What is the most attactive thing to you about the opposite sex?

The title is pretty self explanatory.
I am a sapiosexual and I am really craving philosophical conversation with my favorite Aqua, but that is no longer an option.

Smarts, books, and eyes get me going...

And really corny pick up lines. 🙂

I've recently seen that online too sapiosexual, sapiophile..

Femininity just can't be beat for me. Drives me so nuts.

If to mention something a little more specific, a pretty face makes me fall in love. A great body makes me fall in lust.

Sapiosexual: One who finds intelligence the most sexually attractive feature.

Not really into ocelots, the claws get me every time....

Honestly, I had no idea what it was until my cousin mentioned it and it is a neologism. Just seemed to fit.

Either way, it doesn't matter to me much. I'm attracted to people who think... not a lot of people do.

Actually, the wealth part of it doesn't even matter to me. I make my own living. It is about not getting bored and actually having a meaningful conversation.

I've been attracted to men of different income brackets.

I just personally like to talk about things beyond the normal day-to-day and debate. I like a man who can hold his own ground.

Posted by herlimbicmind
The title is pretty self explanatory.
I am a sapiosexual and I am really craving philosophical conversation with my favorite Aqua, but that is no longer an option.

Smarts, books, and eyes get me going...

And really corny pick up lines. 🙂

Sense of Humor

Protectiveness drives me nuts...I

Strong hands, thoughtful gestures. A talented tongue.

It could be anything

Let's start off with the physical: hair, face, eyes, lips, neck, boobs, waist, hips, ass, legs, whatever. As much as I value a good conversation, there needs to be some kind of physical attraction.

I do agree however that I prefer people who don't talk about the mundane, I don't mind small talk but if it's all they ever talk about it's boring. I usually ignore the person and walk away lol. Even then I absolutely dislike people who are always philosophical. Talking about ideas and throwing ideas around and active conversation over a boring one-sided conversation anytime.

It's also how that person feels to me. I wish I could expand on this but I can't. I prefer an honest person and someone who can handle my dry and sarcastic and childish humour.

Venusian dimples.

Posted by cosmicbutter
No intelligence doesn't have much to do with potential wealth. A lot of such guys probably struggle to make money.

I met a very intelligent taxi driver. I wish I could pick his brains more. Until I meet the next intelligent taxi driver.

If serious then:

I have to like the way he smells. If you wear the wrong deodorant, have musty clothes, or a really bad air freshener in your car......

Sense of humor. After 2 weeks I commented on my Scorpio's car freshener.

"Honestly, do you have kids tucked away somewhere, it always smells like baby powder in here"

"Could be this 'Tropical Scent'??"

*I give him a look of 'really?'* So we test it and its the Tropical Scent.

"I swear, no kids, Gennie!!!".

So I start cracking jokes about his car. "Do you keep candy in the glove compartment" "Is there a dead clown in your trunk?" "Did you forget to give a pregnant co-worker her Diaper Genie gift?"

And the next time I saw him.....A shiny new pine scented air freshener was hanging from the mirror.

Intelligence, ability to lead/take charge, sense of humor, protectiveness for SURE.

Masculine voices.
When they have facial hair (when it looks good)

Posted by cosmicbutter
No intelligence doesn't have much to do with potential wealth. A lot of such guys probably struggle to make money.

this is true.

they have alot of doubts and insecurities even though they have a high i.q.

or that they think they are too smart for this and that. It requires analysis....

because there's lots of not necessarily billionaries or millionaires, but men who have high i.q, but they are go-getters.

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
A man who's comfortable in his manhood and doesn't try too hard to prove his manliness all the time. I enjoy the strong silent type for this reason. They're usually like that.

I also like silent guys , a man that talks too much turn me off.

Intelligence, sence of humour and nice legs also someon3 with smiling eyes

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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
A man who's comfortable in his manhood and doesn't try too hard to prove his manliness all the time. I enjoy the strong silent type for this reason. They're usually like that.

I also like silent guys , a man that talks too much turn me off.

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this i agree on 100%

Penis

..and not a douche

All of these things are good. I also really like compassion.... men who stop to help an elderly person or someone less fortunate than them gets me right in the feels!

Posted by starwars
geniune, im a sucker for geniune spontenous people! those who are themselves. not necassary all the time, but around me at least. even those who are geniunely assholes, i love them for being geniune lol

humor, i feel like everyone is funny in their own way and its not hard to make me laugh i find humor in almsot anything. its that whether they can "get" me in that level and not take my jokes seriously-personally.

nice warmhearted people, i have soft spots for those who care about others or animals anything really. when i usually observe people i look for this quality in them.

down to earth types, if anything that turns me off is someone whos so into himself. i really like down to earth people.

so if you have a combo of those qualities....give me a call 😏

- i also like shy guys, not necessary shy but when a guy blush my heart burst into rainbows! ��'�🌈©

Can I reverse charge this.

mature, manly, calm, cool, broad shoulder, good physic & tall.

Posted by BitterSweetSour
mature, manly, calm, cool, broad shoulder, good physic & tall.

Good with physics? What about Chemistry?

Gentlemen.

The kind of man that will treat me like a lady. Open doors and pull out chairs. Then he'll woo me with his intelligence and humor

Posted by xtina
Gentlemen.

The kind of man that will treat me like a lady. Open doors and pull out chairs. Then he'll woo me with his intelligence and humor
Dream man

They do exist. Boyfriend opens the doors for me, pulls out chairs.

So many things....where do I begin or end..?