyfriend and I were spending time together when his friend called him. They spoke for a little while then I heard his friend ask him to go over to his place and play games. My boyfriend said he was with me for the day/night and I heard his friend yell "FUCK HER!" ...my boyfriend replied "no, fuck off" ...and now its got me really thinking if this guy actually hates me.
My boyfriend says he doesn't, that he doesn't know me well enough to hate me but that doesn't comfort me at all. I am not interfering at all in their friendship. I let them play their games/do guy stuff...but I feel there is a hostility.
His friend has a girlfriend, so its not like hes on his own and wants his friend around. He's a leo if that helps.
Should I just let this go or express my concern to my boyfriend about this?click to expand

Posted by ScorpgurlCase and point! His gf didn't accept him the the way you accept you guy. Again, keep doing what you're doing. Point blank, your bfs friend is jealous. Pay it no mind. I applaud you!Posted by ListenlearnteachSecret admirer? To me? That's the cause for his rudeness? LololPosted by ScorpgurlOh man, jealous friend (to him) and secret admirer (to you). Keep doing what you're doing. Your guy sounds like the type that will put his friend in place. Your guy probably already knows how his friend can get, hence the "no, fuck off comment". Sounds like a keeper!
Alright I couldn't think of a better way to title this thread lol
I am a little concerned about my boyfriend's best friend. I'm not sure if this guy likes/wants me around. They both game together alot and I am totally fine with this. I knew my boyfriend had this little hobby with his friend....hell I even bought a specific gamers keyboard for my man for xmas to enhance the whole gaming thing.
He said his friend is jealous that he got that for xmas and although my man seems "happy" he's jealous....it unsettles me a little.
On valentines day my boyfriend and I were spending time together when his friend called him. They spoke for a little while then I heard his friend asAgain, kee to go over to his place and play games. My boyfriend said he was with me for the day/night and I heard his friend yell "FUCK HER!" ...my boyfriend replied "no, fuck off" ...and now its got me really thinking if this guy actually hates me.
My boyfriend says he doesn't, that he doesn't know me well enough to hate me but that doesn't comfort me at all. I am not interfering at all in their friendship. I let them play their games/do guy stuff...but I feel there is a hostility.
His friend has a girlfriend, so its not like hes on his own and wants his friend around. He's a leo if that helps.
Should I just let this go or express my concern to my boyfriend about this?
Shouldn't he realize that me not acting like a drama queen over their gaming is a good thing? My boyfriend told me a while ago that his friends girlfriend didnt always like it and they had even broke up over it before (they are back together now)
But obviously my boyfriend knows other sides to his friend. Back when it became known my man and I were together, his friend said we could all go on "double dates"...but it was my boyfriend who didn't want this.
This was way before xmas so he wasn't acting the way he is now with me...which is the rudness I explained.
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Posted by sultrykittyI am the first girl my man has had around for a while...so I think this friend of his had got use to having my boyfriends company/attention when HE wanted it.
Sounds like maybe the friend is stuck in a "bros before hoes" mindset. Probably your guy hasn't had a serious gf before (or recently)? My guess is it's jealousy, pure and simple.
Don't get involved, let the two of them duke it out. Because it WILL happen if this friend doesn't get the hint and you don't want to be anywhere that makes ot even look like you had anything to do with it.

Posted by ScorpgurlLeo problems, yes.Posted by sultrykittyI am the first girl my man has had around for a while...so I think this friend of his had got use to having my boyfriends company/attention when HE wanted it.
Sounds like maybe the friend is stuck in a "bros before hoes" mindset. Probably your guy hasn't had a serious gf before (or recently)? My guess is it's jealousy, pure and simple.
Don't get involved, let the two of them duke it out. Because it WILL happen if this friend doesn't get the hint and you don't want to be anywhere that makes ot even look like you had anything to do with it.click to expand



Posted by Scorpgurl
Thats an idea but do I need to do something for this guy at all? I mean, I am not "hogging" my boyfriend. I am basically "sharing" him. That is SOMETHING hahaha!
Does he need to feel included or something? Initally the movie voucher I got for my boyfriend WAS for him and his friend. I had no idea it was both couples (which didn't happen anyway. He went with his girl, my man came with me)
Obviously there is an angle im not seeing. Maybe my boyfriend is favouring seeing me over his friend and his friend is feeling it.



Posted by sultrykittyExactly. HIs friend is actually immature.
Sounds like maybe the friend is stuck in a "bros before hoes" mindset. Probably your guy hasn't had a serious gf before (or recently)? My guess is it's jealousy, pure and simple.
Don't get involved, let the two of them duke it out. Because it WILL happen if this friend doesn't get the hint and you don't want to be anywhere that makes ot even look like you had anything to do with it.
Posted by Scorpgurlthat is STRANGE....what kind of man has that KIND of friend?? 😕 i mean....taking liberties by telling him to "FUCK HER""?? He sounds like a whiny little brother who didnt get attention from the older brother and is resentful of his older brother's relationship with the new woman.
Alright I couldn't think of a better way to title this thread lol
I am a little concerned about my boyfriend's best friend. I'm not sure if this guy likes/wants me around. They both game together alot and I am totally fine with this. I knew my boyfriend had this little hobby with his friend....hell I even bought a specific gamers keyboard for my man for xmas to enhance the whole gaming thing.
He said his friend is jealous that he got that for xmas and although my man seems "happy" he's jealous....it unsettles me a little.
On valentines day my boyfriend and I were spending time together when his friend called him. They spoke for a little while then I heard his friend ask him to go over to his place and play games. My boyfriend said he was with me for the day/night and I heard his friend yell "FUCK HER!" ...my boyfriend replied "no, fuck off" ...and now its got me really thinking if this guy actually hates me.
My boyfriend says he doesn't, that he doesn't know me well enough to hate me but that doesn't comfort me at all. I am not interfering at all in their friendship. I let them play their games/do guy stuff...but I feel there is a hostility.
His friend has a girlfriend, so its not like hes on his own and wants his friend around. He's a leo if that helps.
Should I just let this go or express my concern to my boyfriend about this?
Posted by Scorpgurlit does.
Just to add onto that last part, later on that night when my boyfriend came to my place...I asked him what was wrong with his friend. He replied "oh hes always like that"
This sounds to me like my boyfriend just "takes" his moods/crap.
Posted by lisabethur8Trust me, people joke about this. Calling their gaming nights "dates" and everything.Posted by Scorpgurlit does.
Just to add onto that last part, later on that night when my boyfriend came to my place...I asked him what was wrong with his friend. He replied "oh hes always like that"
This sounds to me like my boyfriend just "takes" his moods/crap.
O_O
like, no offense, but it sounds like his guy friend is a boyfriend.
EDIT and you're the 3rd wheel.click to expand
Posted by Scorpgurlyour guy is very passive and caters to him it sounds.Posted by lisabethur8Trust me, people joke about this. Calling their gaming nights "dates" and everything.Posted by Scorpgurlit does.
Just to add onto that last part, later on that night when my boyfriend came to my place...I asked him what was wrong with his friend. He replied "oh hes always like that"
This sounds to me like my boyfriend just "takes" his moods/crap.
O_O
like, no offense, but it sounds like his guy friend is a boyfriend.
EDIT and you're the 3rd wheel.click to expand
Posted by Scorpgurllol it doesn't sound like it.
Well great
My boyfriend is leo influenced so shouldn't he be able to stand up to him?
Posted by Scorpgurlsounds very immature to be honest.
Aqua sun
Leo moon
Mars aries
Mercury aqua
Venus aries
Thats the mains anyway.
One of my friends (who is a leo herself) thinks his friend is jealous over my boyfriends overall success and she means in petty ways. Jealous that hes got a girlfriend whom he thinks is "hot" while he has an "average" looking girl..jealous that im accepting or whatever.
She knows they are ridiculous reasons but apparently its what "immature leos" can be pissed about.
I'm hoping shes wrong. He should be happy for my boyfriend cause he went so long not having luck with girls. They even one year joked about this fact for xmas by buying him a box of condoms (cause he wasn't having sex)
Posted by Scorpgurlthis part you wrote
Who wants what they can't have?

Posted by Scorpgurlyou mean the leo??
I did wonder why he wasnt doing anything with his woman for valentines day. They LIVE TOGETHER for god sakes.
Posted by FloHahahahaha! !! This is actually true!Posted by KoniuchaIt seems like every dude has that one attached creepy friend lolPosted by FloAnd yes, talk to your bf about this.
What a freak of nature Lol 😆
OP, you gotta confront your man about this. Pull him aside and seriously talk to him.click to expand

Posted by GuardianAnuThis is good advice.
I think I know a way you can at least get this guy to cool off and appreciate you a bit, just come up with a plan where you can get the two of them together and treat them both to something you know they both love doing together, especially his friend.... whether it be a movie or whatever, but pay for both of them or arrange something for both of them to do together without you there.
Be sure the friend knows it was your idea and he is there to hear it. Maybe use this upcoming easter as an excuse for a "gift" they can share/do together and that gives you time to come up with something or save up a bit of money for it. It doesn't have to be huge. I am sure you can think of something.
If he doesn't warm up to you after that, I don't know what else will.

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I am a little concerned about my boyfriend's best friend. I'm not sure if this guy likes/wants me around. They both game together alot and I am totally fine with this. I knew my boyfriend had this little hobby with his friend....hell I even bought a specific gamers keyboard for my man for xmas to enhance the whole gaming thing.
He said his friend is jealous that he got that for xmas and although my man seems "happy" he's jealous....it unsettles me a little.
On valentines day my boyfriend and I were spending time together when his friend called him. They spoke for a little while then I heard his friend ask him to go over to his place and play games. My boyfriend said he was with me for the day/night and I heard his friend yell "FUCK HER!" ...my boyfriend replied "no, fuck off" ...and now its got me really thinking if this guy actually hates me.
My boyfriend says he doesn't, that he doesn't know me well enough to hate me but that doesn't comfort me at all. I am not interfering at all in their friendship. I let them play their games/do guy stuff...but I feel there is a hostility.
His friend has a girlfriend, so its not like hes on his own and wants his friend around. He's a leo if that helps.
Should I just let this go or express my concern to my boyfriend about this?