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Can we blame aquarians for their nature?
It depends on the individuals. Most aquarians I've met, were so lovely x3 Still are.x
"- Yes, we loved you and we cared for you and we respected you but if it ends one day because of difficulties or other reasons, that does not mean whatever we had between us was never real. It was. But like everything else, love also ends at one point.
- Yes, we are not that emotional at times."
This shit is what makes u guys weird asf. You are a male aquarius and i have many male aquarius friends, when you guys like and possibly love someone hard that statement doesnt apply. My issue is with woman, if they go by that idealogy then you guys never really have felt love, love shifts people and you sitting there and saying something about love how you cared and respected and etc i find it to be B.S. Unfortunately nowadays people dont know how to love anymore.
- Yes, we are not that emotional at times."
This shit is what makes u guys weird asf. You are a male aquarius and i have many male aquarius friends, when you guys like and possibly love someone hard that statement doesnt apply. My issue is with woman, if they go by that idealogy then you guys never really have felt love, love shifts people and you sitting there and saying something about love how you cared and respected and etc i find it to be B.S. Unfortunately nowadays people dont know how to love anymore.
Posted by claywhat do you mean? It's a genuine discussion and im curious by nature. That is why I wanted to know others' opinions.
I think you got way too much time on your hands.
i'm just having my coffee and brunch and I gotta go soon. lol
I don't know about you, but i'm fine with keeping up closeness with my loved ones. you're just one of those types that cant commit.
I don't know about you, but i'm fine with keeping up closeness with my loved ones. you're just one of those types that cant commit.
I am not a aqua.
Yes, it is difficult sometimes to understand you guys. Especially your attitude with loved ones.
We have a different point of view about love....
But in the end, you make us grow. You can teach us stuff about ourself that we never new. You can make us stand still and look at ourselves.
Yes, it is difficult sometimes to understand you guys. Especially your attitude with loved ones.
We have a different point of view about love....
But in the end, you make us grow. You can teach us stuff about ourself that we never new. You can make us stand still and look at ourselves.
I think Aquas should make more of an effort to be understood and make more of an effort for others.
Obviously we don't fall into the same boat because I agree and disagree on certain points.
1. Yes I will often go silent but make an effort to let those I care about know why I am and I'd rather not be disturbed and then MAKE the effort to not be sulky in front of them.
2. No I never understood why you can't just reply to a text or send a text to those that you really care about for MONTHS at a time. A week sure, two? Maybe. A month?! wtf dude.
The last three points aren't just aquas...
And let's face it, there IS no norms of society for this shit.
Obviously we don't fall into the same boat because I agree and disagree on certain points.
1. Yes I will often go silent but make an effort to let those I care about know why I am and I'd rather not be disturbed and then MAKE the effort to not be sulky in front of them.
2. No I never understood why you can't just reply to a text or send a text to those that you really care about for MONTHS at a time. A week sure, two? Maybe. A month?! wtf dude.
The last three points aren't just aquas...
And let's face it, there IS no norms of society for this shit.
Yes. Because they are smart enough to realise they were doing it wrong.
Posted by Redbulli do too. i like the differences.
Not really. I dont think. Thats one of the points of astrology. Knowing about signs. Im mot one of those types who thinks everybody is supposed to be the same or like me. I tend to prefer to appreciate the "differences" in the signs. There can be things to learn and certain traits may compliment or clash. Its all part of it. Sometimes I think my Aqua moon contributes to my more open minded side. And kind of gives me an understanding of Aquarius people. So I get the rebellious streak and doing things your way and taking space and not being necessarily all lovey dovey and stuff.
that's why they have compatible/incompatible.
i know who i get along with in real life, and in my past relationships/attraction, ect.
it's not science.
Posted by Undinemore likely they felt other people getting hurt. and though oh, i hope i didn't hurt anyone....it's not directed at "you" persay....its just a general "you", not them individually. But people think of themselves as a "whole". Like you say, those Asians, they think, all asains. lol
Yes. Because they are smart enough to realise they were doing it wrong.
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Suppose it's not working out with someone and you try to reason with them, other signs tend to take it on a personal level and they take it on themselves, they think we are trying to play some blame game but it's actually not. It's simply we try to explain that we are different kind of persons with different perspectives and sometimes it might not work.
And at the end, aquas always end up getting all the blame...
And at the end, aquas always end up getting all the blame...
two twings aren't very good in any relationship that you want to keep: giving to little (of yourself), and giving too much. aquas do the latter. they are good. and caring. and considerate. extremely so. but you can't give someone an actual truckload of roses then be hurt for life if they don't reciprocate your effort the same way immediately. the biggest aqua problem is (not having and overstepping) boundaries I think if you know what I mean.
Posted by doctalkOh fuck off. That's the biggest issue. It's far too easy for Aquas to become detached, and then it's just *logically* shrugged off as "oh well all things come to an end".
- Yes, we loved you and we cared for you and we respected you but if it ends one day because of difficulties or other reasons, that does not mean whatever we had between us was never real. It was. But like everything else, love also ends at one point.
But you're right overall, the signs have their differences, and I guess this is just the way aquas are. This is the way the universe has built you. You care but don't care at the same time.
I'm not directly answering the questions but wanted to say this .. sometimes it's just easier to detach from the bullshit in your life. I'm glad I have my Venus in Aquarius. It's been balancing out my watery moon with a more logical way of thinking. Every sign has something great about them. I've seen it first hand IRL..even Aquas.. Maybe I'm more understanding of all signs cuz they say Pisces is the last of all the 12 signs , they can see/understand things The way other signs can't. I truly believe this. No matter how much some ppl have been hurt by an Aqua, I believe they always teach u something about yourself even if they were the ones to walk away
Posted by OphiuchusHow about YOU fuck off. You want us to weep, cry , moan, obsess over something that has ended or played out? That to me is not only a waste of time and energy, it's kinda cray, cray.Posted by doctalkOh fuck off. That's the biggest issue. It's far too easy for Aquas to become detached, and then it's just *logically* shrugged off as "oh well all things come to an end".
- Yes, we loved you and we cared for you and we respected you but if it ends one day because of difficulties or other reasons, that does not mean whatever we had between us was never real. It was. But like everything else, love also ends at one point.
But you're right overall, the signs have their differences, and I guess this is just the way aquas are. This is the way the universe has built you. You care but don't care at the same time.
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Have a good cry, vent to good friends if you need too, learn to accept that things did go the way they did and move on. Why does that bother you so much? Aquas can accept the fact that , "yes shit does end and life goes on".... i actually think that would be the way many people would rather handle or deal with things ending.
That in no way implys that we didn't care or didn't love, we just are able to process stuff different and in some cases better. Just because i'm not a fucking blubering. mess. in a ball on the floor after shit went the way it did with my ex...does not make me cold, heartless and unemotional. I processed what i neeeded to, learned from my experiences and am living my life. That to me is what we should all do... not make thread after thread of my hurt, anger and angst. How in the world is that healthy or productive? It's not.
Posted by Arielle83No, maybe a tad quirky lol
If my Lilith is in aqua, will I turn into a twit at some point?
i accept things as they are doesnt mean im cold its just on the inside besides everyone wants me to listen to their problems because im easy to talk too and dont judge them but when im the one who need someone to listen to my problem i dont see them caring or giving me advice,its hard to find someone who will listen to you and wont judge you so i stop sharing my problems or emotions until i explode and when that time comes im misundestood so where the fck do they want me to place myself huh?its frustrating really many people doesnt know the half of it,i stop sharing my emotion a long time ago,i only tell with my trusted friends or trusted person.
Posted by Aquarius3189All you can do in life is be the kind of friend to others that you want for yourself. Doesn't mean you have to be someone's doormat or emotional garbage dumpster. There is no reason to remain in a friendship where the other person isn't even trying...a friendship is no different than a romantic relationship. Both require work from both people....it should never be one-sided.
i accept things as they are doesnt mean im cold its just on the inside besides everyone wants me to listen to their problems because im easy to talk too and dont judge them but when im the one who need someone to listen to my problem i dont see them caring or giving me advice,its hard to find someone who will listen to you and wont judge you so i stop sharing my problems or emotions until i explode and when that time comes im misundestood so where the fck do they want me to place myself huh?its frustrating really many people doesnt know the half of it,i stop sharing my emotion a long time ago,i only tell with my trusted friends or trusted person.
Posted by nyxxeei dont let people treat me like a doormat infact i will just dissapear from their life if i dont like the way they treat me,typical aqua dissapearing act haha! but they like to talk to me that sometimes they dont realize that im the one who wants to talk in that specific time that is when i start detachingPosted by Aquarius3189All you can do in life is be the kind of friend to others that you want for yourself. Doesn't mean you have to be someone's doormat or emotional garbage dumpster. There is no reason to remain in a friendship where the other person isn't even trying...a friendship is no different than a romantic relationship. Both require work from both people....it should never be one-sided.
i accept things as they are doesnt mean im cold its just on the inside besides everyone wants me to listen to their problems because im easy to talk too and dont judge them but when im the one who need someone to listen to my problem i dont see them caring or giving me advice,its hard to find someone who will listen to you and wont judge you so i stop sharing my problems or emotions until i explode and when that time comes im misundestood so where the fck do they want me to place myself huh?its frustrating really many people doesnt know the half of it,i stop sharing my emotion a long time ago,i only tell with my trusted friends or trusted person.
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All I know is I want things to go my way, my time and energy is extremely precious to me, to spend it lavishly as I like doing nothing and everything is a big deal to me.....I have a lot of people coming into my life demanding my patience and god as my witness I am very generous and accepting of people's short comings whether it be cancerian crimes of passion, libran drama, capricorn vapidity, saggitarian's bullshit or geminis shallowness, everyone is an asshole at some point and everyone at one point of their life gets called out on that one thing that they find really difficult to change.
I could become extremely invested in everyone's bullshit and cry with you every time you get dumped or step in for you every time you start a fight but it's just NOT my style to burn up my time on shit I don't want in my life.
God I feel so spread out ATM I've got so many groups of friends wanting me to hang with them and I could never have a party at mine because they would all hate each other, maybe I should and they can all battle it out and I'll side with the last one who helps clean up at the end.
I could become extremely invested in everyone's bullshit and cry with you every time you get dumped or step in for you every time you start a fight but it's just NOT my style to burn up my time on shit I don't want in my life.
God I feel so spread out ATM I've got so many groups of friends wanting me to hang with them and I could never have a party at mine because they would all hate each other, maybe I should and they can all battle it out and I'll side with the last one who helps clean up at the end.
Posted by doctalkI call them mr right cause they think they're always right and very arrogant.
Is it true that people are finding it hard to be with aquarians? Is it true that people go through a lot because we act and think differently which most of the times collide with the natural norms of society and people? Are we making them suffer?
Can people really blame us for our nature? Can we really blame a piscean or cancerian for their sensitivity and emotion? It is how people are. People varies and acts differently.
Then why do people can not accept the way we are?
- Yes, we are detached at times and we tend go inside our mind and think and stay quite.
- Yes, we don't call or text for weeks/months because we suck at communication. Everyone has flaws.
- Yes, we go from one point to another. We like to conquest, get new goals and adventures in life every other month.
- Yes, we are at times fickle and we face difficulty taking decisions.
- Yes, we loved you and we cared for you and we respected you but if it ends one day because of difficulties or other reasons, that does not mean whatever we had between us was never real. It was. But like everything else, love also ends at one point.
- Yes, we are not that emotional at times.
Do you guys feel like this that people try to pressurize you all the time and never actually understood your nature? Are we too misunderstood or too blamed?
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Posted by justagirlmaybe i will
How about YOU fuck off.
Posted by DonJohnCongratz man... 🙂
i'm engaged to an aqua as a cancer man.
in synastry her uranus in aquarius is an unaspected planet. lol. basically all her quirks do not bother me at all.
so your entire list i find kind of funny actually.
Sir big up yourself. I am aquarian male also. here it goes. ...
We are surrounded by people who normally think in the way of a script. They follow it and dont understand anything outside of the daily script of life. So we seem like the alien at times. meaning how we move how we see things. what we respond to and what we do or dont like. yes we are surrounded. But guess what you are a masculine sign. You are a man on earth and you are man in the universe. You are what most people wish they could be. meaning the unseen aspects and characteristics of your sign is the MAN.. so other men who are not masculine signs might not feel you and women who have feminine signs may not feel you.. i say may...
So surround yourself around aquarian girls, sagitarius girls, aries girls maybe even a few virgo girls and you will get better feedback. There is nothing wrong with you sir. We are just surrounded here on earth by a lot of people who have accepted and live the life of the script. Meaning work somewhere you dont want to work. do a job everyday you cant stand.. work for low pay.. then go to the most popular club and spend money you dont have... then buy the same popular phone that everybody else deems as the so called in thing to have and that for example having any other phone makes no sense.. etc.. listen to the same music and same artist as others..
only listen to the same music that everybody else listens to etc... that is the script so when you are listening to for example.... hint Tego Calderon song titled por mi madre.... or you are listening to bob marley songs nobody ever heard before.... or you are listening to Nujabes instrumentals... or you re still playing sades first 5 albums when every body else is listening to the number one hit song of an artist that you dont really even feel.. then you should know that you are doing exactly what it is that you want and feel and you are not part of the script and that maybe one day these script followers will ask you to make them a compilation cd or mp3 playlist of what you listen to because they really know you are unique and on to something that is not so basic and in the script. Sir also your birthday actual day can also help an understanding of emotions etc... so feel free to respond and anybody who reads this feel free. big up yourself AQS
We are surrounded by people who normally think in the way of a script. They follow it and dont understand anything outside of the daily script of life. So we seem like the alien at times. meaning how we move how we see things. what we respond to and what we do or dont like. yes we are surrounded. But guess what you are a masculine sign. You are a man on earth and you are man in the universe. You are what most people wish they could be. meaning the unseen aspects and characteristics of your sign is the MAN.. so other men who are not masculine signs might not feel you and women who have feminine signs may not feel you.. i say may...
So surround yourself around aquarian girls, sagitarius girls, aries girls maybe even a few virgo girls and you will get better feedback. There is nothing wrong with you sir. We are just surrounded here on earth by a lot of people who have accepted and live the life of the script. Meaning work somewhere you dont want to work. do a job everyday you cant stand.. work for low pay.. then go to the most popular club and spend money you dont have... then buy the same popular phone that everybody else deems as the so called in thing to have and that for example having any other phone makes no sense.. etc.. listen to the same music and same artist as others..
only listen to the same music that everybody else listens to etc... that is the script so when you are listening to for example.... hint Tego Calderon song titled por mi madre.... or you are listening to bob marley songs nobody ever heard before.... or you are listening to Nujabes instrumentals... or you re still playing sades first 5 albums when every body else is listening to the number one hit song of an artist that you dont really even feel.. then you should know that you are doing exactly what it is that you want and feel and you are not part of the script and that maybe one day these script followers will ask you to make them a compilation cd or mp3 playlist of what you listen to because they really know you are unique and on to something that is not so basic and in the script. Sir also your birthday actual day can also help an understanding of emotions etc... so feel free to respond and anybody who reads this feel free. big up yourself AQS
don't blame anyone for their nature but perhaps you can blame someone for not wanting to change to become less selfish, less lazy, less controlling over the years. (unless doing so serves some kind of purpose for them, usually short term.)
of all the troubles of the signs I think aqua troubles are the most complex regarding relationships. chose people that love you and learn how to show the other person that you suffer too. talk to them. learn to talk. but to be completely honest people who love you will know that you suffer even if you pretend otherwise or you don't talk to them because people who really love you do fucking know you from the moment they meet you. so in short, let people who love you love you. or die alone, as a misunderstood genious with a totally wasted kind heart.
of all the troubles of the signs I think aqua troubles are the most complex regarding relationships. chose people that love you and learn how to show the other person that you suffer too. talk to them. learn to talk. but to be completely honest people who love you will know that you suffer even if you pretend otherwise or you don't talk to them because people who really love you do fucking know you from the moment they meet you. so in short, let people who love you love you. or die alone, as a misunderstood genious with a totally wasted kind heart.
If aquas made more effort then maybs itd be okay. Like if we have to give you guys more space, then you should try to atleast keep in contact and not fall off the grid completely. Compromise!
Posted by bumboklattso true lolPosted by clippityclopAh geez that last comment is what makes me not wanna call or message people hahaha
If aquas made more effort then maybs itd be okay. Like if we have to give you guys more space, then you should try to atleast keep in contact and not fall off the grid completely. Compromise!
But yeah I agree compromise is key.
I hate any type of emotional confrontation it's like plunging into the ocean and not being able to breathe freely. Avoid avoid avoid. Ignore, space out, stop caring. All come so easily lolclick to expand
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