Getting an Aquarius man back?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by JenBHavinFun on Sunday, April 1, 2018 and has 40 replies.

How to Reignite an Aquarius Man's Interest

To reconnect with an Aquarius man, focus on giving him space while showing genuine self-improvement. Be authentic, maintain your independence, and subtly remind him of your positive qualities. Avoid pressuring him and let the natural flow of communication develop. Patience and understanding are key to encouraging him to reflect and possibly pursue reconciliation.

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@JenBHavinFun
8 Years

I was lucky enough to have a committed Aquarius man for 8 months (the longest since his divorce apparently). He did care for me and was loyal. He’d been under a lot of stress and suddenly ended it 5 days ago. Saying he needed to simplify his life. I was crushed as this guy, a week ago, said he saw a future with me. He did say he wanted to be friends. His family members reached out to me apologizing and I found out he ALSO said to his step dad that I deserve to be happy and he couldn’t help but look at other women. (We both believe he never cheated).

Since the break up he’s reached out twice. Once to say he was sorry and further explain. I tried getting more info and he shut down. Then last night he text asking if I was ok. I said I’m alright and asked how he was. I dropped it from there.

What are some tips to get this guy to regret, chase, and hopefully come back?

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@STILL
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by JenBHavinFun
I was lucky enough to have a committed Aquarius man for 8 months (the longest since his divorce apparently). He did care for me and was loyal. He’d been under a lot of stress and suddenly ended it 5 days ago. Saying he needed to simplify his life. I was crushed as this guy, a week ago, said he saw a future with me. He did say he wanted to be friends. His family members reached out to me apologizing and I found out he ALSO said to his step dad that I deserve to be happy and he couldn’t help but look at other women. (We both believe he never cheated).

Since the break up he’s reached out twice. Once to say he was sorry and further explain. I tried getting more info and he shut down. Then last night he text asking if I was ok. I said I’m alright and asked how he was. I dropped it from there.

What are some tips to get this guy to regret, chase, and hopefully come back?

What's your sign?

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@AerialView
9 Years10,000+ PostsAquarius

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For now continue being his friend.

😀

But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.

All possibilities are pretty much still open.

Early days

Must give OP some hope (:

You are too sweet sometimes (:

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Other times just sweet (:

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@pisceswoman123
9 Years10,000+ Posts

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Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀

But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.

All possibilities are pretty much still open.

Early days

Must give OP some hope (:

You are too sweet sometimes (:

Other times just sweet (:

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Lol. And then they say that aquarius are not charming 😛😉

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@AerialView
9 Years10,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀

But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.

All possibilities are pretty much still open.

Early days

Must give OP some hope (:

You are too sweet sometimes (:

Other times just sweet (:

Lol. And then they say that aquarius are not charming 😛😉

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Who's they? 😜

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@pisceswoman123
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by AerialView

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Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀

But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.

All possibilities are pretty much still open.

Early days

Must give OP some hope (:

You are too sweet sometimes (:

Other times just sweet (:

Lol. And then they say that aquarius are not charming 😛😉

Who's they? 😜

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The hateful ones 🤭😛

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@AerialView
9 Years10,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀

But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.

All possibilities are pretty much still open.

Early days

Must give OP some hope (:

You are too sweet sometimes (:

Other times just sweet (:

Lol. And then they say that aquarius are not charming 😛😉

Who's they? 😜

The hateful ones 🤭😛

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They don't deserve Aqua's love 💕

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@Pandora101
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by JenBHavinFun
I was lucky enough to have a committed Aquarius man for 8 months (the longest since his divorce apparently). He did care for me and was loyal. He’d been under a lot of stress and suddenly ended it 5 days ago. Saying he needed to simplify his life. I was crushed as this guy, a week ago, said he saw a future with me. He did say he wanted to be friends. His family members reached out to me apologizing and I found out he ALSO said to his step dad that I deserve to be happy and he couldn’t help but look at other women. (We both believe he never cheated).

Since the break up he’s reached out twice. Once to say he was sorry and further explain. I tried getting more info and he shut down. Then last night he text asking if I was ok. I said I’m alright and asked how he was. I dropped it from there.

What are some tips to get this guy to regret, chase, and hopefully come back?

In my opinion, you stay put and dont do anything

the best would be just stop talking to him

I mean, he broke up with you and then he contacts you to say he is sorry, then asking if you are okey. I would not be mad at anybody for breaking up with me, but this patronising behaviour would make me mad.

he is adding insult to injury, how dare he

I am sorry he is an Aqua

he must have some other shy***tty planets and placements

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@pisceswoman123
9 Years10,000+ Posts

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Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀

But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.

All possibilities are pretty much still open.

Early days

Must give OP some hope (:

You are too sweet sometimes (:

Other times just sweet (:

Lol. And then they say that aquarius are not charming 😛😉

Who's they? 😜

The hateful ones 🤭😛

They don't deserve Aqua's love 💕

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Nope, Aqua love is for the lucky few 😍

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@pisceswoman123
9 Years10,000+ Posts

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Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀

But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.

All possibilities are pretty much still open.

Early days

Must give OP some hope (:

I see.

I'm not needed then.

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Lol.

She may need a sincere answer

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@pisceswoman123
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Seleukos

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Seleukos

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀

But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.

All possibilities are pretty much still open.

Early days

Must give OP some hope (:

I see.

I'm not needed then.

Lol.

She may need a sincere answer

Well, it could be anything.

It depends on his background and character traits.

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Yes, I agree that without more information it’s difficult to say anything for sure

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@Brittnie
9 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

It sounds like he is already starting to regret it. Don’t do anything to move the process along because it can have consequences. Just do you and be happy, if you two are meant to come back together you will, but it sounds like he cares about you. A lot of people have broken up so just roll with it lol

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Posted by pinkbird03
He admitted to looking at other women. That must mean there’s another woman on his mind.

But she could wait? Right? Until he will come back? Shit no!!!

Where those stupid advises from—

Man said he wants not you!!!

Doesn’t it make him deposit for trash can?

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He admitted to looking at other women. That must mean there’s another woman on his mind.

But she could wait? Right? Until he will come back? Shit no!!!

Where those stupid advises from—

Man said he wants not you!!!

Doesn’t it make him deposit for trash can?

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Lol i didn’t say to wait. I like a man who tells you what’s going on rather than leaving you confused by not saying anything. I’d take his word for it.

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11 Years25,000+ Posts

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He admitted to looking at other women. That must mean there’s another woman on his mind.

But she could wait? Right? Until he will come back? Shit no!!!

Where those stupid advises from—

Man said he wants not you!!!

Doesn’t it make him deposit for trash can?

Lol i didn’t say to wait. I like a man who tells you what’s going on rather than leaving you confused by not saying anything. I’d take his word for it.

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...and tell him to fucknoff...I hope...

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

He is trying to be kind and let you down as gently as possible

I'd say he feels bad, I sense he isn't a bad man, but proabably feels a little guilty

If it was me, I would allow him his freedom

💙

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@bkbella86
15 Years5,000+ PostsAries

The fact that you felt lucky to have him means you had the wrong mindset to begin with.

And he broke up with you, move on!

Don’t try to manipulate someone who told you you’re making his life complicated. Why are you desperate to have him?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Undine
Treat him friendly and without drama and he might be back in one year or so.

Don't wait for him though.... find someone you like better.

WHY is she supposed to be his friend?

To watch him dating and telling her about it? What are you all...crazy— 😡

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by bkbella86
The fact that you felt lucky to have him means you had the wrong mindset to begin with.

And he broke up with you, move on!

Don’t try to manipulate someone who told you you’re making his life complicated. Why are you desperate to have him?

I am wondering if they were married and he said he wants to see another women...

Would she be advised to invite the woman to their home for cup of tea? Just to be friendly...and not a bitch...so in a year or so he might come back and happily ever after?

No way anyone would suggest that! So how is this shit different?

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Undine
Treat him friendly and without drama and he might be back in one year or so.

Don't wait for him though.... find someone you like better.

WHY is she supposed to be his friend?

To watch him dating and telling her about it? What are you all...crazy— 😡

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Friendly....not friend.

Little to worry about an Aqua....... he will pretend to be the eternal bachelor until he invites you to his wedding, decades later 🙂.