Did I mess up?

I was in a relationship with an aqua (male), obviously he left because he needed space. Me being a cancer/Leo cusp with tons of Gemini in my chart (moonand ascendant are both Gemini) I just let him go.
He came back and wanted to stay on break while he worked things out for a bit (and I admit he was going through a lot).
For a while I played along and we still acted as if we were in a committed relationship. But sometimes I wouldn't see him for 2 weeks at a time. Although he's still keep in touch
I got bored of that and let him know I wanted to talk to other people.
He obviously wasn't feeling it but I was over the games.
I also let him know when I was into someone as well as when it got a little more serious.
He really wasn't liking the fact that there was someone else so we had a talk and he told me he didn't like it (even thought he and I weren't together at this point) I told him that i would stop seeing this guy and focus more on him. Which I did.
I stopped physically seeing the guy and talking to him as much as I use to.
But
We didn't stop the flirting...
My Aqua male saw the texts between us and got really upset
I asked him if he was done for good and he said "I can't tell the future, and I'll still check on you to see if your ok but for right now this is done"
and now we haven't talked in 2 weeks.. We use to talk everyday.
Did I mess up?
Is he gone forever?

Posted by Cancergal32
I was in a relationship with an aqua (male), obviously he left because he needed space. Me being a cancer/Leo cusp with tons of Gemini in my chart (moonand ascendant are both Gemini) I just let him go.
He came back and wanted to stay on break while he worked things out for a bit (and I admit he was going through a lot).
For a while I played along and we still acted as if we were in a committed relationship. But sometimes I wouldn't see him for 2 weeks at a time. Although he's still keep in touch
I got bored of that and let him know I wanted to talk to other people.
He obviously wasn't feeling it but I was over the games.
I also let him know when I was into someone as well as when it got a little more serious.
He really wasn't liking the fact that there was someone else so we had a talk and he told me he didn't like it (even thought he and I weren't together at this point) I told him that i would stop seeing this guy and focus more on him. Which I did.
I stopped physically seeing the guy and talking to him as much as I use to.
But
We didn't stop the flirting...
My Aqua male saw the texts between us and got really upset
I asked him if he was done for good and he said "I can't tell the future, and I'll still check on you to see if your ok but for right now this is done"
and now we haven't talked in 2 weeks.. We use to talk everyday.
Did I mess up?
Is he gone forever?

You're playing games.

Either focus on the aqua or see other people. If you see other people don't give the aqua the power to stop you unless he's willing to commit.

My opinion, his fault you're talking to other guys and he doesn't have a right to get upset. If he wanted it locked down, he should have locked it down.

Your game is you talked to other guys hoping to get the aquas attention. It backfired on you. If you're going to see other guys, then see other guys. Don't bounce back and forth and definitely don't say yor will stop if you don't intend on it. (In some people's opinion, talking is the same as seeing).

What I'm trying to say is if you say it, mean it. That applies to several points in your story.

I feel sorry for this guy you used to get the aquas attention.