Confusing Aquarius Man

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I’ve known this guy through work for a couple of years. He’s several years older than I am - 40s. There's pub trivia close to where we both live, so last year I invited him along with the rest of the group because he seemed isolated/lonely, and he’s pretty clever. Long story short, he is a friend now, mostly, but recently his behavior towards me has become odd. The flaking out is normal – I have other aquarian friends who make plans and forget, or just want to be alone. I understand. It's the teasing, sometimes rudely, and a few things in conversations that are (seemingly) out of character, like rape jokes – completely out of context, feels off. I’m not offended by such things normally, but this stuff has just started out of nowhere after we spent a drunken night talking until sunrise about a month ago. I've also witnessed little "tantrums" over stupid crap. I just don’t understand if this is because he’s getting closer/more comfortable, if it’s the work stress, or if I somehow pissed him off, and it’s a legitimate swipe at me. I’ve been nothing but nice to him, so I don’t get it.

Anyway, what the hell is wrong with him? And yes, I’m rather soft on the inside, but don’t show it often, and maybe I'm over thinking. This whole situation is plain strange to me, though.

I know his moon and mars are taurus, ascendant is cancer. Uranus dominant, though.
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I'm Capricorn (sun, Venus, Mercury), Gemini moon, Sag rising, Aqua mars (ha). I don't know. I saw him today, and he was normal/friendly, and he half apologized for flaking last week (but not the weirdness). Still confusing, but whatever. I'll just ignore it, or give the benefit of the doubt until I have more evidence. Could just be having an off moment (or weeks). If it continues, can always walk away, unless I fall under some kind of spell, ha. We'll see how tomorrow goes!

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I'm Capricorn (sun, Venus, Mercury), Gemini moon, Sag rising, Aqua mars (ha). I don't know. I saw him today, and he was normal/friendly, and he half apologized for flaking last week (but not the weirdness). Still confusing, but whatever. I'll just ignore it, or give the benefit of the doubt until I have more evidence. Could just be having an off moment (or weeks). If it continues, can always walk away, unless I fall under some kind of spell, ha. We'll see how tomorrow goes!


Give him the benefit of the doubt till he rapes someone, hey?

😐
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Another confusing Aquarius man 😑



Are you confused too?? click to expand



I'm so bored reading it 😑 click to expand

At least they never say Aqua is boring lol

Even Dxp said help a confused Aqua today!


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We're detached here in dxp. Confused is Aries I think.
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Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Another confusing Aquarius man 😑



Are you confused too?? click to expand



I'm so bored reading it 😑 click to expand



At least they never say Aqua is boring lol

Even Dxp said help a confused Aqua today!


click to expand

We're detached here in dxp. Confused is Aries I think. click to expand
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I love that you never have a bad thing to say about Sag! 😆 I don't see you guys as detached at all, unless it has to do with romance.

Well you're not, lol but I can see that with other Aquas.
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Another confusing Aquarius man 😑



Are you confused too?? click to expand



I'm so bored reading it 😑 click to expand



At least they never say Aqua is boring lol

Even Dxp said help a confused Aqua today!


click to expand



We're detached here in dxp. Confused is Aries I think. click to expand

I love that you never have a bad thing to say about Sag! I don't see you guys as detached at all, unless it has to do with romance.
Well you're not, lol but I can see that with other Aquas. click to expand
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That's because Sag, along with Cap and Pisces, are my dominants.

I won't badmouth them hehe 😛

A detached Aqua is his SO's problem not mine lol
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Aquas remain cold until they’re not and Taurus likes to move fast until it doesn’t. Good luck with an Aqua sun / Taurus mars. You’ll wait until next year to find out his true intentions. 👍🏻



Act like an Aries and the Aqua/Taurus mars will submit 😂 click to expand

Lmao 😂 he waited about a year and some months before I said yes. So it still applies. click to expand
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What a persistence boy 😛 he knows what he's after 😛
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Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Another confusing Aquarius man 😑



Are you confused too?? click to expand



I'm so bored reading it 😑 click to expand



At least they never say Aqua is boring lol

Even Dxp said help a confused Aqua today!


click to expand



We're detached here in dxp. Confused is Aries I think. click to expand



I love that you never have a bad thing to say about Sag! I don't see you guys as detached at all, unless it has to do with romance.
Well you're not, lol but I can see that with other Aquas. click to expand

That's because Sag, along with Cap and Pisces, are my dominants.

I won't badmouth them hehe

A detached Aqua is his SO's problem not mine lol click to expand
click to expand

You bad mouth Cap Venus! 😛

Truer words were never spoken, in relation to it being the other persons problem! lol

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Another confusing Aquarius man 😑



Are you confused too?? click to expand



I'm so bored reading it 😑 click to expand



At least they never say Aqua is boring lol

Even Dxp said help a confused Aqua today!


click to expand



We're detached here in dxp. Confused is Aries I think. click to expand



I love that you never have a bad thing to say about Sag! I don't see you guys as detached at all, unless it has to do with romance.
Well you're not, lol but I can see that with other Aquas. click to expand



That's because Sag, along with Cap and Pisces, are my dominants.

I won't badmouth them hehe

A detached Aqua is his SO's problem not mine lol click to expand

You bad mouth Cap Venus!

Truer words were never spoken, in relation to it being the other persons problem! lol

click to expand
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Lol yes but never Cap sun 😆 I was referring to the Sun placement with those signs i mentioned earlier.

Cap Venus give Aqua sun a bad name 😛

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Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Another confusing Aquarius man 😑



Are you confused too?? click to expand



I'm so bored reading it 😑 click to expand



At least they never say Aqua is boring lol

Even Dxp said help a confused Aqua today!


click to expand



We're detached here in dxp. Confused is Aries I think. click to expand



I love that you never have a bad thing to say about Sag! I don't see you guys as detached at all, unless it has to do with romance.
Well you're not, lol but I can see that with other Aquas. click to expand



That's because Sag, along with Cap and Pisces, are my dominants.

I won't badmouth them hehe

A detached Aqua is his SO's problem not mine lol click to expand



You bad mouth Cap Venus!

Truer words were never spoken, in relation to it being the other persons problem! lol

click to expand

Lol yes but never Cap sun I was referring to the Sun placement with those signs i mentioned earlier.

Cap Venus give Aqua sun a bad name

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No placement can give Aqua sun A bad name! 🙂 Quit talking about one of my favorite Venus placements! 😛

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