confused by aqua man..but calm

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by bloopbloopbloop on Thursday, April 12, 2018 and has 1 replies.

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8 Years

super confused by this aqua i met a few months ago (maybe you guys have seen some of my earlier posts about him).

we used to talk everyday for like 2 months after we met and then one day it just stopped -- we across the country from one another. he travels a lot though and sometimes comes to the city near me. we hangout one time but haven't had a chance to hang again.

so anyway, after the texting all the time stopped, we started only talking about once a month -- i usually initiate the texts but after he didn't say happy birthday to me (even though i wished him one in feb when it was his bday) i was kind of over this non-relationship, relationship. so, naturally for a pisces female haha, i blocked him on instagram because i couldn't stand seeing his posts in my discover page. i didn't do this for him to notice -- he doesn't even follow me on instagram.

then i started missing him a few weeks ago and unblocked him from instagram to see how he was, etc. and the next day he texted me asking me how i am etc. then he told me he might be coming to my city that week and that he'd let me know. (every time we text its for a few days at a time and then it stops). i then texted him a few days later asking if he's still coming -- he said he thinks he'll know in 2 days and then he'd let me know -- so i sent a heart and that was the end of the convo. also, the way he explained why he was coming, was that he was only coming to see me because his friends he wants to visit want to go to his city.

we haven't spoken since -- i just don't understand this haha. from experience...is this normal behavior for an aquarius man? is this going to go on forever -- lol -- but for real, is he just going to keep popping back up? should i be expecting anything more to come from this?

I'm trying to forget about him but i still wake up thinking about him sometimes and dream about him -- i've never had soooo many dreams about someone i don't really know in my whole entire (short) life than anyone else -- i don't understand why -- I'm super busy all the time but he consumes my minds sometimes. whenever i think about him during the day i try to shut it down. damnit. help. haha

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8 Years

interesting...well as cool & collected as I'm being about this (which is super new for me because usually I'm obsessive & needy)..i definitely hope he eventually will "work hard to get me" ...before it's too late of course...i can't wait forever for "what if"

thank you for sharing your experience, i really appreciate it.