Aqua man didn’t meet up with me, why?

He told me he was coming to my city for the past month and we didn’t speak 2 weeks before he came (i then saw that he put an insta story up of a girl — at her house — on the couch — under blankets). so the day came when he was in my city and i texted him
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  • bloopbloopbloop
    the dreamer who dreams with her eyes open
    25 years old female
    He told me he was coming to my city for the past month and we didn’t speak 2 weeks before he came (i then saw that he put an insta story up of a girl — at her house — on the couch — under blankets). so the day came when he was in my city and i texted him — he responded and then didn’t for 6 hours and then responded and i started getting nervous so i told him to just be honest (if he didn’t wanna hang) he reassured me saying he wanted to. he had to meet up with someone and didn’t want me to wait for him but i said i would and then 11:30pm came and he told me he was too tired. Why would he do this? what was the point of telling me that he was coming if he didn’t want to meet up with me? after he said he’s too tired i told him it wasn’t okay and then i’ve been trying to be cool and not care but i’m not like this and that i wish him the best, etc. he never responded which is whatever (what a coward), but i don’t get the point of dicking me around the whole day if he wasn’t going to hang with me. wtf.
  • MyStarsShine
    Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
    Because, as you said, he's a coward and didn't have the courage to be honest with you

    Yuk
  • AerialView
    12 inches of rice💨
    male from Arlong Park
    He's TOO TIRED
  • bloopbloopbloop
    the dreamer who dreams with her eyes open
    25 years old female
    Posted by AerialView
    He's TOO TIRED


    but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them.
  • LadyNeptune
    🌵🍋🌿
    He has better options. You got benched.

    Don’t waste anymore brainpower on someone who sees you as replaceable.
  • AerialView
    12 inches of rice💨
    male from Arlong Park
    Posted by bloopbloopbloop
    Posted by AerialView
    He's TOO TIRED


    but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them. click to expand
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    You're assuming too much.

    When I'm too tired, I would hang around in my bed 😴
  • Someone else was wearing a more alluring pair of chanclas when he arrived which simply took his breath away
  • bloopbloopbloop
    the dreamer who dreams with her eyes open
    25 years old female
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    He has better options. You got benched.

    Don’t waste anymore brainpower on someone who sees you as replaceable.


    well yeah...i just haven’t been giving him a lot of attention like the others are — i didn’t want to be up his a** and let him have his own life and experience b*tter to the fullest without having a needy girl commenting on every post / texting him all the time. but i guess that’s what he wants lol.
  • Also he was never interested in your chanclas in the first place. So he did a ‘if I ignore her long enough, she’ll disappear in to non existence’
  • bloopbloopbloop
    the dreamer who dreams with her eyes open
    25 years old female
    Posted by exsqueezeme
    Someone else was wearing a more alluring pair of chanclas when he arrived which simply took his breath away


    yeah i don’t like flip flops..guess it’s for the better
  • Aquarelle
    Aqua Sun - Virgo rising - Sagittarius Moon - Pisces Venus - Capricorn Mars
    female
    Why dont you believe he was tired at 11:30 pm after travelling and meeting someone else? If he would really like you he would have come over, tired or not. Seems he is not into you as much.
  • bloopbloopbloop
    the dreamer who dreams with her eyes open
    25 years old female
    Posted by exsqueezeme
    Also he was never interested in your chanclas in the first place. So he did a ‘if I ignore her long enough, she’ll disappear in to non existence’


    then what was the point of showing interest to begin with? i’m out of his league..think my flip flops are much better than his and better than any flip flops anyone else he finds will have.
  • MyStarsShine
    Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
    Posted by bloopbloopbloop
    Posted by AerialView
    He's TOO TIRED


    but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them. click to expand
    click to expand


    It's nothing to do with being tired

    More like tied.......tied up with another woman

    He sounds like a flake

    🙄
  • Aquarelle
    Aqua Sun - Virgo rising - Sagittarius Moon - Pisces Venus - Capricorn Mars
    female
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by bloopbloopbloop
    Posted by AerialView
    He's TOO TIRED


    but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them. click to expand


    You're assuming too much.

    When I'm too tired, I would hang around in my bed 😴 click to expand
    click to expand

    Oh wow
    Do you actually REST in bed?
  • bloopbloopbloop
    the dreamer who dreams with her eyes open
    25 years old female
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Posted by bloopbloopbloop
    Posted by AerialView
    He's TOO TIRED


    but he legit came to my city for one night and wanted to hang...i think there’s more reasoning than him just being too tired. idc if i’m tired...if i want to see someone, i’d see them. click to expand


    It's nothing to do with being tired

    More like tied.......tied up with another woman

    He sounds like a flake

    🙄 click to expand
    click to expand


    yeah, i think that was the reason, which would be totally fine, i just wish he would have been honest about it — would have been much more admirable.
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