Aqua man didn’t meet up with me, why?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by bloopbloopbloop on Wednesday, May 16, 2018 and has 28 replies.

Why He Didn't Meet Up Despite Saying He Would

He may have had conflicting commitments or lost interest despite initial plans. Sometimes, people make promises they cannot keep due to unforeseen circumstances or lack of genuine intention. It is often best to trust actions over words and prioritize your emotional well-being over unclear or inconsistent communication.

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@bloopbloopbloop
8 Years

He told me he was coming to my city for the past month and we didn’t speak 2 weeks before he came (i then saw that he put an insta story up of a girl — at her house — on the couch — under blankets). so the day came when he was in my city and i texted him — he responded and then didn’t for 6 hours and then responded and i started getting nervous so i told him to just be honest (if he didn’t wanna hang) he reassured me saying he wanted to. he had to meet up with someone and didn’t want me to wait for him but i said i would and then 11:30pm came and he told me he was too tired. Why would he do this? what was the point of telling me that he was coming if he didn’t want to meet up with me? after he said he’s too tired i told him it wasn’t okay and then i’ve been trying to be cool and not care but i’m not like this and that i wish him the best, etc. he never responded which is whatever (what a coward), but i don’t get the point of dicking me around the whole day if he wasn’t going to hang with me. wtf.

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@bloopbloopbloop
8 Years

Posted by AerialView
He's TOO TIRED

but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them.

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@bloopbloopbloop
8 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
He has better options. You got benched.

Don’t waste anymore brainpower on someone who sees you as replaceable.

well yeah...i just haven’t been giving him a lot of attention like the others are — i didn’t want to be up his a** and let him have his own life and experience sh*t to the fullest without having a needy girl commenting on every post / texting him all the time. but i guess that’s what he wants lol.

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@bloopbloopbloop
8 Years

Posted by exsqueezeme
Also he was never interested in your chanclas in the first place. So he did a ‘if I ignore her long enough, she’ll disappear in to non existence’

then what was the point of showing interest to begin with? i’m out of his league..think my flip flops are much better than his and better than any flip flops anyone else he finds will have.

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by bloopbloopbloop

Posted by AerialView
He's TOO TIRED

but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them. click to expand

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It's nothing to do with being tired

More like tied.......tied up with another woman

He sounds like a flake

🙄

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@bloopbloopbloop
8 Years

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bloopbloopbloop

Posted by AerialView
He's TOO TIRED

but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them. click to expand

It's nothing to do with being tired

More like tied.......tied up with another woman

He sounds like a flake

🙄 click to expand

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yeah, i think that was the reason, which would be totally fine, i just wish he would have been honest about it — would have been much more admirable.

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@bloopbloopbloop
8 Years

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bloopbloopbloop

Posted by AerialView
He's TOO TIRED

but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them. click to expand

It's nothing to do with being tired

More like tied.......tied up with another woman

He sounds like a flake

🙄 click to expand

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yeah, i think that was the reason, which would be totally fine, i just wish he would have been honest about it — would have been much more admirable.

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@AerialView
9 Years10,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by Aquarelle

Posted by AerialView

Posted by bloopbloopbloop

Posted by AerialView
He's TOO TIRED

but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them. click to expand

You're assuming too much.

When I'm too tired, I would hang around in my bed 😴 click to expand

Oh wow
Do you actually REST in bed?
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That's a tricky question 😎

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by bloopbloopbloop

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bloopbloopbloop

Posted by AerialView
He's TOO TIRED

but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them. click to expand

It's nothing to do with being tired

More like tied.......tied up with another woman

He sounds like a flake

🙄 click to expand

yeah, i think that was the reason, which would be totally fine, i just wish he would have been honest about it — would have been much more admirable. click to expand

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.....but that would take balls ......

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@tctaa
8 Years500+ Posts

Posted by bloopbloopbloop

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bloopbloopbloop

Posted by AerialView
He's TOO TIRED

but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them. click to expand

It's nothing to do with being tired

More like tied.......tied up with another woman

He sounds like a flake

🙄 click to expand

yeah, i think that was the reason, which would be totally fine, i just wish he would have been honest about it — would have been much more admirable.

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stop bothering with this loser and find someone who truly wants to be with you

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@waterbearer_fem
9 Years

Posted by WittyGem88v2
There was another woman that he showed on his ig story (or did you say snapchat story?) thats a red flag. Aqua Bf showed me on his the moment we got serious. He was taking snaps of me and sending it to friends of his and then took stolen photos of me too.

This. Use this Gem moon of yours, please. We are no option. Cut him loose.

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@Triple_C
8 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
He has better options. You got benched.

Don’t waste anymore brainpower on someone who sees you as replaceable.

Exactly. He benched you like a fantasy football player. You don't want to be on this guy's team. Let him drop you to waivers. Find someone who actually wants you in his lineup.

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@bloopbloopbloop
8 Years

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pinkbird03
Sounds like he was meeting another girl and busy with her

He's TOO TIRED 😴 click to expand

Yea from the night long sex sessions click to expand

You're scaring her 😂 click to expand

Truth hurts by lizzo go listen hun. click to expand

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i just took a dna test, turns out imma 100% that bitch, even when i’m cryin crazy..yeahh i got boy problems that’s the human in me, bling bling then i solve em that’s the goddess in me.. YOU COULDAAA HAD A BAD B*TCH, NONCOMMITAL HELP YOU WITH YA CAREERR JUST A LILLL. haha loveeeee lizzo

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by bloopbloopbloop

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pinkbird03
Sounds like he was meeting another girl and busy with her

He's TOO TIRED 😴 click to expand

Yea from the night long sex sessions click to expand

You're scaring her 😂 click to expand

Truth hurts by lizzo go listen hun. click to expand

i just took a dna test, turns out imma 100% that bitch, even when i’m cryin crazy..yeahh i got boy problems that’s the human in me, bling bling then i solve em that’s the goddess in me.. YOU COULDAAA HAD A BAD B*TCH, NONCOMMITAL HELP YOU WITH YA CAREERR JUST A LILLL. haha loveeeee lizzo click to expand

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Lol me too!! Haha badass song

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@AerialView
9 Years10,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by Undine

Posted by AerialView

Posted by Undine

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pinkbird03
Sounds like he was meeting another girl and busy with her

He's TOO TIRED 😴 click to expand

Oh, FFS! Get lost, you and your 95 yrs old bones! click to expand

Says the 100 years old woman rofl click to expand

You lost your energy and then projected it upon others.

Did you lose your mental faculties as well ? click to expand

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I'm not crazy. 100% sane |B